Letter To The Ladies Volume 5. (Because you're
30 and single doesn't mean you should throw in
the Towel) - written by Flamboyant Psychologist
Adejoro Olumofin
As a result of the pressure from friends,
family and close associates, when some ladies
reach age 30 and there are no visible suitors
in sight, they develop some Personality Traits
or Defense Mechanisms which may not be in
their best interest because they conform to
societal views and build a mindset that
makes them see less of themselves like they
think society does. They then believe there's
little or no hope at all for them anymore and
they are emotionally tired of making
themselves available to potentials..
For example they stop going out totally, stop
bothering about their makeup or fashion acumen,
they say things like " I'm too old to do this, I'm
too old to attend this function / event" or too old
to go to the club, looking down on every guy who
may not be their preference because they have
achieved alot at their age and some guys may not
meet their standard or pay grade and all other
excuses.
What they don't know is that by staying indoors
and saying i'm too old for this and that, or being
overly picky, they lose out on chances to network
and socialise so how will they meet people or even
Mr. Right? If you're interested in settling down,
no guy will break into your house to court you.
From my first hand experience, i have some lady
friends who are 30 years old and above who still
look smashing and stunning and also give 21 year
old Ladies a run for their money, they also have
loads of potentials and suitors.These ladies have
not allowed the " 30 year Old syndrome" and
societal pressure get to them, rather they are
living gracefully while trusting in God.
Ladies, If you don't see the good in yourself or
your potentials, no one will. Say no to the societal
pressure and live life rather than get broken.
You wont overcome this phase if you're emotionally
broken.
Lets encourage our sisters and friends dealing
with this "Pressure" because society and its norms
are not too friendly towards them.
In my opinion 30 is the new 25 and age is just a
number and state of mind. The way you carry
yourself emotionally, physically, spiritually and
Psychologically determine how a guy will treat you
not your age.
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