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SOME WRONG REASONS FOR GETTING MARRIED-

The choice of a life partner is one of the greatest 
test you must pass-through.
The choice of a life partner will have a long,long 
impart on everything you do, and everything you 
will ever become inlife.
The person you chose to go with in life as a partner 
will determine either you will make HEAVEN or go 
to HELL. 
1.BECAUSE OF LUST-Some wants to to marry all 
because of sex.When you get married on the 
foundation of sex and your partner cannot stand 
you,so they start going outside because they are 
not satisfied.So that marriage BREAKS UP. 
2.LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT-When you just see 
someone you have not met in life and you say,I 
feel that you are my wife or my husband. 
3.LIKE THE IDEA OF MARRIAGE-When you say,I 
just want to have a woman standing beside me as 
we walk on the street.(e.g)When they ask you why 
do you like the army,you say the uniform looks so 
goo,you forget that when there is war.You will be 
sent to the war to fight and you may get killed or 
live. 
4.FEAR OF REMAINING UNMARRIED-When you 
being to count your age from 21 to 28 and you 
have not yet find anyone suitable for you,you start 
being fearful.You will begin to to say,what do I 
need to change?maybe my hairstyle or my way or 
walking. 
The kind of fear have made many glorious woman 
get married to a mistake person.Psalm 37:5;Prov 
3:5;2 Cor 10:12.Stop saying my junior sister have 
married and am yet to marry. 
5.PRESSURE-Its a great mistake to just sit down 
and write down that by so and so month,I must get 
married.You have personally without God Almighty 
fixed a date or stage in your life,when that day 
begins to get close to you and nothing seems to 
happen.You begin to get ANXIOUS,then 
ANXIETY,then AGITATION follows then PANIC from 
that stage you do a great mistake. 
6.ESCAPE FROM BEING JILTED-Maybe you have 
been jilted by somebody in the past and nw you 
have seen another person,its not a reason to rush 
into marriage.A real man will never jilt a woman. 
7.BECAUSE OF MONEY-How can you be marrying 
someone all because of money. 
Money can buy spectacle but can't but eyes,money 
can buy bed but can't buy sleep,money can buy 
pews for you in a church but can't buy you 
salvation,money can buy food but can't but 
appetit,money can buy text books but can't buy 
brain.There are so many things that money cannot 
buy.Money does not guarantee happiness in 
marriage. 
8.ESCAPE ROOT-Many have use their getting 
married as a root to escape from their parents or 
family members.They say,am tired of my 
parents,the work am doing at home is too 
much.When I get married now,I won't be able to 
get disturb by their useless odd jobs.Many of such 
people later find out that they are just jumping 
from fire pan to fire. 
9.OUT OF PITY-You don't marry someone out of 
pity,its never going to work out in such way.I knw a 
man who married a lady because she was an orphan 
only to get married to a witch,who turn his life 
into a miserable story.They now beg for food 
before they can eat. 
What a tragedy to marry out of pity. 
10.BEAUTY OR HANDSOMENESS-Any marriage 
establish on that level will never stand.Many ladies 
are make-up human not natural beauty. 
11.TRIBAL CONNECTION-Some people will only 
want to get married to somebody from their town 
or their village or their clan. 
This is always very wrong.Let God lead you. 
12.PARENTAL SATISFACTION-Maybe your dad 
works for a rich man or his rich friend because of 
connection now wants you to get married to his 
son.That happens many times. 
13.TO HURT YOUR PARENTS-When you get hook to 
somebody all because you want to hurt your 
parents. 
14.ACCIDENTAL PREGNANCY-Because you were 
pregnant for somebody is not a reason to go ahead 
to get married to that person.Well,you have made 
a mistake,you have had a child of fornication which 
the Bible calls a Bastard.There are plenty of this 
events today in the world and even among children 
of God. 
15.FOOLISH EXPECTATIONS-To get married to an 
unbeliever or a non christian and be expecting  you will change the person.Are you the one who 
save yourself? 
You see a man while still in courtship that before 
you say anything,he slaps you and beat you up and 
you are still expecting him to change,am sorry,they 
don't normaly change but rather get worse.That is 
very bad and foolish expectation that are always 
filled with regret. 
You need to cry to God now. 
O GOD MY FATHER,WHERE OTHERS HAVE 
FAILED,I WILL MAKE IT IN JESUS NAME,AMEN.
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SOME WRONG REASONS FOR GETTING MARRIED-

The choice of a life partner is one of the greatest test you must pass-through. The choice of a life partner will have a long,long impart...

Your Marriage Is Dying

No suspense, I got the title of today�’s topic 
from a small story on Will Smith and Jada Pinkett 
Smith, American entertainers and celebrity 
couple. Will was once married, but divorced three 
years later. But he and Jada have been married 
for 18 years, an eternity by Hollywood standard. 
Okay, not only Hollywood; 18 years is a long time 
to sleep and wake up every day seeing the same 
face; it is a long time to stick with only one lover.
Even though Will and Jada �have built a 
reputation as being one of Hollywood's most 
unshakable couples, Will Smith recently admitted 
that within their highly talked about marriage, 
there have been times so rocky that their 
relationship has pretty much died at points.
However, instead of calling it quits, these two just 
find a new way to make things work...
“He told The Sun newspaper: �ewhatever you 
have is gonna die and you are gonna have to 
rebirth something new. You have to be willing to 
ride the waves. There�'s gonna be some flat 
days and some stormy days, and that has to be 
OK�.
�Additionally Jada� has previously said Smith is 
more than just a husband to her. She explained: 
�"We used to have all these rules, [but] as you 
go on in your relationship, you just get into a 
flow. Will, to me, encompasses everything. It�'s 
almost as if calling him �'my husband�' is too 
small of a word for what he means in my life�. I 
think I had a very stuck idea of what a husband 
looks like, what a wife should be. Once I broke all 
of that, a whole new world opened for me and my 
man, oh man! I got to see him in all his glory. And 
so that�f's what it�'s evolved into. And I�'m 
just ecstatic about it.�
When I meet people who claim that their marriage 
is all smooth sailing all the time, I shake my head 
in pity, because they are making complete fools 
of themselves and such marriages never grow 
because the foundation is fake and defective. 
How can a car being driven by two people 
simultaneously not have hiccups? You will get 
worked up sometimes, the relationship can hit an 
all-time low, you can get bored and tired of your 
spouse and feel like walking away from the 
marriage, your differences can get increasingly 
�girreconcilable�h, your spouse can get on your 
nerves with lifestyle changes and other changes 
like piling on the weight. The list just goes on and 
on.
Every marriage �dies at certain points; happily 
the parties involved can resurrect it.
Going through the brief story, a few tricks for 
refreshing marriages stick out: Their marriage is 
real, not an illusion. The relationship transcends 
husband and wife; they are friends, companions, 
partners, confidants and soul mates. 
There is 
trust and the wife respects her husband... That 
is why the word, husband, is too limiting and �too 
small�h for Jada to describe Will.
I have always believed that your spouse should 
mean the world to you; your spouse should be a 
light you put on the lamp stand, not hide under 
the table. You should celebrate your spouse. If 
he/she is not measuring up, sort out where the 
shortcomings are from and make amends.
The other lessons from their story are: they are 
no quitters. When the going gets tough, they find 
a way to get going. You should go into marriage 
with the mindset of �no retreat, no surrender.� 
That way, like a surfer, you will be prepared for 
waves that must inevitably come your way. The 
final lesson from the celebrity couple is that 
change is inevitable and we should brace up for 
it.
To keep your marriage alive and healthy, also note 
that it is like your body; you feed it with good 
food. Feed it with junk food and it will become 
unhealthy; starve it and over time it will die.
Nourish your marriage, tend it well and give it 
good grooming. Like your body too, these actions 
should not be once in a while, they should be 
regular.
Communication is the live-wire of a marriage. As 
long as couples are talking, the marriage is alive.
Stop talking and the marriage dies. 
Seek first to understand your spouse before 
seeking your spouse�'s understanding. It helps 
greatly to know where your spouse is coming from.
Also sexually active couples should keep a constant 
eye of their love life, its death sometimes 
precede the death of the marriage
Life is too short and marriage even shorter to 
waste on hating instead of loving, enduring 
instead of enjoying, denigrating instead of 
celebrating, grudging instead of forgiving, 
making war instead of making love.
[Marry right if you want to enjoy the true bliss 
that comes with matrimony].
By Francies Ewherido
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Your Marriage Is Dying

No suspense, I got the title of today�’s topic from a small story on Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith, American entertainers and celebrit...

Ladies Only: 5 Sure Ways To Know A Guy Likes You

Sometimes, men are impossible to figure out. 
Unless they directly hit on you, it’s a nightmare 
trying to know for sure if they’re interested. 
Ever thought that your best guy friend held your 
gaze a bit too long or went out of his way to spend 
time with you? 
Have you ever wondered if his feelings run deeper 
than friendship? 
Dating coach, Kezia Noble reveals how to spot 
those tell-tale signs that he may be after 
something more than just platonic friendship.
1. You like: There is a huge difference between being a concerned friend who can put 
forward a strong case as to why they feel you need to be cautious about a certain 
guy, and a friend who sneers and makes fun of every guy who shows any interest in 
you. Is he too keen to always ensure that you remain single? It’s a classic sign he 
want you for himself.
2. He wants to spend a lot of time with you: Men like to spend time with their female 
friends, but they usually don’t like spending time doing girlie things with them like 
shopping for hours or watching chick flicks on a Saturday night. If you notice that 
he jumps at the chance to see you regardless of how many shops you drag him into 
and how many chick flicks he has to tolerate, then beware. Unless he’s secretly 
gay, of course!
3. He doesn’t show any interest in your female friends: Most guys endlessly nag their 
female friends for introductions to their other friends, always asking them to ‘put 
in a good word’ on their behalf – and casually dropping by when you are hanging 
with your girls. However, if your male friend prefers to spend time with you alone 
rather than in the company of your beautiful single girlfriends, he probably has 
tunnel vision for you.
4. He tells you what you want to hear too much: We all like to flatter our friends and 
give them little boosts of confidence here and there, but most men traditionally 
don’t always ‘get’ or appreciate the same tings women do. If he seems to LOVE 
everything you do and wear and say, then infatuation can be to blame here.
5. He’s always the first to comment and like your social media updates: This is a clear 
indication to others that you and he are closer to each other than other people. 
Monitor his comments too. Do they suggest that something is going on between you 
that clearly is not the case? Does he respond to your updates more than the 
updates of his other friends? The answers to these questions can reveal a lot.
Of course, at the end of all of this, you still have to decide whether you return his 
interest.
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Ladies Only: 5 Sure Ways To Know A Guy Likes You

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Couples Only: 9 Health Benefits Of Having S.eX Regularly… [18+Only]

It can also help you sleep better at night and wake up healthier in the morning. 
Studies also show that those who have an active se x live longer and may even have 
more successful careers. 
Se x is fun and feels incredible — that alone is plenty reason to have more of it. But 
if you need additional incentive, it has an incredible array of benefits to our health 
and well-being. 
Aside from giving you a youthful glow, sex is also a great way to stay flexible and 
burn calories. 
It can also help you sleep better at night and wake up healthier in the morning. 
Studies also show that those who have an active sex live longer and may even have 
more successful careers. 
Below are nine additional health benefits of regular se x:
1. It boosts immunity : “Research suggests that those who have had sex recently have 
higher levels of immunoglobulin A, an antibody that can help ward off common cold 
and flu symptoms,” says Astroglide’s Resident Sexologist, Dr. Jess.
2. You’ll live longer: Improved longevity, balanced hormones and lower stress levels. 
“These benefits are associated with the good night’s sleep that often follows a romp 
in the hay owing to the increase in oxytocin levels!” says Dr. Jess.
3. Couples who are in a happy relationship have a decreased risk of cardiovascular 
disease, higher survival rates after serious surgeries and greater longevity owing to 
healthier eating habits, stronger social networks and an increased likelihood of 
seeking medical care, says Dr. Jess.
4. Pain relief: Se x can be used as a pain reliever especially during orga sm when 
levels of oxytocin get exponentially elevated, says John W. Beiter, Ph.D., CST, 
Licensed Psychologist and AASECT Certified Se x Therapist. So, stop using those 
headaches as an excuse not to play! 
5. Anti-aging : “Studies have shown that couples having more se x can look seven 
years younger!” says love and se x coach Kim Anami. 
6. Exercise : According to psychologist and se x therapist Dr. Estella Sneider, by 
having se x at least three times per week it helps burn calories and we get the 
benefit of using more than 500 muscles! 
7. It’s great for your career: “Dr. Helen Fisher, an anthropologist and biologist, 
states that people who have se x regularly are more successful at work,” says 
Sneider. According to her, sex helps trusting oneself and increases self–esteem. 
8. Beauty treatment: Regular se x increases estrogen production, which makes your 
hair shiny and your skin smooth. “The pheromones you release act as a natural 
perfume, so more people are attracted to you!” adds Anami. 
9. Stress relief: The oxytocin released at orgas m wipes out cortisol, which is the 
major stress hormone, says Anami.
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Couples Only: 9 Health Benefits Of Having S.eX Regularly… [18+Only]

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8 Guys You Must Never, Under Any Circumstances, Fall In Love With

1. The one who messages you once a year to say 
something incredible. 
Every so often, you’ll wake up to a text or a 
Facebook message from him, something about how 
he thought of you last night, or how he wants to 
see you, or when are you going to be in his city? 
It will fill you with a sudden whoosh of excitement 
and hope. But no matter how carefully you’ll try 
to reply to his messages — to seem casually 
interested, but not like you’re invested in his 
sudden attention — he’ll always fade away again, 
and you’ll somehow be left feeling desperate, 
even if he’s the one who reached out to you. 
You’ll delete his number from your phone to 
prevent yourself from drunk texting him, but 
you’ll still look at his profile every now and again.
2. The one who doesn’t like your friends. 
He’ll hang out with them from time to time, 
because to not see them would be unreasonable, 
but he 
won’t like it. He’ll pout and text a lot and demand 
your attention, and then when the two of you are 
walking home, he’ll say nasty things about them. 
One time your friend will come over late at night, 
crying because she just got some very, very bad 
news, and the two of you will sit on your couch, 
drinking wine and talking until 3 AM. You’ll tell 
him about it the next day, and he’ll make an 
offhand comment about how your friends are “so 
fucking dramatic.”
3. The one with the interesting tattoos, who 
makes you say “yes.” 
One day you’ll be standing outside of a house 
party, drinking a beer and talking to people you 
don’t really know. He’ll be sitting next to you on a 
cooler, wearing a frayed, deep-cut t shirt that 
shows off all of his interesting tattoos — black 
lines, strange symbols, words written too small to 
read from your distance — and rolling a small 
cigarette on an open pack of Drum. You’ll look 
down at him for a second too long, and he’ll say 
“Want one?” It will feel like some kind of royalty 
has chosen you out of a crowd. You’ll say yes, even 
though you don’t really smoke, and for the next 
three months, you’ll do a lot of things that you 
don’t really do, just because you want him to think 
of you as 20 percent cooler than you are. And 
then he’ll sleep with someone else, and you’ll be 
devastated, mostly because it won’t even count as 
cheating — you never even declared yourselves a 
couple in the first place.
4. The one who changes around his friends. 
Your relationship will be like a secret that only the 
two of you can ever know about, and every time 
he’ll be in the same room as his friends, it’ll be 
like a light switch has suddenly been turned off. 
He’ll be cold, and sarcastic, and not want to do 
any of the charming, silly things the two of you 
like to do together in private. “I’ve seen you 
naked drinking milk in front of the refrigerator, 
you asshole,” you’ll think, “Don’t you act like 
you’re cool all of a sudden.” And suddenly, all 
you’ll want is for him to be kind in front of them, 
to prove that you’re not insane, and that the 
version of him you know in private really does 
exist. Then he’ll use the word “pussywhipped” in 
conversation once or twice, and you’ll realize that 
will never happen.
Then he’ll use the word “pussywhipped” in 
conversation once or twice, and you’ll realize that 
will never happen
5. The one who is already with someone. 
You’ll think that you can change him. You’ll think 
that, if you only present yourself as the perfect 
alternative to his current situation, he’ll leave her 
and fall madly in love with you. But all that will 
really do is make you hate her for no reason, and 
at best, make him cheat on her when he has the 
time. You’ll make your friends promise you that 
you’re not the other woman, even though everyone 
knows that you are, and somehow the only person 
who will get out of this situation without making 
any enemies will be him. And in four years, you’ll 
cringe at the person you were during that time.
6. The one who drinks too much coffee and is 
always working on a project. 
You’ll meet him in the back of a coffee shop, 
looking intensely at his computer screen and 
drinking what is likely his third Americano of the 
afternoon. He’ll be wearing earth tones and 
glasses, and everything about him will feel warm 
and passionate and deep. You’ll ask him questions 
and all of his answers will be vague, and challenge 
the very construct of the question itself. He will 
be “freelancing” and “between projects” and 
“working on something right now,” but you’ll never 
see anything tangible come of it. You’ll leave him 
a few months in, and a year later, you’ll see him 
at the same coffee shop. Only this time, it won’t 
seem intense or earthy, it will just seem sad.
7. The one who gets you into music, but doesn’t 
really share it. 
He’ll seem so thoughtful and cultured, and play 
you records (real ones, because the sound is 
just that much better) while the two of you share 
a joint on the mattress in his bedroom. You’ll be 
afraid to talk during any of the songs, because 
you don’t want to mess up the mood or seem like 
you don’t “get” it, and you’ll spend nights at 
home poring over his favorite bands’ catalogs to 
seem like you are as much of a real fan as he is, 
and not just pretending to like them. And when 
you break up, you’ll come to hate that whole 
genre of music — mostly because you’ll be ready 
to admit that you never liked it in the first place.
8. The one who “isn’t ready.” 
Everything will go perfectly, and make sense, and 
you’ll let yourself forget all of the signs from the 
beginning that it was never going to be serious. 
You’ll pretend not to notice when he doesn’t call 
you his girlfriend unless you do it first. You’ll 
pretend not to be bothered when he doesn’t offer 
to introduce you to his parents when they’re in 
town. You’ll pretend not to be devastated when, 
six months later, your whole relationship is 
reproduced with someone different than you, and 
he calls her his girlfriend every time he talks 
about her. You’ll keep telling yourself that he just 
“wasn’t ready” to settle down with someone, until 
you are finally far enough away from it to admit 
that he did want those things — he just didn’t 
want them with you.
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8 Guys You Must Never, Under Any Circumstances, Fall In Love With

1 . The one who messages you once a year to say something incredible . Every so often, you’ll wake up to a text or a Facebook message fro...

If You Behave In These 3 Ways Around Girls, They Will Hate You Like Crazy

In this thread I am going to be revealing 3 major mistakes guys make that is ruining 
their chances of getting the girl they like to like them back.
As a matter of fact; the problem with these mistakes is that most guys make them 
and still don’t know it is the major reason why girls they like don’t take them 
seriously. Infact, they think it is romantic to make these mistakes 
I received a lot of messages this week from guys who have been having the problem 
of “not been taken seriously by a girl they like” 
That is not a nice feeling, trust me. To like a girl and not been liked in return can be 
very frustrating.
As a matter of fact, if a girl initially likes you and you behave in these 3 ways I am 
about to reveal right now – it will turn her off in an instant.
The messages I got were over a hundred plus…and guess what? 
Every single one of them were doing all these 3 mistakes…all of them.
And so I decided to write about it, at least, to save them and some other guys out 
there from falling into the same pit.
Are you ready? 
The three mistakes are these: 
1. Chewing Guming. 
2. Surrendering 
3. Not getting it. 
Don’t mind those names; I know they sound silly *smiles* just Stay with me, I will 
explain them one by one.
- CHEWING GUMING. 
Find any girl and ask her right now – like, get any girl in here now and ask her how 
she regards guys who behaves in these following ways.
One; If a girl doesn’t reply your messages and you start sending her messages like: 
– “talk to me now”, 
– “why are you treating me this way”. 
– “Hey, hey. I just sent you a message. Reply now” 
AUTOMATICALLY – she regards you as a pest – and when a girl starts seeing you this 
way there is no way she is going to EVER date you. 
Why?
Because behaving this way makes her see you as someone who doesn’t have self worth.
She sees you as a beggar of love and attention and girls hate guys who beg for 
attention. It’s just not manly, it makes you appear like a boy – like a kid.
Two; If you call a girl too much: initially she might like this but when you keep doing 
it over and over again, she starts to loose regard for you.
You need to make her miss you sometimes, bro. Most guys are guilty of this. They call 
a girl up and spend 20 minutes boring the poor girl to death – they even do it four 
times a week. Some call a girl twice every single day, Some even make it a duty to 
call up a girl every single day to ask her if she has eaten and how her day went.
Guy, it’s boring jare. Even if na you sef. Do you like a girl who is always bugging you 
and showing how crazy she is about you? Of course not, you keep her aside and go for 
other girls who are more of a challenge. That’s the same way girls view you when you 
do this, as somebody to be kept aside for Better guys to come in.
No matter how interesting your conversations are, you need to make your calls 
sparse. If she is just a friend; fine – you can call her everytime you want. 
But if she 
is someone you intend to date then you need to make her miss you sometime, make 
her look forward to your calls.
That is how you appear like a boyfriend material. Keep showing up all the time and 
she will start feeling like the only thing you do with your life is to chase her, next 
thing she would tell her friends you don’t have a life. 
Three; Asking a girl if she likes you.
This one is another frequent kind of chewing 
gumming that most guys do.
This question makes a girl uncomfortable, big time – especially if she is not yet into 
you.
Girl I was seeing showed me one particular text she got from a “chyker”: “Why don’t 
you love me”. The text read. “What should I do so you will like me?”
The babe laughed at the text with her hands around me while calling the guy a 
childish baby. Now, that pained me. My fellow guy been insulted by a girl is one thing 
I don’t like seeing.
When you ask a girl questions like: 
– “do you like me?”. 
– “why are you treating me this way” 
– “I’m I your type?” 
– etc etc… 
It kills every chances of her ever been interested in you – EVER 
The other day a guy showed up and was on his knee begging my cousin to date her… 
the way she laughed at him when he left was heartbreaking…
Actions like this puts a girl off and makes her look down on you. And trust me; a girl 
never dates a guy she looks down on.
Unless you are rich and she wants to turn you 
into her maga (even at that, she will still treat you like trash and channel your money 
to another guy she likes)
NUMBER #2 MISTAKE: SURRENDERING. 
This is one major mistake most guys make when it comes to the girls they like 
and you know what? This one mistake is the main reason why most girls turn 
them down.
If you keep making this mistake girls will either keep looking down on you or 
would prefer to be just friends with you instead of dating you.
Let me make this clearer: 
Every girl loves a man; a real man. Someone who is in control and not someone 
they can control.
A girl will not see you as a man who is in control if you keep struggling and 
trying to impress her all the time.
It’s cool to try and make an impression on a girl, be caring on her and all BUT 
this doesn’t mean you should become and act like her slave.
Alright; let me give you an example. 
Some guys get offended by a girl they like, get tongue lashed by the girl and 
still beg her for forgiveness (even though they were wronged) – this is not 
romantic, it’s foolish. And when you act this way, girls will never feel butterflies 
with you. Even if they date you, it would be out of pity – and bro; that 
relationship won’t work 
That’s just one.
I have seen cases where a guy always tried to please a girl, giving in to her 
every request, basically worshipping her… 
…And still he got dumped.
When you surrender your manliness to a woman and becomes her slave; it will put 
her off. Yes, she might like you as a friend but not as a boyfriend – no woman 
dates her slave. 
You have to project value.
– If a girl makes you angry, tell her – don’t just smile and act like you like what 
she did.
Be a man. Be in control. Don’t go around begging her for love; because you see 
guys doing it in movies doesn’t mean it works in real life.
Every girl will tell you they want a guy who worships them but still, worship them 
and see how it goes – worship them and they will tell you that they like you as a 
friend but can’t date you.
Look for any pretty girl who has a boyfriend she is in love with, you will notice 
that she is the one always trying to impress the guy and not the other way 
round.
Girls love a man who is in control.
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8 Things You Should Never Do For A Lover You’ve Not Married

Don’t do these 8 things in a non-committal 
relationship because, though love is spontaneous 
and doesn’t hold back, it pays to be cautious, 
especially when there is no formal commitment 
from the so-called lover.
Love is sharing, caring and living for and with 
someone.
Most people will agree also that falling in love, 
finding love, is getting more and more difficult 
– with most people preferring to go for physical 
relationships of sex without emotions.
What this means is that staying in a relationship 
for long is almost a dream.
A few days of sex and seeming love end in 
bitterness and you’re in the love market again.
This is why, even when the relationship seems 
perfect, there are some things you must never 
do for that person — at least not until you’re 
wedded or there’s a binding document in place.
Love is about giving in and giving up a few 
things, but…
1. Don’t change your personality: Now, they say 
you should change for the one you love. Yes, 
that is true. But when the changing comes from 
you alone and it seems like you’re being re- 
manufactured, then something is wrong. No man 
or woman should attempt to change you 
entirely, unless you really have bad habits. Aside 
this, in the event that you’re separated, the 
hurt will be worsened by the fact you won’t 
recognise yourself. You’ll be nothing without 
that person. A person who loves you must accept 
the real you.
2. Don’t abandon your dreams: This is another 
one you should be careful about. Two people in 
love ca exist without killing each other’s dreams. 
It is a good thing for both of you to alter your 
careers and dreams to accommodate each 
other. But there is a limit. A true lover would 
aid your dream, ask you to abandon it. Work out 
a middle way. If you lose your dream for a 
relationship that is not yet solid, marriage 
especially, sorry will be your consolation when it 
ends.
3. Don’t abandon your friends and 
family: Hmmm, it really is sad that some people 
let love kill their relationships with kith and kin 
that they had before meeting their lover. They 
do not realise that friends are the only thing 
you can fall back to when you hit life’s road 
bumps. If a lover makes it a case to break your 
link to friends and family, please exit. They 
should find a way to accommodate your friends. 
If you lose your friends to that relationship, 
what happens if it ends?
4. Don’t set up businesses or share details of 
official information: Many people think it is love 
to expose their entire business plans and 
financial information to a supposed lover. But 
this is dangerous. A lot of people ‘love’ just to 
deceive and maybe swindle. If they have access 
to sensitive official details, like ATM card pins, 
internet bank passwords, property document 
details, etc, you are exposed to danger!
5. Don’t become a donor agency: Lovers should 
help each other, morally and financially. 
However, don’t be saddled to a leech, a tick who 
only feeds off you. You’re not a bank account 
or donor agency to anyone. As you give, make 
sure it’s reasonable, and for genuine needs. A 
lover who always returns for more is a gold- 
digger, a fraud that you don’t need. Small 
money gifts are cool, but should not become the 
norm and basis of love.
6. Don’t give unofficial loans, bad personal 
investments: Loans are relationship killers. If a 
lover wants huge sums of money from you, be 
wise and make it legal. At worst, make sure the 
money is deposited to his/her bank account, to 
leave a trail that can be used to retrieve it in 
case you guys fight. To withdraw N200,000 and 
give to your lover in cash as a loan is not wise. 
Instead, transfer via bank and write ‘loan’. If 
the money is big a signed IOU might be 
necessary. Also avoid foolish investments like 
setting up businesses or funding projects 
without legal documents. This may look rigid, but 
many people have killed ex-lovers because they 
could not retrieve their ‘investments’.
7. Don’t give unfettered access to private 
emails and social media accounts: In these 
modern times, social media accounts are very 
sensitive. It should be as personal as possible. 
Making it a public affair for a transient lover is 
bad, bad and bad. Imagine the damage they 
could do if you break up? He or she could for 
example lock you out of your own account or 
even send out compromising messages through 
your account.
8. Don’t reveal compromising information or 
damaging materials: When we fall in love, there 
is the temptation to talk too much, way too 
much than we need to. There should a lot of 
discussion between people in a relationship. But 
some things should never be said to some people 
who are not yet fully committed to a 
relationship. Sharing intimate secrets will put 
you up for future attacks. Ex-lovers are fond 
of sharing demining information, like nudes or 
private talks.
Love doesn’t hold back, it is spontaneous, it is 
forgiving and every other good thing.
But it pays to be cautious, especially when there 
is no formal commitment from so-called lover.
To be in love is to love with wisdom and caution…
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Six Old Ways You Can Woo A Lady Of Your Choice Without Much Stress

1] by poems... 
Poems is another old means of communication, 
you can expressed all your emotions,pains,angers and love via poems. 
Ladies re much touch when they read your composed poems. 
A very well composed poems with a good handwriting and rythmes can woo a lady 
you love so much without stress.
2] By love letter. 
I know this is an oldest means of love communication. 
But yet have more positive effects on lady’s emotions and feelings til 
date,instead of you getting her number,her blackberry pin’s number and 
facebook’s username.You dont need that, 
To be sincere with you, 
Ladies of nowadays re not move easily by every single words you types on 
whatsap or facebook any longer except th few naives ones,cos, 
they will ordinarily see it as a mere words for chating sake. 
Moreover,you re serious about the words you types. 
However,in recent time, guys tend to expressed their feelings through facebook 
and whatsap after getting their contacts,and still failed to woo the lady’s 
heart,But if you arrange your love letter with a decent and lovely 
handwriting,adding emotional love and expression to your words lyrically.I bet 
you,the girl of your dream is yours,cos the lady you wrote the letter to, 
will be so much impressed with your handwritting and belief in every single 
meaning of the words you wrote in there.. 
Goodluck.
3] By phonetext.. 
this means of expression or communication through text messages used to be 
taking seriously by ladies before,anyway it s not too old,cos i remember back in 
the days when mtn,glo and airtel was new in nigeria, 
you send your girlfriend an early morning text messages, 
she will either called you to know if you mean what you wrote or she would 
looked at it childishly and smiles at it with excitedness when she is reading it. 
i’ve observed this medium from my cousins and my lovely girlfreind back then in 
school days,but it seems to be outdated cos our network competitors provider 
such as mtn,glo and airtel tends to give us free sms,hence it has reduced the 
tastes of the convincing words behind a phone text messages,since it became a 
common usages like whatsap and facebook chat.Hence,few teen girls still belief 
in phone text message til date.
4] the lady’s friend. 
yu can woo a girl,if yu know her girlfriend. 
Get close to her friend,then Expressed how you feels towards her girl friend 
and let her friend be able to convince her for you by doing the talking whìle you 
re doing the acting or demonstrating your feelings towards her,hence she will be 
yours without stress cos she will believe her girlfriend’s words more than 
whatever you may say to her verbally..
5] the Gift. 
there are many gift in the markets but there re special ones meant for the 
kind of a girl you admired or beloved. 
How can yu get that special gift for her Is the next question that linger in 
our minds. 
first of all,found out what she love best/most,and if it s something that makes 
her happy,then get it for her, 
to make her happy and see how your dream girl will be yours forever.
6] caring. 
this is also a means of wooing a lady or a guy you love so much. 
It s an oldest means of expressions and communications Even in those days. 
this is the kind of bodily expressions that gives a bodily languages to the heart, 
You dont need to talks too much about your feelings here,but from the way you 
acted towards her and your steps of taking good care of her,whenever she needs 
you at that moment, 
is the only way you can expressed your feelings to her. 
As time goes on,she will begins to notice that,she is very important to 
you,hence,she tends to beloved and be soft hearted towards you..
Caring is one of the motion that can move the unrequited love away and joins 
the heartbeat and emotions together to form an endlesslove in the soul..
goodluck.. with a good partners or soulmate..
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Beware! These 10 Things Can Destroy Your Marriage

One of the major causes of divorce in our society these days is not sexual 
infidelity, but poor or the lack of good communication between couples.
Marriages also fail if the two people involved went into the union with the wrong 
intentions.
Here are 10 other reasons why some marriages may end in a divorce.
1. Marrying for the wrong reasons: For instance, marrying for money is a 
ticket to a quick divorce. However, when you marry because it is what 
you want and believe you should do, it’s a different ball game. Many 
marry for money thinking they would ‘live happily ever after’ but are 
shocked afterwards that there really is no such thing if love is not 
present.
2. Lack of individual identity: A codependent relationship is not healthy. 
When you don’t have your own interests or the opportunity to express 
yourself outside of your relationship, it becomes ‘suffocating’. If you are 
not comfortable doing things without your partner, or you don’t know 
what kind of music, movies, or food you used to like, you are likely in 
deep and you probably feel like you are drowning and don’t know why.
3. Getting lost in the roles: Just as many couples ‘forget’ their single 
friends and single ways when they get married, when you add children 
into the mix, most parents soon neglect or completely forget that they 
are a couple. As children grow and need less attention, many husbands 
and wives find that they have grown apart and they can’t remember why 
they ever got married in the first place because they no longer have 
anything in common.
4. No shared vision of success: “Everything changed when we got married!” 
He drives you crazy because you’re a saver and he’s a spender. Your idea 
of a weekend getaway is a cozy night in at a homely hotel; your partner 
wants to the hit the town and catch a game. He thinks it’s your job to 
cook and clean, but you disagree. Why didn’t he mention these things 
before? Maybe you should have asked. Chances are that he hasn’t 
changed Â? your expectations did. Is it possible to survive major 
differences in philosophy? It is possible, but many do not.
5. No more intimacy: Somewhere in a marriage there is a subtle change in 
the intimacy department. One person has an off day, there is a 
misunderstanding or someone doesn’t feel well. Then there’s the idea that 
he isn’t as romantic or she isn’t as sexual. Whoever is the one with the 
subtle change can trigger a downward spiral in the intimacy department. 
Men generally need sexual receptivity to feel romantic and women 
generally need romance to be sexual receptive. As long as both people are 
getting what they need, they willingly provide what the other person 
wants. However, when there is a lessening on either’s part, that can 
trigger a pulling back in the other. If gone unnoticed and unchecked, 
before the couple realizes, they are seriously intimately estranged and 
wonder what happened. This can lead to divorce as couples begin to feel 
unloved and unappreciated.
6. Unmet expectations: Somewhere written into a human’s genetic code lies 
the instruction that when a person isn’t happy, he or she is supposed to 
force his/her significant to make the changes required to make the 
unhappy person happy again. This usually takes the form of complaining, 
blaming, criticizing, nagging, threatening, punishing and/or bribing. When 
one or both people in the marriage are attempting to coerce each other 
into doing things they don’t want to do for their partner’s happiness, it 
is a recipe for disaster. When you are unhappy in a relationship, it’s okay 
to ask for the change you want. But, if your partner doesn’t oblige you, 
then you become responsible for your own happiness.
7. Finances: It’s not usually the lack of finances that causes the divorce, 
but the lack of compatibility in the financial arena. Opposites can attract 
but when two people are opposites in the financial department, divorce 
often ensues. Imagine the conflict if one is a saver and one is a spender. 
One is focused on the future while the other believes in living for today. 
One has no problem buying on credit, while the other believes in saving up 
for what one wants. Over time, this conflict can reach such heights that 
divorce seems to be the only logical conclusion.
8. Lack of physical contact: Of course, sex is great, but you also need to 
supplement it with little hello and goodbye kisses, impromptu hugs and 
simply holding hands. Couples who don’t maintain an intimate connection 
through both sexual and non-sexual actions are destined to become 
virtual strangers.
9. Different priorities and interests: Having shared interests and exploring 
them together is essential for a successful marriage. Of course, having 
“me time” is important as well, but unless you can find common passions 
and look for ways to experience them together, you’ll inevitably grow 
farther and farther apart.
10. Inability to resolve conflicts: Every couple has disagreements. The key is 
to develop ground rules so that each partner feels respected and heard. 
Sometimes it takes a third party “referee” to help define those rules 
and teach us to move through the charged emotions so resentments don’t 
linger.
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6 Things That Could Destroy Your Relationship

There are no perfect relationships, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t expereince a 
measure of peace with your partner. 
However, a lot of relationships end abruptly even when it could have been prevented, 
but because the couple are too immersed in their anger, they can’t find a permanent 
solution to their problems. 
There are some characteristics that either you or your partner may possess, that 
could ultimately ruin your relationship.
Criticism: Relationship expert John Gottman, who wrote The Seven Principles for 
Making Marriage Work, is known for determining the success of a marriage within five 
minutes of meeting the couple. One of the deciding factors is evidence of criticism. 
Gottman knows couples will complain in their relationships, but he differentiates 
complaining from criticism.
1. Mind reading: The easiest way to set a relationship on a death spiral is to play 
armchair psychic. Mind reading takes a posture of assumption instead of listening, 
judgment instead of compassion. When we try and read the thoughts, motives, and 
intentions of another person, their voice is taken away. It dehumanizes the partner 
and does not give them room for explanation. We all struggle with this one because 
it’s easier to play ‘mind reader’ than listen to your partner. If you say, “I know 
why you did thisÂ?” there’s a possibility mind reading has entered the 
relationship.
2. Unrealistic expectations: When you begin a relationship, there are certain 
underlying expectations. These boundaries get wrapped up in behavior and action. 
This might be particular chores around the house, how money is spent, or how 
children are disciplined. Problems emerge when these expectations become 
unrealistic and the partner feels crushed under the weight of their failing 
behaviour. Most likely this will lead to an unhealthy relationship.
3. Control: The desire to control your partner, according to is rooted in fear and 
insecurity. A controlling attitude has more to do with us, and less with the 
partner. When control enters a relationship, an underlying fear is buzzing behind 
the surface. It may be fear of not knowing the future. Fear of abandonment. 
Fear of being seen as a terrible spouse. Until we get a handle on our own 
insecurities the partner will suffer. If we constantly say “Don’t do that,” or “Stop 
doing this,” we might be a control freak.
4. Comparison: Comparing your current partner with a former relationship is a 
guaranteed disaster. The comparison is unfair. No one person is the standard for 
all relationships. If they were so great why did the relationship not work out? 
Testing your current relationship, based on a prior one, is a good way to kill your 
relationship before it begins. Relationships are complex because of timing, maturity 
of the partner, and emotional stability. These factors change over time.
5. Routine: All relationships get stale. When partners get comfortable with one 
another they stop doing the little things. Eventually, boredom and disinterest set 
in. But this is normal. It just means we need to mix it up. Maybe we need a new 
routine. A date night every Friday night. A vacation to an exotic locale. Taking up 
a hobby together. Or finding different ways to communicate with one another. 
Routine doesn’t need to have the last say in a relationship. Identify it. Mix it up. 
Watch your relationship come back to life.
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Men Only: 10 Sexy Things Women Want You To Do In Bed

Se x is one of those things that keep your relationship spicy and interesting, and it is 
also very important. 
Unfortunately, a lot of guys are selfish lovers and most times, leave their girlfriends 
sexually unsatisified. 
It’s no news that a lot of people cheat on their partners because of dissatisfaction 
where se x is concerned, and the numbers are still increasing. 
As a guy, what are those things you need to do to make your woman have an awesome 
time whenever you have se x? 
Here are 10 crazy things she expects you to do to give her earth-shattering orgasms:
1. Make her org asm before intercourse starts: This is by far the biggest thing 
women wish men could do more of in bed. Sadly, men don’t do this – instead, they 
clumsily run through the intercourse as fast as possible – they rush through 
foreplay and go straight for the kill. This isn’t what women want. If you can make 
her orga sm before you penetrate her, then it’s guaranteed to be good se x in her 
book, even if you don’t last as long as you’d like. Also, giving her an orga sm will 
make her more responsive and more likely to have another orga sm during 
intercourse. Se x becomes better for you, and for her.
2. Pay attention to non-obvious erogenous zones: A lot of guys only pay attention to 
‘obvious’ spots on a woman’s body when trying to give her sexual pleasure. These 
include her bre asts, clitoris and g-spot. But the truth is, women don’t want you 
to only pay attention to these spots – they want you to pay attention to their 
whole body! Why? Because there are 16 other ‘hidden’ erogenous zones on her body 
that can give her pleasure, and which can also make her more responsive to vaginal 
stimulation. 
Last longer in bed:
Women totally hate it when a man shoots off too soon because it prevents them from 
having orgasms. How would you feel if a woman got you close to an orgasm, then all 
of a sudden stopped, rolled over, and went to sleep? Yes, that’s how annoying it is. If 
you really want to drive women wild, then you should learn how to last over an hour in 
bed. Of course you can have a ‘quickie’ every now and then, but most of the time 
women will need a minimum of 30 minutes of intercourse to have multiple orgasms.
1. Tease her till she begs for it: Many women have complained that the typical man in 
bed does almost no teasing. What women want is for you to build up to a sexual 
action with teasing until she’s practically begging you for it. For instance, with 
oral se x, most men just dive right in. What would turn her on much more is if you 
kiss up her inner thighs, and breathe warmly on her va gina. Then, so lightly she 
can barely feel it, run your tongue over her clitoris. Do this until she’s begging you 
to give her more, and then give her the gratification. She’ll enjoy it about a 
hundred times more. 
2. More oral se x: A lot of guys shy away from giving their women oral se x. Their 
most common justification is: “it’s OK, I’m good with my fingers.” This is just like a 
girl telling you: “I don’t give blo wjobs Â? but it’s OK, I’m good with my hands.” 
It’s just not the same. If you know how to do it right, giving her oral se x is the 
fastest and easiest way to give her orga sms. Plus, once you make her finish 
through oral se x she’ll be much more responsive during intercourse and more likely 
to go down on you. Give your girlfriend plenty of oral se x, and she will love you 
for it. 
3. Turn her on with your words: Some men are afraid to say anything or make any 
noise in bed because they’re afraid the woman will think they’re cheesy or weird. 
But if they were to listen in on private female conversations, they would know the 
exact opposite is true. A woman rather find it strange when a guy who is 
completely silent in bed, because she doesn’t know whether or not he’s even 
enjoying it. It’s a turn-off. Think about it: would you be turned on more by a 
woman who lay there as silent and still as a corpse, or a woman who screaming your 
name in pleasure and telling you she loved what you’re doing to her? You need to 
learn how to be vocal in bed, and how to turn a woman on through sexual talk. 
4. Use more sexual eye contact: Have you ever had an org asm while looking into your 
partners eyes the entire time? It is one of the most intensely pleasurable 
experiences you can have. Any woman who has experienced this before craves more 
of it. Avoid the typical routine of turning off all the lights and just grunting and 
pounding away in the dark. Start to work some eye contact into your sexual 
encounters, and see how much it turns her on. Of course you have to learn how to 
do this in the right way, but once you do, she’ll love it. 
5. Pay attention to her after se x: After se x, she is completely open and vulnerable 
to you. A lot of guys squander this time by ignoring her after se x, or by just 
going to sleep. Women don’t ‘come down’ from sexual pleasure as quickly as men do, 
so she’s going to want you to hold her and be close to her while she does. She’ll 
definitely enjoy se x much more if you just spend a few minutes doing this. 
6. Get her to perform for you: Men are so obsessed with ‘putting in a good 
performance’ in bed, and to some extent this is not a bad thing. But if you need 
to be ‘performing’ for her all the time, then this can be a big turn-off for her. 
She wants a guy who can also set up situations where she can perform for him. For 
instance, a lot of women like giving blowjobs if the guy can get her thinking about 
them the right way. If you can get her to ‘perform’ for you like this – especially 
if she’s doing something she usually doesn’t do for other guys Â? it’ll be a huge 
sexual thrill to her. Think about the rush you get from giving her a huge orgasm. 
This is what she’ll experience if you know how bypass her inhibitions and get her to 
‘perform’ for you in bed. 
7. Learn how to give her org asms: Men typically find it hard to seek out coaching to 
become better in bed. Their egos get in the way, and they like to think that they 
know it all even if their sex lives could use a lot of improvement. From a woman’s 
perspective, this doesn’t make a whole lot of sense. After all, to learn any other 
less important skill, you would seek out information on how to do it. This is exactly 
what women wish you would do in the bedroom. Because no man was born knowing all 
the secrets of giving women org asms, and have to learn. Most men learn the hard 
way, by arduous trial and error over the course of many years. But at the end of 
the day, it’s totally worth it.
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4 Things Every Guy Wants In Bed

As a perfect lady you should understand that a normal guy doesnt asks too much to 
be happy but there are certain things you should do while with him in the bedroom.
You might think that time you sneaked a peak at some P0*n might have been an 
education on what guys want, but you would be wrong.
Here are some things 
real guys want when Cosmopolitan asked around. 
1. More blowjob. 
That should be pretty obvious.
2. Talk dirty to me. 
Turns out your guy probably won’t judge you if you say filthy things to him in bed. 
One reader said he rises to the occasion like a teenage boy when his girlfriend 
whispers dirty instructions to him.
3. They like it when you moan (in bed). 
Unlike everywhere else, moaning in bed is a great way to t urn a guy on.
4. Get on top. 
One reader said that while the s*x doesn’t feel as good for guys when the woman is 
on t op, watching her control her movements and seeing her whole body in action more 
than makes up for it.
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Ladies Only: 7 Signs You’re Dating A Player

He’s charming and sweet, you like to show him off to your friends because he’s 
a perfect gentleman and you want everyone to know.
But how can you be so sure he’s not just acting out a role, and doing the exact 
things you want?
What if he has some other ladies he’s also charming? How can you tell you’re 
the only one or ‘just one of the ones?’
1. He asks for sex on the first date: Players know that modern girls are 
fickle. Whether they put value on the immediate one night stand is 
immaterial – they know they have to push the interaction as far as 
possible to get the girl invested and maximize the chance she will return.
2. He’s evasive or mysterious about personal things: You’re unlikely to hear 
about a player’s dreams, aspirations, insecurities, etc. Good players don’t 
want to tell you anything that could be used against them, and really, 
whatÂ?s the use of opening up to someone you don’t view as a potential 
partner? 
3. Always want to meet your friends: A man who delights in the chase knows 
that a girl’s friends are never his allies. At best they are neutral 
observers, most often they are saboteurs and haters. After all, why 
should their friend enjoy some fun with a mysterious stud if they’re not 
getting any attention themselves? 
4. He’s reluctant to spend money on you: Everybody knows the player’s go- 
to maneuver is the expensive dinner first date. Players flip the script 
because they know there’s no upside to trying to buy a girl’s attraction. 
If he suggests you split a bag of skittles for dinner, you’re staring down 
sexual checkmate. 
5. He won’t see you more than twice a week: A player’s time is valuable, 
whether it’s being used for gaming other girls, making money, or 
enjoying leisure time. As part of the harem, you’re not going to get more 
than the occasional bone thrown your way. 
6. He doesn’t want to see you on weekends: The weekend is a time for 
precious rejuvenation and rebirth. For the full-time 24/7 players, this is 
when they’re beating the bushes for new prospects. For the introverted 
players, it’s the time when they unwind solo and prepare for another 
week in the game. 
7: All of your dates involve alcohol: The fact is, most players want to avoid 
getting a girl sloppy drunk. However, they also know that sharing just 
drink or two will make it easier to get sex somewhere along the line.
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6 Easy Ways To Keep Your Relationship Fun And Exciting

Relationships are hard work, but with your 
dedication it can become fun and very exciting.
How do you keep your relationship worthwhile 
and rewarding for the two of you involved?
These 6 tips will help you figure out to keep 
your relationship fun and exciting: 
1. Do something new together: Doing 
something that neither of you has ever 
done before, keeps things interesting 
and fresh. Whether it’s taking a holiday 
somewhere new or trying a new 
restaurant in town, do something totally 
different and interesting with your 
partner. 
2. Date nights are 
actually more important than you think. 
Clear your schedule, put work on hold 
and plan a nice night out. Whether it’s 
something simple like heading out for a 
movie or preparing a homemade meal, 
never cancel on date night. If you have 
kids, arrange for a babysitter to watch 
them to ensure that you get plenty of 
time alone with your spouse. 
3. Pour out your love completely: In a happy 
relationship, there’s no room for ego. 
Never hold back on expressing love and 
forgiveness, no matter how irritated you 
are with your partner. Just as you would 
want your spouse to laugh with you and 
forgive you for all your wrongdoings, 
offer up the same thing. Never hold 
back on your love no matter the 
circumstance. 
4. Communicate: Communicating freely with 
your partner is very important if you 
want to keep your long term relationship 
alive. This does not include speaking 
about everyday household chores, but 
rather, has to do with sitting down with 
your spouse for at least 15 minutes a 
day and indulging in conversation. It 
could be discussing the future, helping 
out with a work issue and so on. Keep 
things light and easy. The goal is getting 
to know your partner again. 
5. Be fully committed: If you want to keep 
your long term relationship exciting, you 
must ensure that you are fully 
committed and give it your all. Behave 
as though your relationship will end if 
you cannot fix this, and for most 
couples, that is probably the case. By 
thinking along these lines, you will put in 
plenty of effort and truth be told, itÂ? 
s the only way you should be addressing 
this anyway. 
6. Take trips together: Sometimes, all you 
need to do to revitalize your long term 
relationship is to plan an escape 
together. Whether it is a one-week 
getaway to the Carribean or a one night 
stay at your favourite hotel in the city, 
take a trip with your partner and treat 
it like a second honeymoon. If both of 
you cannot seem to take time off or if 
you have financial constraints, then plan 
a simple picnic in the park or have a 
glass of wine at your favourite lookout 
point.
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How To Make A Girl Fall In Love Without Spending A Kobo On Her

I am about to show you the same step by step secrets players use to get girls 
swarming to them like magnet. This is the same secret that gigolo guys use to land 
themselves rich sugar mummies and girlfriends 
Apply these same step by step process and you would get a girl interested in you 
without taking her out on a single date.
Yes, money can attract a girl (no doubt about that). Especially the gold-digging type 
of girls. But sometimes using money to attract girls can be annoying, we guys want a 
girl that would like us for who we are and not because of how fat our wallet is or how 
much we have spent on her. Sometimes all we want is true love and not a girl who is 
interested in our money.
If you don’t want a gold digger who is just interested in money then this step by 
step seduction secrets will be really helpful.
#1. MAKE YOUR APPROACH WITH CONCEALED INTENTIONS. 
I really want you to get this. Let’s assume you meet a girl In a bank, what case will 
she be more friendly? 
CASE 1: when you walk up to her to collect a pen? 
CASE 2: when you walk up to her to toast her? 
Of course, case one is the answer. A girl you try to toast would naturally try to be 
hard to get. 
When a girl is sure you like her she tends to raise her defence. What players do is to 
approach a girl without showing signs that they are interested in her and by the time 
she knows it – bam, she has already fallen. This is simple psychology. They approach 
her this way so they can get into her head before she starts forming. 
So how do you apply this seduction principle in real life? 
To understand this try to think about this scenario; have you ever had this happen to 
you before: A particular girl gives you green light and shows signs she likes you then 
when you toast her and tell her how much you love her she suddenly starts 
withdrawing from you. 
Ever wondered why this happens? 
Answer – because you went against the step one of the players rule- 
Players never make the mistake of allowing a girl become too sure of how much he 
feels about her. 
Here is the rule: Never tell a girl how much you love her, make her guess. The best 
time to tell her is when you are sure she feels twice the way you feel. 
Girls would tell you they can never date a guy they are not sure if they love them, 
but the truth is this – girls don’t know what they want. You have to make them fall 
in love with you.
#2: JONSE HER WHEN YOU COMMUNICATE 
Let me give you a picture of a girl’s life. 
Visit the facebook picture of a girl and you will understand how they think. Their 
pictures are filled with praises from guys and they receive those praises like it’s 
their right. 
No sweet thing you say to her is new to her. Her inbox is filled with all sort of 
praises. The average ones get at least 5 serious guys toasting them in two weeks. 
To get her attention you have to be different.
Shocked? Well, if you were a player you wouldn’t be shocked. This what players do all 
the time. 
Try and watch the way any player you know talks to girls. Notice how they talk to a 
girl and make fun of her in a playful way – no matter how pretty the girl looks – 
they don’t care, they just talk to her like she is their small sister. 
It’s simple psychology. 
People are naturally attracted to people who don’t try to impress them. The more 
pretty a girl looks the more it works on her. 
When other guys are saying sweet things to her and you show up and say things 
totally different from what she is used to hearing from guys – she starts wondering 
why and she starts trying to be close to you. 
My favourite approach is to playfully tell a very pretty girl that I have friendzoned 
her and that I don’t find her attractive. I say this in a particular way that tricks 
her into wanting to make me fall for her. (In my book, I explained more on how to use 
this trick to make pretty girls chase you – see my profile for how to get it).
#3: CONFUSE HER WITH ON AND OFF 
Have you ever wondered why girls like guys who don’t like them while when you 
shower her with attention she still ignores you.
Infact, the more you show a girl that you love her the more she withdraws from you.
Have you ever noticed that? 
Well, players have found a way to put a stop to this. This is called the ON and OFF 
strategy.
How is it used? 
Simple; by acting like you like her this moment and then the next moment you start 
acting a bit cold.
You must have seen a girl who has fallen for this particular trick from a player. They 
cry that he doesn’t call, he is unpredictable, that they are not sure if he likes him, 
sometimes he quarrels with them for no just reason.
A popular celebrity player is Chris brown. Notice how he treats Karrauche and she 
still always keep going back to him.
This is the players’ little secret. They never make a girl become too sure… 
For more steps to making a girl fall in love; Get my E-Book 
“The Bang Rule…ultimate guild to seduction for Nigerian guys”, see my profile for 
details on how to get the book.
PS: You may drop your relationship questions, pains, or basically ask for advice on how 
to tackle that babe giving you wahala – I will try as much as I can to answer the 
questions. 
Shalom, brothers
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10 Simple Things Guys Do To Deceive Girls and Take Them To Bed

Generally, women are giving and loving by nature and will bend over backwards 
to please their man. But, there are some things a man should NEVER ask his 
GF/Wife to do for him or accept from him. 
1. Force Intimacy. NEVER, EVER blackmail, coerce, manipulate or force intimacy 
on your GF/Wife if she’s ill, not in the mood, tired or asleep. It’s disrespectful, 
insensitive and selfish. And depending on the woman, you may be opening 
yourself up to a world of trouble – relationship-wise and legal-wise. 
2. Have A Baby Out-Of-Wedlock. First comes marriage – then comes the baby 
carriage. If you want to do the Daddy thing – then marry your GF FIRST. Why 
do you want her to enter the world of Single Motherhood? And how is she to 
know you’re really going to marry her as promised? 
3. Start A Family Too Soon. What’s the rush? Wouldn’t it be better to give the 
marriage time to settle in first? Stop pressuring your Wife to have a baby, 
before you two have adjusted to the whole idea of marriage. If she’s not ready 
– she’s not ready. In fact, marriage counselors advise putting off having a baby 
for at least 2-3 years, to allow young couples to strengthen their marriage 
bonds first, before becoming parents. 
4. Tattoo Your Name On Her Body. Why? Is this your way of asking your GF/Wife 
to prove she loves you or, is it a way of ‘marking your territory’? Either way, 
it’s her body, she can do what she wants with it and, if she refuses to mark up 
her body, respect her decision. 
5. Alter Her Appearance. Never pressure your GF/Wife to diet, dress a certain 
way or to get surgery. It’s her body, and she’s in charge of it. If you don’t 
appreciate her natural beauty, then you should look elsewhere for a woman to 
fulfill your fantasies. Leave her be. 
6. Have An Abortion. You knew the risk when you laid down and did the 
horizontal mambo with your GF/Wife, without birth control. Now she’s pregnant 
and you want her to have an abortion, because you’re not ready or you can’t 
afford a baby right now. If she resists, try and come up with some alternatives. 
If she still resists, Daddy-hood is now your cup of tea. 
7. Do Drugs. Why ask your GF/Wife to do drugs with you? Better yet why are 
YOU doing drugs anyway? Asking her to do drugs with you is the height of 
stupidity. If you wanted a drug addict, why pick a woman who wasn’t? And don’t 
try to manipulate her with that ol’ “If you loved me, you would!” mess. If she 
loves herself, it’s best she exits stage left and leave you with a quickness. You’re 
poison. 
8. Have A Three-some. This is tricky. Some men count themselves lucky their 
GF/Wife agreed to a three-some. Others regret the day they even suggested 
it, when their GF/Wife ends up falling for the other woman and leaving the 
relationship/marriage. Three-somes, and all acts related, can open the door to 
all kinds of nasty consequences that can threaten or end your relationship/ 
marriage. Best think twice before diving into these waters. 
9. Make A S*x Tape. You may view making a s*x tape, as a way of spicing up your 
relationship but, if your GF/Wife is like “HELL NO!” – back off. She has very 
good reasons for not wanting to make a s*x tape that could fall into the wrong 
hands. And no sneaky taping either and posting it online. Depending on the 
woman, you could find yourself dragged into court and sued for harassment, 
invasion of privacy, criminal voyeurism or defamation of character.
10. Car/Home Loan. If you’re married, this is a reasonable 
request. But why ask your GF to put her credit on the line? If you break up, 
she’ll be responsible for those payments, if you don’t pay them. Plus, she can 
sue you in civil court for breach of contract, if she ends up making the 
payments. 
11. Change Her Religious Beliefs. Religion is a very personal thing. If you wanted 
someone who would be ‘equally yoked’ to you, then you should have informed 
your GF of that fact, from the very beginning – not after a year or two, after 
she’s fallen in love with you or married you. That’s wrong, especially if you’ve 
given her the ultimatum of either changing over to your religion or going your 
separate ways. 
12. Sacrifice Time Spent With Her Family/Friends. It is the height of selfishness 
to ask your GF/Wife to give up spending time with her family and friends. Do 
you expect her to spend all her free time with you? What if she asked you to do 
the same? How would you like it? Careful. This is a major sign of a control 
freak. 
13. Act Dumb So You Can Feel Smarter. Why ask/expect your GF/Wife, directly 
or indirectly, to pretend she is less intelligent or less handy around the house, 
to make you happier? Didn’t you say you wanted an independent woman, with a 
good head on her shoulders, who is capable of taking care of things on her own? 
Now that you have one, you’re complaining? And men say women don’t know what 
they want in a man. 
14. Change Her Morals. You should respect your GF/Wife’s morals even if you 
don’t share them. Urging her to break them, is doing her a disservice. You 
should like her for who she is, and shouldn’t try to change her. Her strong 
morals should be something you admire, not something you wish to change. 
15. Give Up Her Dreams. If your GF/Wife has always wanted to be a teacher, 
don’t try to talk her into being a nurse or anything else. Don’t put her in the 
position of having to choose between you and her dreams. You may come out on 
the losing end. 
16. Stop Doing Things She Loves To Do. If you ask your GF/Wife to stop doing 
the things she loves to do – then be prepared to stop doing the things YOU love 
to do when SHE asks – because it’s coming. 
17. Put Up With Abusive Behavior From Your Family And Friends. It is YOUR job 
as a man to PROTECT your GF/Wife from ANY and ALL that insist on insulting, 
criticizing, or are otherwise abusing her, in your presence, including your family 
and friends. And you must be prepared to back up your words with actions. Tell 
your family and friends that they aren’t welcome, in your home, if they don’t 
leave their abusive behavior at the door. If not, then be prepared to watch your 
GF/Wife walk out that same door, because she does not feel valued and 
protected by you. 
18. Perform Exotic S*x Acts She’s Uncomfortable Doing. There is more to a 
relationship than the s*xual aspect. If you truly love your GF/Wife, then it won’t 
matter if she will or won’t do it, so grow up and act like someone who is mature 
enough to enter into an adult relationship. Remember that she’s a person, 
entitled to her own opinions on everything and shouldn’t be held to the “If you 
love me – you would” school of thought, just because you’re not getting what you 
want from her. If exotic s*x acts are that important to you, then maybe you 
should move on and leave her in peace. 
19. Reveal Past S*xual History. If you’re not prepared to bare all – then don’t 
ask your GF/Wife to bare all. Besides, it’s the past and none of your business. 
If you wanted a virgin, then you should have snagged one 
20. Accept You Behaving Badly. If you’re one of those men who thinks that you 
can do what you want, because you’re providing for the household – think again. 
Only a weak-minded, financially-dependent, worried-about-what-people-say- 
about-her type of GF/Wife will tolerate her man behaving badly. Strong- 
minded, financially independent, don’t-give-a-damn-what-people-say-about- 
her GFs/Wives will kick you to the curb in a hot New York minute.
Your GF/Wife may be the love of your life but, it doesn’t grant you authority 
over the decisions she makes about her life or dictate how she lives her life.
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10 Simple Things Guys Do To Deceive Girls and Take Them To Bed

Generally, women are giving and loving by nature and will bend over backwards to please their man. But, there are some things a man should ...

10 Simple Things Guys Do To Deceive GIRLS. [A MUST READ]

Now I love my sisters and I'll do anything for 
them, and they are one thing I'll always thank 
God for, coz they bring pain to the guys in their 
lives. Well, I coach them to LOCK UP their 
warehouse of abundance . As a semi-badt 
guy, guys have tricks and I'll expose them here. 
Thank me with a PM if you want more tips.
1. Using Slow Rhythm and Soft Tone : Whether on 
the phone or in-person, the first simple thing a 
guy can do to deceive you is when he lowers his 
voice tone to become soft and speaks like he's 
talking to his great grandmother who just had ear 
surgery. Ladies, you know what I'm saying... abi?
2. Smile: A genuine smile that has the sides of a 
guy's eyes stretching along, will ALWAYS deceive 
you ladies into opening up your shield. Watch for 
this one too. A smile can cost more than the price 
they call. Na after you buy you go know the 
difference between Isoko and Sokoto
3. Make you laugh: Like this post says, these are 
just simple things guys do and this one is like the 
simplest and most obvious. Ladies, trust me guys 
know this and I'm telling you a secret. (hussssh! 
listen...) Guys believe that once they can make 
you laugh, "it's finished" as put by my sweet Lord 
Jesus. Maybe that's what helped Jesus with the 
women in his life... he never made them laugh. I'm 
not sure I have an antidote coz this trick really 
works.
4. Make you talk : A guy that knows 'wasup' will 
always make you want to talk, and talk ONLY 
about yourself. Things that concern you, your 
hairdo, your makeup and how so 'beautifully 
ungodly' it is - and even what you think about the 
Big Brother House girls! This tactic is simple. So 
simple. Once they get you talking and talking and 
talking, trust me, they are ogling at your chest, 
your lips and if it's really nice, your hair.
5. Walk slowly : A slow stride in a guy signifies 
some sort of confidence. Ladies, am I right... that 
you NEVER get turned on by a guy who walks SO 
FAST! Tap! Tap! Tap! Like he was walking to 
secure the last seat before his molue leaves for 
heaven! Once a guy steps slowly like, one... and... 
two... and... one... and... two... trust me, the 
ladies start tripping.
6. Perfume: Hmmmmm... no need to talk about 
this. It's as simple as I told you it'd be. The worst 
part, even a N1200 perfume can make a girl 
think, "Hmmm... just maybe"
7. Dress cute: Whether wearing the most expensive 
or the cheapest, as long as the color goes well and 
the clothes are ironed, ladies just start 
considering. If the guy con try add good shoe with 
correct belt, aha! "It is finished" again... Thank u 
Lord Jesus!
8. Clean Skin : O boy! I don't know where to start 
from in this one. A 20-something year old lady 
almost raped me when I was like 12 years old coz 
of my skin tone! Heck, why do you think ladies 
love holding babies and cuddling them? Once a guy 
maintains his skin well, no blemish, no pimple, all 
clean, the ladies even start deceiving themselves. 
They be like, "wow... he's SO competing with me"
9. Deepened Voice : Another simple trick that 
throws girls off-balance. A guy's voice sounds 
deep, mustn't be bass, and the ladies start doing 
"ten ten" in their minds. Na wa o. Don't they 
even know this voice thing comes as early as 
puberty? God help my 18-year old bro... the guy 
must be having 'selection problem'.
10. Make U Think or Talk about S\ex! : What came 
to your mind when you saw that last word SEX . 
See what I mean? Once a guy jokes about the 
 word SEX, or writes about the word,SEX or even 
sneezes a note about the word SEX, ladies die 
once. It's like something falls off their brain and 
crashes into their "down there" causing 
irreparable damage. Of the two of us, guys and 
girls, I have to argue that girls love SEX more 
than us. They're just better at hiding it! But still, 
that's a good thing... wouldn't want my future 
virgin daughter come up to me like, "Dad, I saw 
this guy today and my body was so scratching me, 
like this and like that... I just did it to get it over 
with Dad." Mehnnn... na faint!
HMMMM... the worst part, guys will still continue 
to deceive you even after reading this. God help 
us! Comments and bashing are welcome
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10 Simple Things Guys Do To Deceive GIRLS. [A MUST READ]

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