This was written by a decent lady and will help
many young girls:
I wrote this article some months ago. I shared
it on an online forum and would like girls to
learn from it. I just don’t know why many of
us indulge in these irritating behavior.
Asking a guy you just met for recharge card
This is very annoying. It makes you look cheap. A
guy met you in the afternoon, gave you a call in
the evening and you are already asking him to
send you a recharge card. Trust me, that guy
can never respect you. He might eventually send
you the recharge card, but the only thing on his
mind would be to sleep with you once or twice
and get rid of you.
I believe guys should be the ones that should be
hell bent on beauty and physical appearance.
Dont fall for a guy chiefly because he looks
good physically. You need to access his acumen,
sense of judgment, level-headedness, dreams
etc. What makes a good guy is by far more than just looks.
Manipulating a guy to over spend for you on a date
Because he looks rich and came to the eatery in
a car makes you feel you can drain his pocket
abi. This instantaneously tells the guy that you
are a hungry girl and from a very poor
background. Cant you just order for just one ice
cream or a soft drink and be fine with this cool
dude. Even if you do not like him, do not do
this. Trust me, the guy will never call you again
and if he does he only wants to get laid just
once. The worst is taking your friend along so
that you can both finish him.
Pouting of lips to take a selfie
Do we have to do this? Its so disgusting. Okay fine, I am guilty of this too and am going to
stop. Every picture of a girl on facebook shows
her pouting her lips to look pretty. This doesn’t
make us look prettier; it only make us look
childish. I didnt realise it makes me look like a
kid until my boyfriend told me 5 days ago.
Forcing yourself on a guy that doesn’t give a
damn about you
If a guy likes you, he will show it. Dont you ever
force yourself on a guy. You can indicate some
green lights but don’t force yourself on him. If
you do he will treat you like poo. I have read
some post here on Nairaland telling girls how to
woo a guy. Dont try it. There are a million
subtle ways to make him see that you like him
than forcing yourself on him and asking him out outrightly.
Keeping too many boyfriends
Cant we just be cool with one guy we love? 8
boyfriends equals to 8 Joysticks. Jesus Christ!
How many guys are combing you?
- From a lady who has seen it all
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