If you never learn the exact way to make a girl take interest in you and
stay interested then she would always laugh at you behind your back, avoid
& reject your calls for days and would even boast to a guy she likes how
guys like you go crazy at her feet.
As a matter of fact I am pretty sure that this might be happening in your
life this very moment; some years back I used to be taken less seriously by girls.
Now; read the next paragraph slowly – these exact same things used to
happen in my own life years back; till I realised how to put a stop to it.
You have met this very special girl you really really like, as a matter of
fact it is possible that you are currently seeing her this very moment. You
belive she is toattly different from other girls and just the type of girl you
would wish to have in your life this very moment.
You have told her how much you love her and have showered her with loads
and loads of attention and have treated her like a queen. As in, the amount
of attention you have given her would melt the heart of even anybody with
a heart of stone.
But still; she doesn’t return your affections…why the hell is all the
attention you are giving her not working on her?
At a point it seems that maybe she thinks you are not really serious about
how much you claim you love her or maybe she thinks you are not been sincre
enough and so you intensify your efforts and try to show her how very
sincrere you are –
every night you send her amazingly sweet romantic texts telling her how
much you care,
you call her frequently and in very sincere tone you tell her that you would
always be there for her,
you always ask after her well being more than any other guy does, you even
buy her things even though you don’t really have much.
But still, she still doesn’t return your affections.
What do you get in return?
Nothing.
Sometimes she doesn’t even pick your calls, at times she ignores it for two
days straight (or more) and when she finally decides to pick, you ask her
why she has been ignoring your calls and what she does is to give you a lame
excuse that you both know is a big lie.
That is even if she bothers to give
you an excuse at all – sometimes she ignores the question or outrightly tells
you to your face to stop bugging her with stupid questions.
Somehow you have this feeling that she is making fun of you with her
friends behind your back; whenever you ask her to go out on a date with
you she turns down your offer with a flimsy excuse and whenever she
finally decides to accept the offer she shows up with a friend – to a date
which is supposed to be between you two!
Does that sound familiar? As a matter of fact that stuff used to happen
to me with almost every girl I wanted to get close to…every single girl. At a
point I started wondering if I was cursed, why would the girls I really like
never return my love and attention while the ones I don’t like will be the
ones to give me green lights…it just all seemed like a big curse.
When I stumbled across the solution to that very problem and reached a
point where I could walk up to any girl, talk to her and have her almost
begging to have my number in minutes – I was amazed at how simple and
easy the solution was, infact I had heard a lot of people talk about it but
when I started using it to get amazing results with girls i wondered why on
earth I had never applied it all my life.
It is fine if you want tp depend on luck to get girls. As a matter of fact, I
used to be lucky one or two times back then and ended up getting an
average girl who was “just there”, then these same girls somewhere midway
start acting cold too like the others. I even caught one who was cheating on
me.
If luck is what you want then fine; play with luck. But if what you want is
easily and effortlessly getting a favourable result every single time you go
out and talk to any girl you are interested in then read on.
It took me years of fumbling and being mistreated by girls to finally learn
how to make them take me seriously. I have gone ahead to use this one
strategy on girls and have had some of them kissing me the very same day
we met.
So what is this solution?
Simple – show disinterest.
What do I mean?
Now write this down if you can; the reason girls you like don’t take you
seriously is because you have shown too much interest. It is because they
are sure you like them, therefore, the solution to the problem of not been
taken seriously is never to show a girl you are interested in her that you are
interested in her.
Alright; let me prove to you that this is really the solution.
Maybe this might have happened to you before; try to think back to that
girl that have been showing signs that they like but you never took
seriously. The more she showed you that she was interested in you the more
it made you pull back, right?
Now; try to remember what happened when she stopped been interested in
you. didn’t you feel like chasing her?
That exact same reaction you got in your head when a girl who likes you
stops showing interest in you also happens in girls. When a girl is really sure
you like her she will never return the feelings. As a matter of fact it will
kill every single trace of the feeling when it comes to you.
Also let me prove more of this to you.
try to remember that same girl that
showed interest in you, maybe at a point when she started giving you lots
and lots of greenlights you too started returning it. At a point you even
told her you liked her, then vam – she starts avoiding you and all the green
lights she was once showing you stops in an instant.
Do you now get it? Because you started showing interest in her she stopped
showing interest in you and started playing hard to get. But when you
played hard to get in your own small way it made her mad and made her
want to come more closer to you.
The key is to show DISINTEREST. If she is sure you like her you will loose
her…this has been proved and it has been tested and it always happens.
But there is a particular way of showing disinterest. As a matter of fact,
if you go about acting uninterested around a girl you like in the wrong way
then you may chase her away or make her feel you are really uninterested
or even make her to outrightly hate you. you definetly don’t want that and
that is exactly why you need to show disinterest the right way
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