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PLEASE ADVICE: Is Breastfeeding Inside The Church, Right Or Wrong?

Behind the pew I sat this morning during morning 
mass, some noise filtered into my ears. Taking a 
look backwards, I saw a young nursing mother with 
a big "well-ovallized" bosom breastfeeding her 
baby.
I must admit, I lost concentration on the mass 
proceedings for a few minutes.
After a while, I turned back again and told her 
that it isn't proper for her to breastfeed her 
baby inside the church.
Her response was, "my baby is hungry, why won't I 
feed him?"
And my rejoinder was, "you ought to have done 
that outside the church building"
Whether she took the correction in good faith or 
not I wouldn't know because I never looked back 
again.
In your candid opinion, who was right, myself or 
the lady?
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PLEASE ADVICE: Is Breastfeeding Inside The Church, Right Or Wrong?

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042-SEX:::buchi writes!!

Many people who refuse to have sex before 
marriage do so based on religious beliefs. It is a 
sin and so they don't want to offend God.
Virgins aren't the only ones who are entitled to a 
no sex relationship. Even if he/she isn't a virgin 
they still have the right to stop sinning. Losing 
their virginity doesn't mean free access to sex 
with anyone. So in other not to sin against their 
bodies they say no sex before marriage. I hold 
such people in great admiration, they have strong 
will power.
Although what I do not understand is the same 
people who don't want to sin by not having sex go 
about kissing, smooching, romancing, getting 
naked and doing every other thing besides 
penetration. I ask is that one not a sin? Abi is it 
an act of righteousness? You don't want to sin by 
not having sex but you sin by engaging in sexual 
activities.
That's confusion if I may ask. I'm not here to 
argue the authenticity of the virginity of the one 
who does all these. To me they still are virgins if 
they haven't ever been penetrated but that isn't 
the argument here.
The argument is why share meat using your teeth 
when you have sworn never to eat it? I prefer 
hearing people tell me they don't want to have 
sex because they aren't emotionally ready for it 
yet than someone telling me they are doing it cuz 
it is a sin to have sex cuz most of them kiss, 
fondle and have oral sex. So if having sex is a sin 
why then indulge in other sexual activities?
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042-SEX:::buchi writes!!

Many people who refuse to have sex before marriage do so based on religious beliefs. It is a sin and so they don't want to offend God....

HOW TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE THOUGHTS

I used to think i was ugly. Can you believe that? Fine boy like me. (see them, you 
want to gan zoom my pix abi?) 
But really, i used to think i was horribly bad looking. Growing up, i had pimples on my 
face that were the same size as big rocks and those ''rocks'' really messed up with 
my head.
I'm in my early twenties now, the pimples are gone and these days when i look in the 
mirror i feel myself *winks* you can now zoom my pix and feel the boy.
But you see, on a more serious note - negative thoughts are some really serious 
things. Thing is, everybody has it from time to time. ''i'm i good enough'', ''i'm 
broke, she won't like me'', ''my boobs are too small'', ''why is she not moaning, is my 
stuff too small'' Name it.
Recently i started having mine, serious mind wreaking negative thoughts - this time 
it wasn't about my looks - it was about my future.
But you see, i have come to realize something: your limiting beliefs, your negative 
thoughts - you can't eliminate them just by thinking positively. As in, all these think 
positive talk is hogwash. Chill, stop looking at this write up like i just slapped you.
I have like 8 years experience of fighting negative thoughts so i know what i'm 
talking about *winks* now, let's do some praticals- stop reading this for a moment 
and in your head, try not to think of elephants.
It was hard abi, the more you tried not to think of elephants the more you thought 
of them, right. Now, what this means is there is no way to stop thinking a thought 
just by telling yourself not to think about it.
Lets take this over to positive thinking. You can't overcome the negative thoughts 
that come with trying to climb a stage and speak, for instance, just by saying - ''i 
can do it'' lia lia, it won't work. Deep down you know you can't speak in public.
Hehehe. I know you are looking at this writeup with a raised eyebrow and you are 
asking - ''oya cow, so, what works?'' *smiles* what works is Positive action. Chill, i will 
explain.
I used to have this phobia of public speaking as a tenneger. One day i went like - ''e 
don do, i need to end this fear'' so everytime before i go on stage i will say this to 
myself - ''if i fall hand make i fall hand'' then i will go on stage and speak. Of 
course, i ''fell hand'' from time.
This is where the trick comes in - after the whole speaking thing i will analyse 
everything that went fine during the speech. Things like, thank God o, i no fall for 
the stage step. 
Thank God i didn't forget my speech.
What this does is to trick your mind into 
beliving that things will always go fine during your speeches. You can't say - ''i 
believe i'm pretty'' when you know that everybody knows your face is like war.
You sef won't believe it na, so how can your subconsious? The way to fight negativity 
from your looks is to focus on something else you've got and in the long run you will 
discover you feel so good about yourself that you don't care about your face 
anymore.
For instance: an ugly babe with nice hips shouldn't say - ''i'm beautiful'', she should 
rather say- my face dey like shit but my hips na die'' shey you grab? 
A short guy shouldn't say - ''mehn, i tall gan'' nah, your mind won't believe it.
Rather he should say: ''i'm short sha but my personality can do the magic of 
tallness''
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HOW TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE THOUGHTS

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Things you need to stop doing!!

When you stop chasing the wrong things you give 
the right things a chance to catch you.
As Maria Robinson once said, “Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but 
anyone can start today and make a new ending.” Nothing could be closer to the 
truth. But before you can begin this process of transformation you have to stop 
doing the things that have been holding you back. 
Here are some ideas to get you started:
1.Stop spending time with the wrong people.– Life is too short to spend time with 
people who suck the happiness out of you. If someone wants you in their life, they’ll 
make room for you. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot. Never, ever insist 
yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth. And remember, it’s not 
the people that stand by your side when you’re at your best, but the ones who stand 
beside you when you’re at your worst that are your true friends.
2.Stop running from your problems.– Face them head on. No, it won’t be easy. There 
is no person in the world capable of flawlessly handling every punch thrown at them. 
We aren’t supposed to be able to instantly solve problems. That’s not how we’re made. 
In fact, we’re made to get upset, sad, hurt, stumble and fall. Because that’s the 
whole purpose of living – to face problems, learn, adapt, and solve them over the 
course of time. This is what ultimately molds us into the person we become.
3.Stop lying to yourself.– You can lie to anyone else in the world, but you can’t lie to 
yourself. Our lives improve only when we take chances, and the first and most 
difficult chance we can take is to be honest with ourselves.
4.Stop putting your own needs on the back burner.– The most painful thing is losing 
yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are 
special too. Yes, help others; but help yourself too. If there was ever a moment to 
follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.
5.Stop trying to be someone you’re not.– One of the greatest challenges in life is 
being yourself in a world that’s trying to make you likeeveryone else. Someone will 
always be prettier, someone will always be smarter, someone will always be younger, 
but they will never be you. Don’t change so people will like you. Be yourself and the 
right people will love the real you.
6.Stop trying to hold onto the past.– You can’t start the next chapter of your life if 
you keep re-reading your last one.
7.Stop being scared to make a mistake.– Doing something and getting it wrong is at 
least ten times more productive than doing nothing. Every success has a trail of 
failures behind it, and every failure is leading towards success. You end up regretting 
the things you did NOT do far more than the things you did.
8.Stop berating yourself for old mistakes.– We may love the wrong person and cry 
about the wrong things, but no matter how things go wrong, one thing is for sure, 
mistakes help us find the person and things that are right for us. We all make 
mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things in our past. But you are not your 
mistakes, you are not your struggles, and you are here NOW with the power to shape 
your day and your future. Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is 
preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.
9.Stop trying to buy happiness.– Many of the things we desire are expensive. But the 
truth is, the things that really satisfy us are totally free – love, laughter and 
working on our passions.
10.Stop exclusively looking to others for happiness.– If you’re not happy with who you 
are on the inside, you won’t be happy in a long-term relationship with anyone else 
either. You have to create stability in your own life first before you can share it with 
someone else.
11.Stop being idle.– Don’t think too much or you’ll create a problem that wasn’t even 
there in the first place. Evaluate situations and take decisive action. You cannot 
change what you refuse to confront. Making progress involves risk. Period! You can’t 
make it to second base with your foot on first.
12.Stop thinking you’re not ready.– Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an 
opportunity arises. Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond 
our comfort zones, which means we won’t feel totally comfortable at first.
13.Stop getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons.– Relationships must 
be chosen wisely. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company. There’s no need 
to rush. If something is meant to be, it will happen – in the right time, with the 
right person, and for the best reason. Fall in love when you’re ready, not when 
you’re lonely.
14.Stop rejecting new relationships just because old ones didn’t work.– In life you’ll 
realize that there is a purpose for everyone you meet. Some will test you, some will 
use you and some will teach you. But most importantly, some will bring out the best 
in you.
15.Stop trying to compete against everyone else.– Don’t worry about what others are 
doing better than you. Concentrate on beating your own records every day. Success is 
a battle between YOU and YOURSELF only.
16.Stop being jealous of others.– Jealousy is the art of counting someone else’s 
blessings instead of your own. Ask yourself this: “What’s something I have that 
everyone wants?”
17.Stop complaining and feeling sorry for yourself.– Life’s curveballs are thrown for 
a reason – to shift your path in a direction that is meant for you. You may not see or 
understand everything the moment it happens, and it may be tough. But reflect back 
on those negative curveballs thrown at you in the past. You’ll often see that 
eventually they led you to a better place, person, state of mind, or situation. So 
smile! Let everyone know that today you are a lot stronger than you were yesterday, 
and you will be.
18.Stop holding grudges.– Don’t live your life with hate in your heart. You will end up 
hurting yourself more than the people you hate. Forgiveness is not saying, “What you 
did to me is okay.” It is saying, “I’m not going to let what you did to me ruin my 
happiness forever.” Forgiveness is the answer… let go, find peace, liberate yourself! 
And remember, forgiveness is not just for other people, it’s for you too. If you must, 
forgive yourself, move on and try to do better next time.
19.Stop letting others bring you down to their level.– Refuse to lower your standards 
to accommodate those who refuse to raise theirs.
20.Stop wasting time explaining yourself to others.– Your friends don’t need it and 
your enemies won’t believe it anyway. Just do what you know in your heart is right.
21.Stop doing the same things over and over without taking a break.– The time to 
take a deep breath is when you don’t have time for it. If you keep doing what you’re 
doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting. Sometimes you need to distance 
yourself to see things clearly.
22.Stop overlooking the beauty of small moments.– Enjoy the little things, because 
one day you may look back and discover they were the big things. The best portion of 
your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling with someone who 
matters to you.
23.Stop trying to make things perfect.– The real world doesn’t reward 
perfectionists, it rewards people who get things done.(Read Getting Things Done.)
24.Stop following the path of least resistance.– Life is not easy, especially when you 
plan on achieving something worthwhile. Don’t take the easy way out. Do something 
extraordinary.
25.Stop acting like everything is fine if it isn’t.– It’s okay to fall apart for a little 
while. You don’t always have to pretend to be strong, and there is no need to 
constantly prove that everything is going well. You shouldn’t be concerned with what 
other people are thinking either – cry if you need to – it’s healthy to shed your 
tears. The sooner you do, the sooner you will be able to smile again.
26.Stop blaming others for your troubles.– The extent to which you can achieve your 
dreams depends on the extent to which you take responsibility for your life. When you 
blame others for what you’re going through, you deny responsibility – you give others 
power over that part of your life.
27.Stop trying to be everything to everyone.– Doing so is impossible, and trying will 
only burn you out. But making one person smile CAN change the world. Maybe not the 
whole world, but their world. So narrow your focus.
28.Stop worrying so much.– Worry will not strip tomorrow of its burdens, it will strip 
today of its joy. One way to check if something is worth mulling over is to ask 
yourself this question: “Will this matter in one year’s time? Three years? Five 
years?” If not, then it’s not worth worrying about.
29.Stop focusing on what you don’t want to happen.– Focus on what you do want to 
happen. Positive thinking is at the forefront of every great success story. If you 
awake every morning with the thought that something wonderful will happen in your 
life today, and you pay close attention, you’ll often find that you’re right.
30.Stop being ungrateful.– No matter how good or bad you have it, wake up each day 
thankful for your life. Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs. 
Instead of thinking about what you’re missing, try thinking about what you have that 
everyone else is missing
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A Daddy Wrote A Letter To His Daughter About Her Future Husband, But Every Woman Needs To Read It

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5 true things you did not know about erections and men

I bet you do not really know your penis as much 
as you think you do. Trust me, these five facts 
will surely blow your mind.
Do you really know your penis? Are you 
knowledgeable about erections? 
Well, Wha’anda has some penis and erection 
facts that may blow your mind.
1. Too much masturbation can affect your 
erection. If you masturbate too much, you 
might have problems with your getting your 
penis fully erect. According to a sex 
therapist guy who has not masturbated for 
a long time is more likely to have a stronger 
erection than the one that masturbated very 
recently.
2. Body size can affect erection size. Believe it 
or not your erection is very much affected 
by your body size. Men with obesity issues 
are most likely going to have erection 
problems too, because they will also have low 
testosterone levels. So staying fit is highly 
important.
3. Getting enough sleep is important. Simply 
put, more sleep is good for your erection.
4. Erections are weakened by too much smoking 
and drinking. It has been discovered that 
many men who suffer erectile dysfunctions 
abuse alcohol and smoked too much. Step 
down on those habits and keep your erection.
5. Oral sex can make the penis larger. Getting 
oral sex can make the erection stronger and 
make the penis longer. So you might want to 
ask for one before making out.
Feel free to pass on the knowledge.
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11 romantic things every man should tell his woman TODAY!

Many people have lost their relationships simply 
because they failed to use words, forgetting 
that the heart, especially a woman’s heart, 
needs the word-romance too, be it written or 
spoken.
Relationships fail everyday... in most cases; it 
first gets boring, then awkward before it 
crashes.
The unfortunate thing is that many people 
cannot even place their hands on the real reason 
why the relationship failed, and they blamed it 
on each other.
But Wha'anda is of the opinion that a lot of 
relationships fail because the power of words is 
replaced with silence and not-so-convincing 
action.
Actions may actually speak louder than words, 
but the heart — especially a woman’s heart, 
needs the word-romance too, be it written or 
spoken.
So, as a man, there are some things, some 
sweet, romantic words you can dish out to your 
lover in form of SMSs, just to remind her every 
now and then how important she is to you.
Here are a few:
1. I love you so much I can't even explain it.
2. The only thing I don't want to change in my 
life is you because you are perfect the way 
you are.
3. Baby, I sent an angel to guard you at night. 
It came back a minute later. I asked why 
and it answered "Sorry, angels don't guard 
other angels."
4. I feel so happy just spending time with you.
5. Pictures tell 1,000 words is what they say. 
But when I look at your pictures, I see only 3 
words "I...LOVE...YOU."
6. If you hold up 11 roses and look into a 
mirror, you'd be looking at 12 of the most 
beautiful things in the world.
7. I miss you when I'm not with you. When I'm 
not with you all I do is think about you. 
When I think about you I just want to be 
with you. And when I'm with you, it's like all 
of my dreams have come true — you should 
send this as 4 separate SMSs.
8. I can conquer the world with just one hand 
as long as you are holding the other.
9. Every day, I try my best to be a better 
man just so I can be more worthy of your 
love.
10. I always want to see you laugh because you 
look so cute when you laugh. And when you 
laugh, I am happy.
1. I'm lucky to have you. If you were a 
gemstone for sale, I would never be able to 
afford you.
So guys, activate this audio-textual romance 
today.
Start with number 1 and work your way down 
with one day intervals and you will surely leave 
an impression that would count for you on days 
you err.
The good thing about SMSs is that she can read 
it while you're not there to remind her of your 
love.
Try it, it doesn’t hurt.
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11 romantic things every man should tell his woman TODAY!

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10 Body Parts Your Man Wants You To Touch During S,ex

One of the major causes of spousal disagreement is unsatisfactory sex. 
While a lot of men pride themselves in being knowledgeable about a 
woman’s body, most women on their part cannot boast of the same.
As a lady, have you ever found yourself feeling clueless when it comes 
to playing the seduction game? Pleasing your man isn’t rocket science, 
especially when you know where the hot spots are.
If you have been experiencing a little difficulty in driving your man 
crazy in bed, it could be because you have limited yourself to 
caressing only his package. Follow this guide to help you explore other 
areas that will take him to the peak of ecstasy.
1. Neck: Neck is a sensitive area and has several nerve endings. A 
sudden light touch can give him an instant shiver. Next time, be 
sure to give him gentle and breathy kisses to get him going.
2. Ear: It’s really amazing how even a simple whisper in the ear 
can drive your man crazy, so imagine if you use a little tongue. 
That will turn him on even more. Start by talking sexy in a soft 
tone in his ears and follow it up with some tongue action.
3. Behind the ears: Don’t limit your whispering and licking to 
inside the ear but also explore the area behind his ear, earlobe 
and top of the ear. Bite the top of the earlobe lightly or breathe 
deep behind his ear next time. It will definitely drive him 
crazy.
4. Bum: A man’s bum is one of the most sensitive and highly 
ignored areas. Arouse him with a little smack when he is least 
expecting it. Also, you can massage his butt when you’re going 
down on him.
5. Skin: The skin plays an important role in the arousal process. It 
is the largest organ involved during sex. Rubbing and touching 
his skin improves blood circulation which leads to arousal. So 
feel free to touch as many parts of your partner’s skin as 
possible while in the sack. You could start with a massage and 
keep the heat going by running your hands up and down his 
back, arms and stomach during sex.
6. Feet: Giving your guy a foot massage will not only turn him on 
but will also show how much you care about him. Foot 
massages are a great balance of erotic and romantic. Next time 
your man comes home tired after a long day, surprise him with 
a foot massage and he might surprise you with a sexy time.
7. Tongue: It’s no surprise how erotic and sensual a deep kiss is. 
It is the simplest way to turn on your man. Don’t just stick to 
the same tongue motion and rhythm but spice things up by 
mixing it up. You could start by circling your tongue around his 
or lightly sucking on his tongue.
8. Lips: As previously mentioned above, kissing is a great way to 
spice things up. You can tease him by licking, sucking and 
gently biting his lips.
9. Inner thighs: While his sex organ is obviously the most 
erogenous part of his body, don’t shy away from exploring the 
area around his package. The inner thighs are extremely 
sensitive areas; maximise pleasure with a little stroking and 
licking.
10. Face: Men get turned on by the slightest touch on their face. So 
next time you’re kissing, sharing a joke or having sex, don’t 
ignore his face.
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Ladies, 10 Things You Shouldn’t Do When You Meet A New Guy

Ladies, 10 things you shouldn’t do when you meet a new guy or new catch.
(1) Don’t take your friends along with you when he invites you on a date
(2) Don’t go to his house unannounced
(3) Don’t ask him for money
(4) Don’t compare him to your ex or talk about your ex, only if he request
(5) Don’t get drunk on your first outing with him.
(6) Don’t wear see through or exposing outfits on your first outings
(7) Don’t bore him with all your family or personal issues
(8) Don’t talk about Marriage
(9) Don’t pry about the size of his pocket, his earnings or the car he drives
(10) Don’t be too quick to post his picture on instagram, Facebook, (social 
media) etc.
Some Ladies today wonder why after a guy has shown interest in them or 
after 2/3 dates he disappears or doesn’t return their phone calls, text bbms. 
I have listed some of these reasons above.
1) Don’t take your friends along when he invites you on a date: Some 
Nigerian Ladies for some reason that is beyond me, take their friends on a 
date with a guy they just met. I can attest to this because it has happened 
to me before. No positive outcome can come out of this but some of the 
negatives are:
(i) The guy will be turned off
(ii) He will never get the opportunity to know you as much as he wants 
because of the 3rd wheel
(iii) He may think you don’t have a mind of your own
(iv) He may turn you and your friends back. 
(2) Don’t go to his house unannounced: One thing a man hates the most is 
for you to show up at his house unannounced or invited especially when he 
just met you. That’s a “NO NO” because he’ll just think you’re a stalker or a 
psycho and he’ll act out.. Some ladies out of emotions and lack of trust show 
up at a guys house, what they don’t know is they are pushing him away or 
giving him reasons to leave. 
(3) Don’t ask him for Money: Some Ladies meet a guy and in less than 2/3 
weeks the demands start rolling in. Please pay for my hair, buy me birkin 
bag for my birthday, my rent is due, or plain & simply, I need 500k or 1 
million. Every guy would take off when they meet a Lady like this. 
They would say she’s opportunistic and compare her to the ladies who are not 
asking them for a kobo or dime. 
(4) Don’t compare him to your ex or talk about your ex, only if he requests: 
Some Ladies compare and contrast their new guy to their old one, not only in 
their mind but to his face as well. 
They say things like my Ladi used to take me to KFC you’re taking me to Mr 
Biggs, Jide bought me Prada for my birthday last year you’re buying me 
Zara.. Guys hate being compared, it punctures their Ego so allow him be the 
Boss and take you out, don’t compare or dictate terms of dates or gifts. 
(5) Don’t be to quick to upload his pictures on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter 
(Social Media) : Ladies, you just met a guy, a new flame, the relationship is 
at its early stages, there’s still so much you don’t know about him why upload 
his pictures for the world to see? The relationship may not even be defined 
yet.. By doing this, you’re giving people room to influence and alter your 
infant relationship. Also you don’t want to be like those people who have to 
cleanse their instagram and Facebook pages of a guys picture every 6 months 
because of a breakup. 
(6) Don’t wear see through or exposing outfits on your first date: Guys are 
very Impulsive and instinctive by nature, by wearing a dress or gown that’s 
says “SEX” that’s all that will be on his mind and nothing else. He won’t 
want to hear anything about you anymore; your personality, your job, your 
family etc. All he’ll be thinking about is how he’ll take you to his house or 
hotel room because you’ve sent him a signal saying you want sex. 
(7) Don’t bore him with your Family issues: Some ladies carry their personal 
or family problems out with them on dates, instead of making waves and 
progress with their new guy, they talk about how their house got burnt last 
week, or how their friend always borrows money or clothes from them, or how 
they hate their sisters or brothers.. All these are TMI (Too Much 
Information) Focus on him and let him Focus on you.. Don’t allow extraneous 
variables creep in and take over your conversation. 
(8) Don’t talk about marriage or the future: The number one thing guys are 
scared of after God is Commitment or Marriage so if you just met a guy and 
you’re already talking about marriage or children he is definitely going to 
take off and say you’re putting him under pressure and he can’t keep up.. 
Let him be the one to bring it up not you because he’ll say you’re desperate. 
(9) Don’t pry about his pocket, earnings or the car he drives: A friend of 
mine went on a Blind Date at Radisson (Lagos) to meet a Lady who his cousin 
had introduced him to through Instagram. He complained he had not even 
ordered a drink when his date asked him: What car do you drive? That was 
her first question.. “What do you drive?” Most guys would be offended by 
this and even have a negative impression about you immediately, because a 
guy would wonder do u like me or my car? 
(10) Don’t get drunk on your first outing with him: Firstly Ladies, this is for 
your own safety a lot of ladies have been taken advantage of because they 
were intoxicated. You also don’t want to embarrass yourself and say or do 
things that you can’t defend or verify. 
Summary:
Psychologist are of the opinion that First Impression carries 80% of any 
encounter and that after an impression is made it is very difficult to adjust 
Cognitive views and Perceptions about that subject.. Ladies don’t allow 
extraneous variables such as friends, impulses, needs, emotions, competition, 
social media, family pressure control your First Impression..
God Bless!!
Credit: Adejoro Olumofin.
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Men are most likely to cheat at age 33 and 49 - New study reveals

According to a new study, men are more likely 
to cheat on their partners just before they 
approach a significant birthday especially the 
49th birthday which is a step before getting 
to 50 ..Other big spikes were seen at age 
33/34 and age 44.
The study claims this spike in cheating is in 
response to worrying about becoming old and 
undesirable - or having the rise in libido 
typified by the midlife crisis.This study, which 
took place in three countries, surveying 
thousands of people, indicates that it is .
There is a steady downhill trajectory in 
wellbeing for most people, starting in their 
late teens, and staying low until their late 
40s, where it starts to increase again.
The lead 
researcher of the study, Terence Cheng of the 
University of Melbourne, said 
This would indicate that the midlife crisis is 
real. Perhaps men at the end of each decade 
feel that much closer to death, and decide to 
reclaim their life by having affairs.
"Human happiness hits the lowest 
point around the ages of 40 to 
42".
This would indicate that the midlife crisis is 
real. Perhaps men at the end of each decade 
feel that much closer to death, and decide to 
reclaim their life by having affairs. 

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10 Signs She Will Be Good In Bed

Sometimes, based on certain observations, you can just tell if a woman will be 
good in bed. Or, more accurately, good in bed with you . You may not always be 
right, but like so many of The Player’s techniques, observing her body language 
and sexual signals closely will help you at least improve your odds of getting what 
you’re looking for — a good time.
Below you’ll find a few things you should look out for. 
She’s a good kisser 
It takes all kinds. If you like the way she kisses you, then she’s good for you.
She’s a good dancer 
Even if you’re not, the way she moves her body vertically may be an indicator of 
her horizontal skills.
She’s flexible 
She could be a yoga instructor, a ballerina, a contortionist… basically, these allow 
for more possibilities in bed.
She gives seductive looks 
Maybe she cocks an eyebrow, or offers other flirtatious or coy looks. Hell, maybe 
she’s undressing you with her eyes. A woman’s regard is the most important 
indicator — of her intentions, her anticipation, and her confidence, which is 
directly related to her skill. Both the amount of eye contact she offers and the 
type are important.
She enjoys tasting her food 
You won’t always get a chance to see a woman work over an ice cream cone or 
provide some other obvious oral showcase. Still, whenever things are going in her 
mouth, she has an opportunity to employ the oldest of sexual metaphors. What 
does she do with this situation? Does she handle/cut up the food daintily? Does 
she put it in her mouth sensually? Animalistically? Absent-mindedly? Does she 
chew like a lady, or like a dog? Does she even seem aware of the messages she’s 
conveying, like it or not? If not, she may not be interested in you in a sexual 
way.
She talks about sex 
She often makes sexual references and discusses what she likes/does in bed. If 
she does it too much, however, she may be overcompensating, and could just be a 
tease. Does she seem to know what she’s talking about? The important thing is 
that she be open to talking about it, or better yet (because it’s more subtle), 
that sexual innuendo not put her off.
She doesn’t talk too much 
Loosely speaking, I’ve noticed a bit of an inverse correlation between chattiness 
and bedroom skills. That is, they might be more used to impressing with their 
words than their actions, or may even be consciously trying to compensate for 
one with the other. Quieter women, on the other hand, are often demons in the 
sack. They prefer to express themse l ves non-verbally… although they get vocal 
when you get them in the right spot. Put another way, if the woman won’t be 
quiet, do you want to deal with that during foreplay, or especially after run-of- 
the-mill sex?
What she suggests as a date 
This applies if you’ve taken down her number and then arrange a date with her. 
A woman who is not afraid to go to a bar where there’s dancing probably has 
more confidence, for example. Likewise for a woman who suggests something 
unconventional for a date. If she suggests something more platonic, like lunch, 
she’s deliberately taking it slow because she’s still uncomfortable — with you, 
with herself, or some combo thereof.
She’s touchy-feely 
If she initiates physical contact or reciprocates yours, she understands that the 
earlier you start the sexual vibe, the more time tension has to build, and the 
bigger the eventual release. She may touch your shoulder, caress your arm and/ 
or hold your hand when she leans in close and talks to you.
She works out 
Physical conditioning is fundamental to good sex. It affects stamina, position 
possibilities and, of course, physical confidence. After physical chemistry, 
probably the biggest factor that goes into whether you’ll have good sex with 
someone is the physical shape you’re both in. After all, it’s not only for 
aesthetic reasons that men today admire tight abs and strong thighs in a woman.
Read a woman’s signs 
Even if a woman gives off a sexual vibe in any of the ways mentioned here, 
remember that these are just signs, not foolproof clues toward a single, 
invariable rating of her sexual skills.
Also remember that what works for one guy 
isn’t always another guy’s cup of tea.
Every woman is an individual, using (or not using) these signs in different ways 
and combinations to paint a portrait of her libido and the skills behind it.
Therefore, use the signs with caution, as they offer no guarantee of a good 
time for you personally.
Only experience will tell you what kind of experience you like in others
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Some signs that a woman is not ovulating normally

Most cases of female infertility are caused by 
problems with ovulation. Without ovulation, there are 
no eggs to be fertilized. Some signs that a woman is 
not ovulating normally include irregular menstrual 
periods. Ovulation problems are often caused by 
hormone imbalance problem which can interfere with 
normal ovulation.
Another common causes of fertility problems in 
women include Blocked fallopian tubes due to PID 
(pelvic inflammatory disease). PID occurs when the 
disease-causing organisms travel from the cervix to 
the upper genital tract. It usually develops in a two- 
stage process. First, the organisms infect the cervix 
(opening of the uterus). Then, the bacteria migrate 
up to the uterus, fallopian tubes or ovaries.
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WHY YOU SHOULD STOP COMPARING YOURSELF WITH OTHERS.

Basically, In our culture a lot of times 
people advise us to compare ourselves with 
others. "You should be like your father," 
"You can win; the others aren’t as good as 
you," "You must be the best of your class," 
etc., and this is not always the best way of 
thinking. There are many reasons to change 
this way of thinking and begin to compare 
ourselves only with ourselves. This is the way 
it should be, and in this paper I will discuss 
some of the most important reasons for this.
Below are reasons why you should stop it.
1.There would always be someone better 
than you, and also people, you are better 
than . 
It doesn’t mater in which aspect, but it is 
always true. Therefore, you could feel 
inferior to others and maybe without a real 
reason. For example, you can be an 
incredible architect and the best of your 
generation, and this can make you feel 
incredibly good, but if someday someone is 
better than you are, you could feel sad 
although you are still the same incredible 
architect that you were before.
2. It's Damaging To Your Sense Of Self 
Mark Twain said that "comparison is the 
death of joy," and the science agrees. 
Research has found that comparing 
breeds feelings of envy, low-self 
confidence, and depression, as well 
as compromises our ability to 
trust others. While downward 
comparison, comparing ourselves to 
those less fortunate, can provide 
some benefit to one's sense of self , even 
this form of comparison comes at a 
price. It requires that we take pleasure 
in someone else's failures or 
misfortunes in order to feel adequate, 
which can fuel mean-spirited 
competitiveness versus collaboration; 
jealousy versus connection. When 
comparing leads you to devalue yourself 
or others you've entered dangerous 
territory.
3.It Doesn't Actually Help You 
Accomplish Your GoalsRuminating about 
how someone else is better looking, has 
more friends, or is more successful than 
you is both time-consuming and 
ineffective. Being hard on ourselves 
actually zaps motivation and decreases 
goal completion. If you really want to 
live a life that feels fulfilling you need 
to dedicate your time and energy to 
your own values. To get your focus in 
the right place ask yourself the 
following questions: When you imagine 
yourself at the end of your life looking 
back at what you've done, what will be 
the experiences and accomplishments 
that will have been most important to 
you? What kind of person do you want 
to be? What kind of relationships do 
you want to have? What do you want 
people to remember about you? Use 
these personal values as the barometer 
upon which you compare, rather than 
the accomplishments of those around 
you.
4.There is actually no End to it. 
There is no end to the comparison game. 
There is an infinite number of 
categories upon which you can compare 
yourself… and an almost infinite 
number of people to compare yourself 
to. Once you start down that road, you 
will never, ever find an end.
5.It's A Losing Battle.If comparing is 
how you evaluate your worth, you will 
always be losing. In this game of life 
you will never reach a point where you 
are better than others in every way and 
why would you want to be. Part of what 
makes life awesome and interesting is 
learning from the talents of others. 
Instead of trying to be as good as or 
better than others, focus your energy on 
being the very best version of yourself. 
So next time you catch yourself using 
someone else as a benchmark for your 
own worth stop and remind yourself 
how ineffective this strategy really is. 
Instead, compassionately redirect your 
energy and attention to your own goals 
and what is required to achieve them.
For all these reasons and because we are 
unique, we should not compare ourselves with 
others, only with ourselves. The only 
comparison pattern that we really have is 
our consciousness. So, if we use this pattern 
we will not feel less or more than others; we 
will not try to make others look bad; we will 
not judge so much; and we will accept 
ourselves as we really are. In other words, 
we will live happier.
Credits:http://www.becomingminimalist.com/stop-comparing-your-life-start-living-it/
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WHY YOU SHOULD STOP COMPARING YOURSELF WITH OTHERS.

Basically, In our culture a lot of times people advise us to compare ourselves with others. "You should be like your father," ...

Inspirational Quotes of Americas First Lady - Michelle Obama

1. Success isn’t about how much money you make, 
it’s about the difference you make in people’s lives.
2. Being a healthy woman isn’t about getting on a 
scale or measuring you waistline. We need to start 
focusing on what matters- on how we feel, and how 
we feel about ourselves.
3. One of the lessons that I grew up with was to 
always stay true to yourself and never let what 
somebody else says distract you from your goals. 
And so when I hear about negative and false 
attacks, I really don’t invest any energy in them, 
because I know who I am.
4. When you’ve worked herd, and done well, and 
walked through that doorway of opportunity, you do 
not slam it shut behind you. You reach back, and you 
give folks the same chances that helped you 
succeed.
5. Do not bring people in your life who weigh you 
down. And trust your instincts…Good relationships 
feel good. They feel great. They don’t hurt. They’re 
not painful. That’s not just with somebody you want 
to marry, but it’s with the friends that you choose. 
It’s with the people you surround yourselves with.
We celebrate Michelle Obama today as she turns 50. 
Happy Birthday!
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Inspirational Quotes of Americas First Lady - Michelle Obama

1. Success isn’t about how much money you make, it’s about the difference you make in people’s lives. 2. Being a healthy woman isn’t about...

5 Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friend zoned

Yes, yes, the all-too familiar topic... 
For the few majority who have no idea what 
'Friend-zoning' implies, let me paint you a 
picture: 
Boy meets Girl, Boy Likes Girl, Boy Asks Girl 
Out, 
Girl says: "I'm sorry, but we can ONLY be 
friends". Boy whines about being 
'Friendzoned'.
Typical eh? 
Here are 5 reasons why men should suck it up 
and quit whining:
1. She Has a Type And You're Not it. 
Yes. You may be the most caring person you 
ever known-nice, sweet and gentle(good for 
you!), 
however the fact remains that the heart 
wants what the heart wants. I see guys 
complain about this but have you ever really 
stopped to wonder 
what the girl in question is interested in.....
2. She can't control Her Feelings. 
This goes without saying. Don't trivialize her 
feelings by claiming you've been friendzoned. 
Don't expect her to hook up with you because 
you talk to her on Facebook lacte at night. 
Don't 
expect her to feel the same way you do just 
because you've been nice to her. That's 
prosititution and that makes you a douche.
3. She's Been Hurt too. 
Only guys sit down and make up a name of 
something that is actually...pretty normal. 
I've 
been hurt as well, i've liked people who didn't 
feel the same way. So? Would i sit and lick 
my 
wounds or move on? The same applies to the 
so-called 'Nice Guys' out there. Be a man 
about it and move on.
4. The Friendzone is an Excuse. 
It's an excuse for when a guy likes a girl but 
the girl doesn't like him right back. 
It's a 
sense of entitlement. It's the idea that just 
because a guy gives a girl his time or 
affection, she's in the 
wrong for not giving him sexual or romantic 
favors back. It's a defense mechanism, a 
way for 
the guy to make the girl seem coldhearted or 
callous or dumb for simply acting on her 
feelings, 
or rather lack of feelings.
5. Because No Girl Just Wants A 'Nice Guy.' 
You need to be more than an innocent little 
boy. 
You need to be a smart, witty, funny, 
charming and confident man. Girls don't like 
'nice guys' or 'douchebags', they like guys 
who are real, just like guys like girls who are 
real. If you think a girl owes you something 
simply because you're a 'nice guy', then you 
have a warped sense of 
entitlement with the females, man. 
The 
friendzone is the ineffectual tool of an 
ineffectual male. Stop using it as an excuse.
There's a girl out there for you but you can't 
expect it to be me and blame me when it 
isn't.
so my fellow brothers start looking at other 
girls out there.
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5 Reasons Why Guys Should Quit Complaining About Being Friend zoned

Yes, yes, the all-too familiar topic... For the few majority who have no idea what 'Friend-zoning' implies, let me paint you a pi...

Here Is Everything You Need To Know About Maintaining Your Vag!na!

Vag!nal secretions or discharge 
Other than your period as part of your natural 
menstrual cycle, it’s normal to produce clear or 
white secretions (discharge) from your vag!na.
This mucus is produced naturally from the neck 
of the womb, known as the cervix. 
“Vag!nal discharge is not ‘always a bad sign’,” 
says Dr Elneil. “There is a myth that copious 
clear or white discharge is associated with 
sexually transmitted infections.
Changes in the 
amount of discharge can be 100% hormonal – in 
other words, linked to the menstrual cycle, 
pregnancy or menopause.”
The character and amount of vag!nal discharge 
varies throughout your menstrual cycle. Around 
the time that your ovary releases an egg 
(ovulation), your discharge usually becomes 
thicker and stretchy, like raw egg white.
Healthy discharge doesn’t have a strong smell or 
colour. You may feel an uncomfortable wetness, 
but you shouldn’t have any itching or soreness 
around your vag!na. If there are any changes to 
your discharge that aren’t normal for you, such 
as a change in colour or if it starts to smell or 
itch, see your GP as you might have an 
infection.
You can find out more about vag!nal 
discharge, pregnancy and the menopause.
Bacteria in the vag!na
And they’re there to protect it. Professor 
Ronnie Lamont, spokesperson for the Royal 
College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists, 
says: “The vag!na contains more bacteria than 
anywhere else in the body after the bowel, but 
the bacteria are there for a reason.”
The good bacteria inside the vag!na:
provide “numerical dominance”: they 
outnumber other potential harmful 
bacteria that might enter the vag!na
help to keep the vag!na’s pH balance 
(how acidic the vag!na is) at an even 
level, which helps to keep the balance of 
bacteria healthy
can produce bacteriocins (naturally 
occurring antibiotics) to reduce or kill 
other bacteria entering the vag!na
produce a substance that stops invading 
bacteria sticking to the vag!na walls, 
which prevents bacteria from invading 
the tissues
If the balance of bacteria is disturbed, this can 
lead to infection and inflammation.
Bacteria 
called lactobacilli help to keep the vag!na’s 
pH balance at its normal low level (less than pH 
4.5), which also prevents the growth of other 
organisms. If the pH of the vag!na increases (in 
other words, if it gets less acidic), the quality 
or amount of lactobacilli can fall and other 
bacteria can multiply. This can result in 
infections such as bacterial vaginosis or thrush, 
which can cause symptoms including itching, 
irritation and abnormal discharge. 
Washing your vag!na
It’s a good idea to avoid perfumed soaps, gels 
and antiseptics as these can affect the healthy 
balance of bacteria and pH levels in the vag!na, 
and cause irritation.
Use plain, unperfumed soaps to wash the area 
around the vag!na (the vulva) gently every day.
The vag!na will clean itself inside your body with 
natural vag!nal secretions (discharge). “During 
your period, washing more than once a day may 
be helpful,” says Dr Elneil, who points out that 
keeping the perineal area (between the vag!na 
and anus) clean is important too. “Good perineal 
hygiene is necessary, by washing that area at 
least once a day using your normal bathing 
routines.”
“All women are different,” says Professor 
Lamont. “Some may wash with perfumed soap 
and not notice any problems. But if a woman has 
vulval irritation or symptoms, then one of the 
first things you can do is to use non-allergenic, 
plain soaps to see if that helps.”
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Here Is Everything You Need To Know About Maintaining Your Vag!na!

Vag!nal secretions or discharge Other than your period as part of your natural menstrual cycle, it’s normal to produce clear or white sec...

Ever Wondered Why A Woman Will Be So H0r’ny Just Before Her Periods?

How many women get super turned on right 
before or during their period, contrary to all 
the logic they have ever been told their whole 
lives about when they should feel the most 
rarin’ to go? It is hard to say, but it is enough 
that a Google search produces lots of women 
who’ve asked the same thing.
We all know when you’re supposed to be 
h0’rniest — while ovulating, because babies. It’s 
obviously more complicated than that, but for 
the purposes of this discussion, we must assume 
that women wouldn’t be searching in earnest 
disbelief for why they are suddenly a walking 
vag!na before their period if it didn’t seem, at 
the very least, unexpected or incongruous.
In fact, one of the first pieces I came across in 
the search was an XOJane essay called Why Do I 
Become a Walking Vag!na the Week Before My 
Period? In it, Emily writes:
You already know I get depressed, highly 
emotional and self-loathing, but what I haven’t 
mentioned is that I basically turn into Stifler’s 
mom for a week leading up to my period.
Preparing to shed my uterile lining is 
apparently the biological equivalent of some 
sweet Barry Manilow tunes and a bottle of 
Peach Boone’s Farm.
Dr. O actually didn’t explain it: 
“At the end of the day, you are fertile 10-14 
days before your period. It’s in your interest to 
be h0’rny from your body’s perspective since 
one of our jobs evolutionarily is to procreate. It 
stands to reason that you would be most 
interested when your body is set up to get 
pregnant. The high progesterone at that part of 
your cycle also makes the genitals a little 
swollen and sensitive. For some women that’s a 
turn on, for others, not so much. Same thing 
happens in pregnancy, the other time you have 
high progesterone.”
Ok, but not what she asked! Someone else hit 
the ground running at Girls Ask Guys when they 
asked, Girls: Do you get h0’rnier during your 
period? Question says it all.
Question says it all, indeed . “ErikaSmith” 
answered:
If a girl is h0’rnier on her period it is entirely 
mental. Biologically that makes zero sense.
Hormone levels peak in the middle of your cycle 
when you ovulate two weeks before your periods 
starts. Unless something else is going on, the 
days right around ovulation are when a girl is 
naturally the h0’rniest.
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Ever Wondered Why A Woman Will Be So H0r’ny Just Before Her Periods?

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AN OPEN LETTER TO ALL UNN FEMALE STUDENTS

Dear UNN Female Students, 
Before I begin, I want to make it known that all 
UNN female students are beautiful, dark- 
skinned, light-skinned, petite or tall. I am not in 
the best of moods writing to y'all like this. For 
the number of years I've spent in this school, I 
have come in contact with various ladies, all with 
different personalites . I'm pained however that 
I should be addressing y'all through this medium.
Before you start saying gibberish, please take 
time to read through this carefully and 
understand every word.
First of all, I am most concerned with the rate of 
"forming" among ladies.( Hahaha) I'm sure that 
one's a popular blah- blah kinda topic y'all don't 
want to read but here goes.. So I'm at Frenzy (a 
popular eatery in UNN), waiting in line to make 
my order when a girl walks in. She had well- 
manicured nails and in order to rub it in the faces 
of the not-so-well manicured nails population 
(including myself), she raised her right arm, 
displaying her fingers to all who cared to notice, 
as she placed her order (sister, na your nails you 
take dey order food ni?), it was amusing o, it still 
is and eer it's actually lame. There's more to life 
than well-manicured nails. Don't get me wrong, 
I'm not insisting manicure or any other form of 
beautifying ones' self is wrong. I'm only saying, 
why show-off whatever it is you think you have? 
Allow others to appreciate you, don't jump in our 
faces with your expensive nails, extensions, 
dresses, shoes, bags, and phones etc. because 
frankly, we do not care. Okay, that was mean, we 
do appreciate fine things shaa, it's just that you 
should let us compliment you and not try to make 
it obvious you putting on something fab and etc.
But, really, what about improving your IQ, 
expanding your horizon or doing something 
exceptional we can all talk about for a long time 
(and by exceptional, yes, it includes committing 
suicide. At least that'll make the news. LOL, 
kidding though). Ehee, I have not forgotten the 
"accent forming girls" that start up conversations 
in public places like bank queues (especially 
FIRSTBANK), eateries (Chitis, Frenzy, Marlima 
and even CEC), churches, parties, cyber 
cafes,cabs etc., well done very well you hear? 
Some of you have never crossed the Nigerian 
boarder but you possess the mastery of British, 
Australian, American, etc. accents and sometimes 
a hybrid of various foreign accents. 
So next time 
you in a public place and a girl or group of girls 
start off with their "accents", please forgive 
them, it's all for "forming" sake. Okay, now over 
to the daughters of imaginary "wealthy families", 
that discuss their family's' wealth to any available 
ear, please can you kindly stop? Some of us do 
not really care and the stories are sort of getting 
old, how about you pick a new gist? To all the 
ladies wey dey famz celebrities, I dey hail una.
It's not that we do not believe P-Square, Olamide, 
Suspect etc. have met with you (probably because 
you were lucky enough to get a V.I.P pass to their 
show), we just don't feel it necessary that you 
discuss it for months and remind us how "popular" 
you are to have met them. How about you get on 
TV with them and let us do the talking for y'all 
huh? Talking about famzing females, I will not fail 
to talk about those that" famz" the" UNN 
celebrities". #clears throat, I do not know how to 
describe girls that get all giggly and silly 
whenever they talk about how very well they know 
these UNN celebrities to their friends and 
roommate. To be honest, it's just a reminder that 
you need to GET A LIFE! Ehee also, I won't fail 
to mention the category of girls that date guys 
because of their popularity, my dear, if you fall 
in this category, I want to extend my condolence 
because you nothing but a "potato head".
According to my phone dictionary, a snub as a 
noun, is a deliberate affront or slight. 
This brings 
me to the second ish among most UNN females.
The rate at which girls snub others (others 
includes, a fellow girl or group of girls, a guy, 
etc.) is quite alarming. Because I'm being totally 
honest, I'll just let it out here, I used to be a 
snub too until I realized just how lame it is.
Deliberately insulting someone else up front 
because you feel you are superior to that person 
and all. That's crap really, if you know what's up 
with the real 
world. No one ever gets far in the real world 
being a snub. Would you take your snubby attitude 
for a job interview? Shocking thing though is that 
most UNN females are "backyard snubs" (a 
backyard snub is a snub of an inferior 
quality,inferior, because they have nothing to be 
snubby about).They're mostly a bunch of empty 
vessels, who snub others that are interestingly, 
better than they are. To all "backyard snubs", two 
words: GROW UP. Alongside the backyard snubs is 
the "attitude" most girls put up. 
Sometimes, 
attitude works (maybe with a persistent chyker) 
but most of y'all use it wrongly (like giving 
attitude to someone who asks for an extra pen 
etc. come on, I just asked for an extra pen and 
not to be given attitude).
Finally, I'll address the "loose girls". Oh yes, I 
mentioned it. If you fall under this category and 
you do not have an STD already, well thank God 
and quit. Sister, there's no male alive on earth 
that appreciates a "loose female" and if any guy 
tells you he likes a "wild chick" eer, I don't think 
he means a slut. He definitely means a different 
kind of "wild" entirely, probably a character from 
a superhero movie like Cat woman or something.
Before I continue, I'll mention the kind of girls 
that fall under this "loose girl" category. I'm 
talking sluts, and "runs girls", basically, but hey, 
if the shoes fits and you none of the two 
mentioned, feel free to put them on. 
At most 
parties I attend, I noticed,  there's always some 
girl that gets high, misbehaves, gets probably 
"lashed" by a couple of guys or the kind of girl 
that makes sure to let all manner of guys get a 
feel of her body. My dear, if you get wild at 
parties, "rock" more than half the population of 
guys, allow any guy that's interested to feel your 
body, flash (don't go screaming now, go check 
your dictionary for this word, in this context) 
guys, lash more than one guy or "lash" any man 
for money, you are a slut, an ashewo #clears 
throat again, a hoe. Please save that crap story 
of how this form of misconduct is a way of 
experiencing your youth to the fullest, wake up, 
you in Africa, not America, you African not 
American, Africa has some sort of moral values we 
can't just toss aside. And remember life, real life, 
is not some Hollywood-teenage-prom-night movie.
Remember, UNN is a small place, your gist will 
spread round like fire during harmattan and for 
sure you wouldn't want that. Besides, if you 
haven't known yet, most marriages nowadays are 
based on recommendation. Uh huh, you guessed 
right, no one would recommend a "slut" for 
marriage, unless, well, maybe you one lucky girl.
This is not to diss anyone though, I'm merely being 
honest here. One thing I know for sure, UNN 
females are wonderful people, I have met some 
girls with so much dreams and 
aspirations,wonderful talents, remarkable 
intelligence and etc. The problem is with the 
majority, the snubs, the loose girls, the 
"formers", the pretenders (the aww-you're-so- 
cute-I-love-your-dress kinda girls, who really just 
want to stab you fifty times in the head), if only 
y'all could get real and approach others with 
honesty, love, dignity etc, you'd be able to attain 
your full potentials, really, how hard could it be 
being real? Then again, I guess I wouldn't have 
anything to write about. Just remember you are 
all beautiful and deserve the best the world has 
to offer.
Yours sincerely, 
Grace Okogwu
P.S. thumbs up to them real ladies out there, do 
not change.
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AN OPEN LETTER TO ALL UNN FEMALE STUDENTS

Dear UNN Female Students, Before I begin, I want to make it known that all UNN female students are beautiful, dark- skinned, light-skinne...

Reasons Why Guys Lie About Being Single

This point is not an attack on guys. It is just an honest attempt to point out 
some of the traits that play into why guys lie about being single. I know 
that so many dudes will rain curses on me for putting up this piece. The 
truth is bitter they say 
Take a bottle of bobo drink and spread your mat 
Reasons Why Guys Will Lie About Being Single
1. He Wants To Get Under Your Skirt To be realistic, when a guy is currently 
in a relationship & he lies about being single is his primary motive to get 
under your pant .. He knows his chances of dating or having sex with 
you would be much lower if he is honest about being in a relationship. No 
guy forgets he's in a relationship unless he lies so he can have a 
chance to get into your pants. Is that so ? Yes it is
2. The Joy Of Being Chased 
YES so many dudes derive joy when they are 
being chased by various species of ladies.. There 
are some that love the excitement of the flirting, 
the chase, cat and mouse game of it all. Most 
dudes derive joy when they've so many species 
of ladies ringing them up & sending numerous 
messages.. Isn't that a thing of joy ? Yeah it is 
to some sha
3. He's Broke 
Don't get this twisted 'cos I'm not saying that 
guys are gold- 
diggers (well, just few of them). I can say this 
because I know the frustration of being broke. He 
sees your father is rich and you are being 
influenced by your father's wealth, he will lie 
about being single because of his selfish interest. 
Should we call that ojukokoro ? YES
4. He Wants To Keep You As A Side Chic 
He's promiscuous and wants to keep you as a 
side chic. He knows that the moment you realize 
he's in a relationship, chances are, you are likely 
to turn the other way and lose interest in him, 
therefore, he will lie about it.
5. He Want You To Keep Pestering Him For A 
Relationship 
Because some people are just 
plain silly. There are little boys out who there 
who are immature in hurting a lady who loves 
them. I went to a barbing salon last week and I 
over heard a boy talking to his friends boastfully 
that he's got up to 8 ladies chasing him because 
he told them he's single. Isn't that silly ?
6. He Wants To Dump His Girlfriend 
An average dude who is about dumping his 
girlfriend will most likely tell you he's single 
because he wants you to be his new girlfriend
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Reasons Why Guys Lie About Being Single

This point is not an attack on guys. It is just an honest attempt to point out some of the traits that play into why guys lie about being s...

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