We all know that kids , could be really overbearing atimes, as they tend to push
us to the wall, hence most mothers are left with no choice but to flog the living
daylight out of their kids, in an attempt to instill discipline in them.
Just so you know,Not every child, heeds correction by being flogged. Some kids
tend to become very stubborn with the more floggings they recieve .
Do not flog your child all the time, in a bid to instill discipline in him/her. There
are other ways of correcting an erring child. . .for instance,You can ground him/
her or Cease his/her favorite toys, or See to it that, he/she does’nt watch his/
her favorite cartoon, Afterwhich you sit your child down, and explain to your
child, the rationale behind your actions.No matter what happens, never ever
starve your child in an attempt to discipline that child, if you do, you
automatically tempt that child into stealing!
Suffice to say that.It is very wrong to issue threats which you will never carry
out on your child. For instance, threatening your child with the fact that you will
report him/her to a masqurade that will amputate his/her limbs as a result of
his/her disobedience…..In the end, no masqurade from nowhere will come
implement your threat. Doing this, only makes your child grow more wings
because he/she knows you’re fond of empty threats. Spare the rod and spoil the
child….yes! But Be flexibly rigid. What you will not tolerate, do not tolerate it.
Watch and observe your child, and find out which works best for you, find out
his/her weakness and use it to the fullest for instance;..if he/she is a child that
does’nt like being embarrassed, then go ahead and publicly embarrass him/her so
badly, he/she will never want a repeat of such embarrassment again, hence that
child will always thread with caution and not misbehave.Do not form a habit of,
shouting endlessly at the top of your lungs all day, in a bid to drive your point
home, shouting will never make you heard, it will only make you loud and you will
be saddled with a stubborn child or children as the case may be, and a nasty
headache in the long run.so ma’am, speak to your child with empathy , and you
will be heard.Above all, never compare your child to any other child,doing so, kills
a child’s self esteem.
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