Sometimes, based on certain observations, you can just tell if a woman will be
good in bed. Or, more accurately, good in bed with you . You may not always be
right, but like so many of The Player’s techniques, observing her body language
and sexual signals closely will help you at least improve your odds of getting what
you’re looking for — a good time.
Below you’ll find a few things you should look out for.
She’s a good kisser
It takes all kinds. If you like the way she kisses you, then she’s good for you.
She’s a good dancer
Even if you’re not, the way she moves her body vertically may be an indicator of
her horizontal skills.
She’s flexible
She could be a yoga instructor, a ballerina, a contortionist… basically, these allow
for more possibilities in bed.
She gives seductive looks
Maybe she cocks an eyebrow, or offers other flirtatious or coy looks. Hell, maybe
she’s undressing you with her eyes. A woman’s regard is the most important
indicator — of her intentions, her anticipation, and her confidence, which is
directly related to her skill. Both the amount of eye contact she offers and the
type are important.
She enjoys tasting her food
You won’t always get a chance to see a woman work over an ice cream cone or
provide some other obvious oral showcase. Still, whenever things are going in her
mouth, she has an opportunity to employ the oldest of sexual metaphors. What
does she do with this situation? Does she handle/cut up the food daintily? Does
she put it in her mouth sensually? Animalistically? Absent-mindedly? Does she
chew like a lady, or like a dog? Does she even seem aware of the messages she’s
conveying, like it or not? If not, she may not be interested in you in a sexual
way.
She talks about sex
She often makes sexual references and discusses what she likes/does in bed. If
she does it too much, however, she may be overcompensating, and could just be a
tease. Does she seem to know what she’s talking about? The important thing is
that she be open to talking about it, or better yet (because it’s more subtle),
that sexual innuendo not put her off.
She doesn’t talk too much
Loosely speaking, I’ve noticed a bit of an inverse correlation between chattiness
and bedroom skills. That is, they might be more used to impressing with their
words than their actions, or may even be consciously trying to compensate for
one with the other. Quieter women, on the other hand, are often demons in the
sack. They prefer to express themse l ves non-verbally… although they get vocal
when you get them in the right spot. Put another way, if the woman won’t be
quiet, do you want to deal with that during foreplay, or especially after run-of-
the-mill sex?
What she suggests as a date
This applies if you’ve taken down her number and then arrange a date with her.
A woman who is not afraid to go to a bar where there’s dancing probably has
more confidence, for example. Likewise for a woman who suggests something
unconventional for a date. If she suggests something more platonic, like lunch,
she’s deliberately taking it slow because she’s still uncomfortable — with you,
with herself, or some combo thereof.
She’s touchy-feely
If she initiates physical contact or reciprocates yours, she understands that the
earlier you start the sexual vibe, the more time tension has to build, and the
bigger the eventual release. She may touch your shoulder, caress your arm and/
or hold your hand when she leans in close and talks to you.
She works out
Physical conditioning is fundamental to good sex. It affects stamina, position
possibilities and, of course, physical confidence. After physical chemistry,
probably the biggest factor that goes into whether you’ll have good sex with
someone is the physical shape you’re both in. After all, it’s not only for
aesthetic reasons that men today admire tight abs and strong thighs in a woman.
Read a woman’s signs
Even if a woman gives off a sexual vibe in any of the ways mentioned here,
remember that these are just signs, not foolproof clues toward a single,
invariable rating of her sexual skills.
Also remember that what works for one guy
isn’t always another guy’s cup of tea.
Every woman is an individual, using (or not using) these signs in different ways
and combinations to paint a portrait of her libido and the skills behind it.
Therefore, use the signs with caution, as they offer no guarantee of a good
time for you personally.
Only experience will tell you what kind of experience you like in others
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