The choice of a life partner is one of the greatest
test you must pass-through.
The choice of a life partner will have a long,long
impart on everything you do, and everything you
will ever become inlife.
The person you chose to go with in life as a partner
will determine either you will make HEAVEN or go
to HELL.
1.BECAUSE OF LUST-Some wants to to marry all
because of sex.When you get married on the
foundation of sex and your partner cannot stand
you,so they start going outside because they are
not satisfied.So that marriage BREAKS UP.
2.LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT-When you just see
someone you have not met in life and you say,I
feel that you are my wife or my husband.
3.LIKE THE IDEA OF MARRIAGE-When you say,I
just want to have a woman standing beside me as
we walk on the street.(e.g)When they ask you why
do you like the army,you say the uniform looks so
goo,you forget that when there is war.You will be
sent to the war to fight and you may get killed or
live.
4.FEAR OF REMAINING UNMARRIED-When you
being to count your age from 21 to 28 and you
have not yet find anyone suitable for you,you start
being fearful.You will begin to to say,what do I
need to change?maybe my hairstyle or my way or
walking.
The kind of fear have made many glorious woman
get married to a mistake person.Psalm 37:5;Prov
3:5;2 Cor 10:12.Stop saying my junior sister have
married and am yet to marry.
5.PRESSURE-Its a great mistake to just sit down
and write down that by so and so month,I must get
married.You have personally without God Almighty
fixed a date or stage in your life,when that day
begins to get close to you and nothing seems to
happen.You begin to get ANXIOUS,then
ANXIETY,then AGITATION follows then PANIC from
that stage you do a great mistake.
6.ESCAPE FROM BEING JILTED-Maybe you have
been jilted by somebody in the past and nw you
have seen another person,its not a reason to rush
into marriage.A real man will never jilt a woman.
7.BECAUSE OF MONEY-How can you be marrying
someone all because of money.
Money can buy spectacle but can't but eyes,money
can buy bed but can't buy sleep,money can buy
pews for you in a church but can't buy you
salvation,money can buy food but can't but
appetit,money can buy text books but can't buy
brain.There are so many things that money cannot
buy.Money does not guarantee happiness in
marriage.
8.ESCAPE ROOT-Many have use their getting
married as a root to escape from their parents or
family members.They say,am tired of my
parents,the work am doing at home is too
much.When I get married now,I won't be able to
get disturb by their useless odd jobs.Many of such
people later find out that they are just jumping
from fire pan to fire.
9.OUT OF PITY-You don't marry someone out of
pity,its never going to work out in such way.I knw a
man who married a lady because she was an orphan
only to get married to a witch,who turn his life
into a miserable story.They now beg for food
before they can eat.
What a tragedy to marry out of pity.
10.BEAUTY OR HANDSOMENESS-Any marriage
establish on that level will never stand.Many ladies
are make-up human not natural beauty.
11.TRIBAL CONNECTION-Some people will only
want to get married to somebody from their town
or their village or their clan.
This is always very wrong.Let God lead you.
12.PARENTAL SATISFACTION-Maybe your dad
works for a rich man or his rich friend because of
connection now wants you to get married to his
son.That happens many times.
13.TO HURT YOUR PARENTS-When you get hook to
somebody all because you want to hurt your
parents.
14.ACCIDENTAL PREGNANCY-Because you were
pregnant for somebody is not a reason to go ahead
to get married to that person.Well,you have made
a mistake,you have had a child of fornication which
the Bible calls a Bastard.There are plenty of this
events today in the world and even among children
of God.
15.FOOLISH EXPECTATIONS-To get married to an
unbeliever or a non christian and be expecting
you will change the person.Are you the one who
save yourself?
You see a man while still in courtship that before
you say anything,he slaps you and beat you up and
you are still expecting him to change,am sorry,they
don't normaly change but rather get worse.That is
very bad and foolish expectation that are always
filled with regret.
You need to cry to God now.
O GOD MY FATHER,WHERE OTHERS HAVE
FAILED,I WILL MAKE IT IN JESUS NAME,AMEN.
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