Se x is one of those things that keep your relationship spicy and interesting, and it is
also very important.
Unfortunately, a lot of guys are selfish lovers and most times, leave their girlfriends
sexually unsatisified.
It’s no news that a lot of people cheat on their partners because of dissatisfaction
where se x is concerned, and the numbers are still increasing.
As a guy, what are those things you need to do to make your woman have an awesome
time whenever you have se x?
Here are 10 crazy things she expects you to do to give her earth-shattering orgasms:
1. Make her org asm before intercourse starts: This is by far the biggest thing
women wish men could do more of in bed. Sadly, men don’t do this – instead, they
clumsily run through the intercourse as fast as possible – they rush through
foreplay and go straight for the kill. This isn’t what women want. If you can make
her orga sm before you penetrate her, then it’s guaranteed to be good se x in her
book, even if you don’t last as long as you’d like. Also, giving her an orga sm will
make her more responsive and more likely to have another orga sm during
intercourse. Se x becomes better for you, and for her.
2. Pay attention to non-obvious erogenous zones: A lot of guys only pay attention to
‘obvious’ spots on a woman’s body when trying to give her sexual pleasure. These
include her bre asts, clitoris and g-spot. But the truth is, women don’t want you
to only pay attention to these spots – they want you to pay attention to their
whole body! Why? Because there are 16 other ‘hidden’ erogenous zones on her body
that can give her pleasure, and which can also make her more responsive to vaginal
stimulation.
Last longer in bed:
Women totally hate it when a man shoots off too soon because it prevents them from
having orgasms. How would you feel if a woman got you close to an orgasm, then all
of a sudden stopped, rolled over, and went to sleep? Yes, that’s how annoying it is. If
you really want to drive women wild, then you should learn how to last over an hour in
bed. Of course you can have a ‘quickie’ every now and then, but most of the time
women will need a minimum of 30 minutes of intercourse to have multiple orgasms.
1. Tease her till she begs for it: Many women have complained that the typical man in
bed does almost no teasing. What women want is for you to build up to a sexual
action with teasing until she’s practically begging you for it. For instance, with
oral se x, most men just dive right in. What would turn her on much more is if you
kiss up her inner thighs, and breathe warmly on her va gina. Then, so lightly she
can barely feel it, run your tongue over her clitoris. Do this until she’s begging you
to give her more, and then give her the gratification. She’ll enjoy it about a
hundred times more.
2. More oral se x: A lot of guys shy away from giving their women oral se x. Their
most common justification is: “it’s OK, I’m good with my fingers.” This is just like a
girl telling you: “I don’t give blo wjobs Â? but it’s OK, I’m good with my hands.”
It’s just not the same. If you know how to do it right, giving her oral se x is the
fastest and easiest way to give her orga sms. Plus, once you make her finish
through oral se x she’ll be much more responsive during intercourse and more likely
to go down on you. Give your girlfriend plenty of oral se x, and she will love you
for it.
3. Turn her on with your words: Some men are afraid to say anything or make any
noise in bed because they’re afraid the woman will think they’re cheesy or weird.
But if they were to listen in on private female conversations, they would know the
exact opposite is true. A woman rather find it strange when a guy who is
completely silent in bed, because she doesn’t know whether or not he’s even
enjoying it. It’s a turn-off. Think about it: would you be turned on more by a
woman who lay there as silent and still as a corpse, or a woman who screaming your
name in pleasure and telling you she loved what you’re doing to her? You need to
learn how to be vocal in bed, and how to turn a woman on through sexual talk.
4. Use more sexual eye contact: Have you ever had an org asm while looking into your
partners eyes the entire time? It is one of the most intensely pleasurable
experiences you can have. Any woman who has experienced this before craves more
of it. Avoid the typical routine of turning off all the lights and just grunting and
pounding away in the dark. Start to work some eye contact into your sexual
encounters, and see how much it turns her on. Of course you have to learn how to
do this in the right way, but once you do, she’ll love it.
5. Pay attention to her after se x: After se x, she is completely open and vulnerable
to you. A lot of guys squander this time by ignoring her after se x, or by just
going to sleep. Women don’t ‘come down’ from sexual pleasure as quickly as men do,
so she’s going to want you to hold her and be close to her while she does. She’ll
definitely enjoy se x much more if you just spend a few minutes doing this.
6. Get her to perform for you: Men are so obsessed with ‘putting in a good
performance’ in bed, and to some extent this is not a bad thing. But if you need
to be ‘performing’ for her all the time, then this can be a big turn-off for her.
She wants a guy who can also set up situations where she can perform for him. For
instance, a lot of women like giving blowjobs if the guy can get her thinking about
them the right way. If you can get her to ‘perform’ for you like this – especially
if she’s doing something she usually doesn’t do for other guys Â? it’ll be a huge
sexual thrill to her. Think about the rush you get from giving her a huge orgasm.
This is what she’ll experience if you know how bypass her inhibitions and get her to
‘perform’ for you in bed.
7. Learn how to give her org asms: Men typically find it hard to seek out coaching to
become better in bed. Their egos get in the way, and they like to think that they
know it all even if their sex lives could use a lot of improvement. From a woman’s
perspective, this doesn’t make a whole lot of sense. After all, to learn any other
less important skill, you would seek out information on how to do it. This is exactly
what women wish you would do in the bedroom. Because no man was born knowing all
the secrets of giving women org asms, and have to learn. Most men learn the hard
way, by arduous trial and error over the course of many years. But at the end of
the day, it’s totally worth it.
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