Many people who refuse to have sex before
marriage do so based on religious beliefs. It is a
sin and so they don't want to offend God.
Virgins aren't the only ones who are entitled to a
no sex relationship. Even if he/she isn't a virgin
they still have the right to stop sinning. Losing
their virginity doesn't mean free access to sex
with anyone. So in other not to sin against their
bodies they say no sex before marriage. I hold
such people in great admiration, they have strong
will power.
Although what I do not understand is the same
people who don't want to sin by not having sex go
about kissing, smooching, romancing, getting
naked and doing every other thing besides
penetration. I ask is that one not a sin? Abi is it
an act of righteousness? You don't want to sin by
not having sex but you sin by engaging in sexual
activities.
That's confusion if I may ask. I'm not here to
argue the authenticity of the virginity of the one
who does all these. To me they still are virgins if
they haven't ever been penetrated but that isn't
the argument here.
The argument is why share meat using your teeth
when you have sworn never to eat it? I prefer
hearing people tell me they don't want to have
sex because they aren't emotionally ready for it
yet than someone telling me they are doing it cuz
it is a sin to have sex cuz most of them kiss,
fondle and have oral sex. So if having sex is a sin
why then indulge in other sexual activities?
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