Yes, yes, the all-too familiar topic...
For the few majority who have no idea what
'Friend-zoning' implies, let me paint you a
picture:
Boy meets Girl, Boy Likes Girl, Boy Asks Girl
Out,
Girl says: "I'm sorry, but we can ONLY be
friends". Boy whines about being
'Friendzoned'.
Typical eh?
Here are 5 reasons why men should suck it up
and quit whining:
1. She Has a Type And You're Not it.
Yes. You may be the most caring person you
ever known-nice, sweet and gentle(good for
you!),
however the fact remains that the heart
wants what the heart wants. I see guys
complain about this but have you ever really
stopped to wonder
what the girl in question is interested in.....
2. She can't control Her Feelings.
This goes without saying. Don't trivialize her
feelings by claiming you've been friendzoned.
Don't expect her to hook up with you because
you talk to her on Facebook lacte at night.
Don't
expect her to feel the same way you do just
because you've been nice to her. That's
prosititution and that makes you a douche.
3. She's Been Hurt too.
Only guys sit down and make up a name of
something that is actually...pretty normal.
I've
been hurt as well, i've liked people who didn't
feel the same way. So? Would i sit and lick
my
wounds or move on? The same applies to the
so-called 'Nice Guys' out there. Be a man
about it and move on.
4. The Friendzone is an Excuse.
It's an excuse for when a guy likes a girl but
the girl doesn't like him right back.
It's a
sense of entitlement. It's the idea that just
because a guy gives a girl his time or
affection, she's in the
wrong for not giving him sexual or romantic
favors back. It's a defense mechanism, a
way for
the guy to make the girl seem coldhearted or
callous or dumb for simply acting on her
feelings,
or rather lack of feelings.
5. Because No Girl Just Wants A 'Nice Guy.'
You need to be more than an innocent little
boy.
You need to be a smart, witty, funny,
charming and confident man. Girls don't like
'nice guys' or 'douchebags', they like guys
who are real, just like guys like girls who are
real. If you think a girl owes you something
simply because you're a 'nice guy', then you
have a warped sense of
entitlement with the females, man.
The
friendzone is the ineffectual tool of an
ineffectual male. Stop using it as an excuse.
There's a girl out there for you but you can't
expect it to be me and blame me when it
isn't.
so my fellow brothers start looking at other
girls out there.
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