- Bisi Adewale
Many Ladies are known to base their marital
decisions on things that will not endure a life-time.
These have led many of them into wrong marriages
and life time bondage. We need to identify and
deal with them:
1) HEIGHT : Every girl’s dream is to marry a tall,
dark guy with a baritone voice, I wonder where
they got the idea that tall guys are better in
marriage. Hey Girls, tall guy can give you tall
problems; it is not the height that matters but the
depth of the guy in God and in character.
2) MUSCLE: Muscular and heavy looking guys are
also lucky, they are seen to be good suitors, and
girls do say “they look manly” “they look like real
men”. Sorry Girls, muscles do not make a real man,
character and ability to shoulder responsibility do.
A guy with muscle without character will use his
muscles to deal with you and batter your beautiful
face.
3) A WELL SET HOUSE: A guy with a well set house
is the dream of any girl any day. Many girls will
throw caution into the wind to grab a man who have
a house with King size; beautiful Italian Settee,
micro wave oven, well stock freezer, home theater,
refrigerator, gas cooker, Plasma TV,6 by 6 bed,
well stuff Kitchen, Dining table, washing machine,
dish washers, split unit air conditioner etc is a
dream catch for girls any day. Sorry girl, a well
set house is good but it may be a well set trouble if
the guy is not a man of character, manners or
discretion, he will make the house look like a prison
yard for you.
4) FAT BANK ACCOUNT: Girls are fond of trying to
know how rich a guy is by checking the guy’s
phones for bank alerts. They joyfully decide to
marry a guy when they discover the guy is very
rich with fat Bank balance. What a mistake? They
don’t want to know where the money is coming
from; they don’t even want to know what the guy
does for a living. What concerns them is the money
that is available to be spent. Many girls ended up
finding themselves entangled for life in this kind
of situation, don’t base your marriage on GREED,
it won’t turn to GREEN.
5) PLACE OF WORK: Some of our girls are in the
habit of making marital decision base on the place
a guy works. You dare not talk of marriage to
them if you are a Teacher or civil servant. You
dare not propose them if you are working with a
small firm, or one man business. What an error?
Girls note that, that a guy works in ACCESS BANK
does not mean he will give you ACCESS to his heart
or peace of mind. A guy that works in SHELL may
put your life in a SHELL forever, you may not be
the FIRST in the life of a guy that works in
FIRST BANK, a guy that work in GUARANTEE
TRUST BANK may not GUARANTEE your future. He
may be working in NESTLE but not SETTLE you at
home, So it is not about where he is working but
about who is working in Him, God or devil.
6) ROMANCE: A young lady said, “The guy is
romantic, hot and sexy, i will marry him” Stop
girl!!!!, Romance is not enough for marriage. The
truth is, most so called romantic guys don’t remain
like that after wedding. Marry a guy base on
qualities that will endure, romance don’t last
forever, go and ask married women.
7) TYPE OF CAR : A whole lots of girls will be
enticed by a guy driving a big and expensive car.
Some will not even go out with a guy that does not
have a car. If you want to mess yourself as a guy,
ride on a bike to go and propose to a lady, you will
hear the story of your life. Ladies, a guy that has
a CAR may not CARE for you, life is not about
CAR, it is about marrying somebody that will CARE
for your future.
8. Most girls will readily marry anybody with US
or UK passports, Lots of girls have destroyed their
lives in the process of looking for somebody with a
foreign passport to marry.
9) HIS PERFORMANCE IN THE CHOIR: It is funny
that some ladies are ready to get marry to some
guys because they are very good in the choir, they
can play Sax, keyboard, drums, trumpet and sing
tenor and Bass very well, I wonder whether they
want to start a choir band in their houses.
10) RICH PARENT: Children of Rich parents are easy target for many young girls not because they
are in love with them, but they know they will have
access to money and connection. Many of these
guys come from rich are pompous, cocky, proud and
will be terrible and irresponsible husbands and
fathers tomorrow but girls will not care about that,
Most of these girls do live to regret their wrong
decision.
Don’t marry anybody just because the parents are
rich, marry the person for who he is and the love
you share together.
11) FELLOWSHIP LEADERSHIP : Many Christian
ladies are ready to die to marry brothers that are
in the executives of their Campus fellowship. They
fight tooth and nail to get the attention of these
brothers, some even go to the extent of offering
their bodies. Many of these ladies do think that
the best of all men are in the executives of the
Campus fellowship, they’ve forgotten that A
PRESIDENT OF THE FELLOWSHIP MAY NOT BE A
RESIDENT OF HEAVEN.
12) BEDROOM EXPERTISE: One of the most stupid
way to make a decision who to marry as a lady is
to base it on how good, sexy or terrific a Guy is, in
the bedroom. If you base your marital decision on a
man’s sexual prowess; you may end up with a play
boy instead of a Husband. You may end up getting
marry to a sex hunter, instead of a real lover, a
universal sperm donor who will sleep with your
sister, house maid, friends, girls in the
neighborhood, his secretary and anything in skirt
that cross his paths. DON’T GO FOR SEX GO FOR
SENSE.
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