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6 Things That Could Destroy Your Relationship

There are no perfect relationships, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t expereince a 
measure of peace with your partner. 
However, a lot of relationships end abruptly even when it could have been prevented, 
but because the couple are too immersed in their anger, they can’t find a permanent 
solution to their problems. 
There are some characteristics that either you or your partner may possess, that 
could ultimately ruin your relationship.
Criticism: Relationship expert John Gottman, who wrote The Seven Principles for 
Making Marriage Work, is known for determining the success of a marriage within five 
minutes of meeting the couple. One of the deciding factors is evidence of criticism. 
Gottman knows couples will complain in their relationships, but he differentiates 
complaining from criticism.
1. Mind reading: The easiest way to set a relationship on a death spiral is to play 
armchair psychic. Mind reading takes a posture of assumption instead of listening, 
judgment instead of compassion. When we try and read the thoughts, motives, and 
intentions of another person, their voice is taken away. It dehumanizes the partner 
and does not give them room for explanation. We all struggle with this one because 
it’s easier to play ‘mind reader’ than listen to your partner. If you say, “I know 
why you did thisÂ?” there’s a possibility mind reading has entered the 
relationship.
2. Unrealistic expectations: When you begin a relationship, there are certain 
underlying expectations. These boundaries get wrapped up in behavior and action. 
This might be particular chores around the house, how money is spent, or how 
children are disciplined. Problems emerge when these expectations become 
unrealistic and the partner feels crushed under the weight of their failing 
behaviour. Most likely this will lead to an unhealthy relationship.
3. Control: The desire to control your partner, according to is rooted in fear and 
insecurity. A controlling attitude has more to do with us, and less with the 
partner. When control enters a relationship, an underlying fear is buzzing behind 
the surface. It may be fear of not knowing the future. Fear of abandonment. 
Fear of being seen as a terrible spouse. Until we get a handle on our own 
insecurities the partner will suffer. If we constantly say “Don’t do that,” or “Stop 
doing this,” we might be a control freak.
4. Comparison: Comparing your current partner with a former relationship is a 
guaranteed disaster. The comparison is unfair. No one person is the standard for 
all relationships. If they were so great why did the relationship not work out? 
Testing your current relationship, based on a prior one, is a good way to kill your 
relationship before it begins. Relationships are complex because of timing, maturity 
of the partner, and emotional stability. These factors change over time.
5. Routine: All relationships get stale. When partners get comfortable with one 
another they stop doing the little things. Eventually, boredom and disinterest set 
in. But this is normal. It just means we need to mix it up. Maybe we need a new 
routine. A date night every Friday night. A vacation to an exotic locale. Taking up 
a hobby together. Or finding different ways to communicate with one another. 
Routine doesn’t need to have the last say in a relationship. Identify it. Mix it up. 
Watch your relationship come back to life.
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6 Things That Could Destroy Your Relationship

There are no perfect relationships, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t expereince a measure of peace with your partner. However, a lot of relationships end abruptly even when it could have been preve…

28 Feb 2015

Adultery now legal in South Korea

LOL.............................IF CANT STAY FAITHFUL 
.........................SOUTH KOREAN IS FOR YOU 
The South Korean Constitutional Court at its 
plenary session on February 25, 2015, blazed the 
trail by striking down a 60-year-old law banning 
adultery by making it legal.
According to the Guardian UK, the long standing 
law had forbidden the act with anyone caught 
being jailed for two years but now, the citizens 
are free to indulge.
In an unprecedented judgement, the presiding 
justice, Park Han-Chul, remarked that though the 
act of adultery is bad and immoral, the state has 
no power to interfere with the individual lives of 
the people and as such, no one caught will be 
punished. 
He said:
"Even if adultery should be condemned as 
immoral, state power should not intervene in 
individuals’ private lives."
In the past few years, close to 5,500 people have 
been formerly arraigned on adultery charges with 
216 people jailed for 'committing' in 2004 alone, 
something liberals find to be infringing on 
people's rights.
In the past adultery could only be prosecuted on 
complaint from an injured party, and any case 
was closed immediately if the plaintiff dropped 
the charge, a common occurrence that often 
involved a financial settlement.
That means that in South Korea, you can sleep 
with your neighbour's wife without any qualm!
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Adultery now legal in South Korea

LOL.............................IF CANT STAY FAITHFUL .........................SOUTH KOREAN IS FOR YOU The South Korean Constitutional Court at its plenary session on February 25, 2015, blazed the tra…

27 Feb 2015

Men Only: 10 Sexy Things Women Want You To Do In Bed

Se x is one of those things that keep your relationship spicy and interesting, and it is 
also very important. 
Unfortunately, a lot of guys are selfish lovers and most times, leave their girlfriends 
sexually unsatisified. 
It’s no news that a lot of people cheat on their partners because of dissatisfaction 
where se x is concerned, and the numbers are still increasing. 
As a guy, what are those things you need to do to make your woman have an awesome 
time whenever you have se x? 
Here are 10 crazy things she expects you to do to give her earth-shattering orgasms:
1. Make her org asm before intercourse starts: This is by far the biggest thing 
women wish men could do more of in bed. Sadly, men don’t do this – instead, they 
clumsily run through the intercourse as fast as possible – they rush through 
foreplay and go straight for the kill. This isn’t what women want. If you can make 
her orga sm before you penetrate her, then it’s guaranteed to be good se x in her 
book, even if you don’t last as long as you’d like. Also, giving her an orga sm will 
make her more responsive and more likely to have another orga sm during 
intercourse. Se x becomes better for you, and for her.
2. Pay attention to non-obvious erogenous zones: A lot of guys only pay attention to 
‘obvious’ spots on a woman’s body when trying to give her sexual pleasure. These 
include her bre asts, clitoris and g-spot. But the truth is, women don’t want you 
to only pay attention to these spots – they want you to pay attention to their 
whole body! Why? Because there are 16 other ‘hidden’ erogenous zones on her body 
that can give her pleasure, and which can also make her more responsive to vaginal 
stimulation. 
Last longer in bed:
Women totally hate it when a man shoots off too soon because it prevents them from 
having orgasms. How would you feel if a woman got you close to an orgasm, then all 
of a sudden stopped, rolled over, and went to sleep? Yes, that’s how annoying it is. If 
you really want to drive women wild, then you should learn how to last over an hour in 
bed. Of course you can have a ‘quickie’ every now and then, but most of the time 
women will need a minimum of 30 minutes of intercourse to have multiple orgasms.
1. Tease her till she begs for it: Many women have complained that the typical man in 
bed does almost no teasing. What women want is for you to build up to a sexual 
action with teasing until she’s practically begging you for it. For instance, with 
oral se x, most men just dive right in. What would turn her on much more is if you 
kiss up her inner thighs, and breathe warmly on her va gina. Then, so lightly she 
can barely feel it, run your tongue over her clitoris. Do this until she’s begging you 
to give her more, and then give her the gratification. She’ll enjoy it about a 
hundred times more. 
2. More oral se x: A lot of guys shy away from giving their women oral se x. Their 
most common justification is: “it’s OK, I’m good with my fingers.” This is just like a 
girl telling you: “I don’t give blo wjobs Â? but it’s OK, I’m good with my hands.” 
It’s just not the same. If you know how to do it right, giving her oral se x is the 
fastest and easiest way to give her orga sms. Plus, once you make her finish 
through oral se x she’ll be much more responsive during intercourse and more likely 
to go down on you. Give your girlfriend plenty of oral se x, and she will love you 
for it. 
3. Turn her on with your words: Some men are afraid to say anything or make any 
noise in bed because they’re afraid the woman will think they’re cheesy or weird. 
But if they were to listen in on private female conversations, they would know the 
exact opposite is true. A woman rather find it strange when a guy who is 
completely silent in bed, because she doesn’t know whether or not he’s even 
enjoying it. It’s a turn-off. Think about it: would you be turned on more by a 
woman who lay there as silent and still as a corpse, or a woman who screaming your 
name in pleasure and telling you she loved what you’re doing to her? You need to 
learn how to be vocal in bed, and how to turn a woman on through sexual talk. 
4. Use more sexual eye contact: Have you ever had an org asm while looking into your 
partners eyes the entire time? It is one of the most intensely pleasurable 
experiences you can have. Any woman who has experienced this before craves more 
of it. Avoid the typical routine of turning off all the lights and just grunting and 
pounding away in the dark. Start to work some eye contact into your sexual 
encounters, and see how much it turns her on. Of course you have to learn how to 
do this in the right way, but once you do, she’ll love it. 
5. Pay attention to her after se x: After se x, she is completely open and vulnerable 
to you. A lot of guys squander this time by ignoring her after se x, or by just 
going to sleep. Women don’t ‘come down’ from sexual pleasure as quickly as men do, 
so she’s going to want you to hold her and be close to her while she does. She’ll 
definitely enjoy se x much more if you just spend a few minutes doing this. 
6. Get her to perform for you: Men are so obsessed with ‘putting in a good 
performance’ in bed, and to some extent this is not a bad thing. But if you need 
to be ‘performing’ for her all the time, then this can be a big turn-off for her. 
She wants a guy who can also set up situations where she can perform for him. For 
instance, a lot of women like giving blowjobs if the guy can get her thinking about 
them the right way. If you can get her to ‘perform’ for you like this – especially 
if she’s doing something she usually doesn’t do for other guys Â? it’ll be a huge 
sexual thrill to her. Think about the rush you get from giving her a huge orgasm. 
This is what she’ll experience if you know how bypass her inhibitions and get her to 
‘perform’ for you in bed. 
7. Learn how to give her org asms: Men typically find it hard to seek out coaching to 
become better in bed. Their egos get in the way, and they like to think that they 
know it all even if their sex lives could use a lot of improvement. From a woman’s 
perspective, this doesn’t make a whole lot of sense. After all, to learn any other 
less important skill, you would seek out information on how to do it. This is exactly 
what women wish you would do in the bedroom. Because no man was born knowing all 
the secrets of giving women org asms, and have to learn. Most men learn the hard 
way, by arduous trial and error over the course of many years. But at the end of 
the day, it’s totally worth it.
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Men Only: 10 Sexy Things Women Want You To Do In Bed

Se x is one of those things that keep your relationship spicy and interesting, and it is also very important. Unfortunately, a lot of guys are selfish lovers and most times, leave their girlfriends se…

27 Feb 2015

4 Things Every Guy Wants In Bed

As a perfect lady you should understand that a normal guy doesnt asks too much to 
be happy but there are certain things you should do while with him in the bedroom.
You might think that time you sneaked a peak at some P0*n might have been an 
education on what guys want, but you would be wrong.
Here are some things 
real guys want when Cosmopolitan asked around. 
1. More blowjob. 
That should be pretty obvious.
2. Talk dirty to me. 
Turns out your guy probably won’t judge you if you say filthy things to him in bed. 
One reader said he rises to the occasion like a teenage boy when his girlfriend 
whispers dirty instructions to him.
3. They like it when you moan (in bed). 
Unlike everywhere else, moaning in bed is a great way to t urn a guy on.
4. Get on top. 
One reader said that while the s*x doesn’t feel as good for guys when the woman is 
on t op, watching her control her movements and seeing her whole body in action more 
than makes up for it.
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4 Things Every Guy Wants In Bed

As a perfect lady you should understand that a normal guy doesnt asks too much to be happy but there are certain things you should do while with him in the bedroom. You might think that time you sneak…

27 Feb 2015

"Campaign With Religious Sentiments Attracts A Fine Of N1m" – INEC

The Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) in Bauchi State has 
warned that any political party or politician who used religious sentiments for 
their campaigns would pay N1 million fine or face 12 months of imprisonment.
This came following allegations that some politicians who were threatening some 
PDP supporters in Darazo Local Government for their choice of presidential 
candidate.
The State INEC Administrative Secretary, Emmanuel Umenger made this 
known, yesterday, during an interactive session with stakeholders in the local 
government, including traditional leaders, security agents, NYSC members and 
party leaders, as part of the commission’s familiarization tour of the 20 local 
government areas in the state.
According to the secretary, the commission detests electioneering campaigns 
based on religious sentiments. 
He therefore warned that any political party that was caught in the act will be 
prosecuted. 
“Section 102 of the electoral act as amended frowns against campaigns based 
on religious sentiments. Campaigns by political parties should be issue- based 
rather than along religious lines.
“The commission is equally against political parties intimidating the electorate 
based on their choice of candidates. Electorates are always at liberty to vote 
for any candidate they chose and should not be threatened because of their 
choices,” Umenger said. 
Speaking at the interactive session, the new state INEC Commissioner, 
Professor Hamman Tukur Sa’ad condemned the intimidation of the electorates, 
saying that any threat to life or property should be reported to security 
agencies. 
He warned against the politics of violence and urged local govrnment 
authorities not to interfere in the electoral process.
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"Campaign With Religious Sentiments Attracts A Fine Of N1m" – INEC

The Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) in Bauchi State has warned that any political party or politician who used religious sentiments for their campaigns would pay N1 million fine or fa…

25 Feb 2015

Ladies Only: 7 Signs You’re Dating A Player

He’s charming and sweet, you like to show him off to your friends because he’s 
a perfect gentleman and you want everyone to know.
But how can you be so sure he’s not just acting out a role, and doing the exact 
things you want?
What if he has some other ladies he’s also charming? How can you tell you’re 
the only one or ‘just one of the ones?’
1. He asks for sex on the first date: Players know that modern girls are 
fickle. Whether they put value on the immediate one night stand is 
immaterial – they know they have to push the interaction as far as 
possible to get the girl invested and maximize the chance she will return.
2. He’s evasive or mysterious about personal things: You’re unlikely to hear 
about a player’s dreams, aspirations, insecurities, etc. Good players don’t 
want to tell you anything that could be used against them, and really, 
whatÂ?s the use of opening up to someone you don’t view as a potential 
partner? 
3. Always want to meet your friends: A man who delights in the chase knows 
that a girl’s friends are never his allies. At best they are neutral 
observers, most often they are saboteurs and haters. After all, why 
should their friend enjoy some fun with a mysterious stud if they’re not 
getting any attention themselves? 
4. He’s reluctant to spend money on you: Everybody knows the player’s go- 
to maneuver is the expensive dinner first date. Players flip the script 
because they know there’s no upside to trying to buy a girl’s attraction. 
If he suggests you split a bag of skittles for dinner, you’re staring down 
sexual checkmate. 
5. He won’t see you more than twice a week: A player’s time is valuable, 
whether it’s being used for gaming other girls, making money, or 
enjoying leisure time. As part of the harem, you’re not going to get more 
than the occasional bone thrown your way. 
6. He doesn’t want to see you on weekends: The weekend is a time for 
precious rejuvenation and rebirth. For the full-time 24/7 players, this is 
when they’re beating the bushes for new prospects. For the introverted 
players, it’s the time when they unwind solo and prepare for another 
week in the game. 
7: All of your dates involve alcohol: The fact is, most players want to avoid 
getting a girl sloppy drunk. However, they also know that sharing just 
drink or two will make it easier to get sex somewhere along the line.
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Ladies Only: 7 Signs You’re Dating A Player

He’s charming and sweet, you like to show him off to your friends because he’s a perfect gentleman and you want everyone to know. But how can you be so sure he’s not just acting out a role, and doing …

25 Feb 2015

Japan to make Couples go on compulsary Vacations- So they can have more S*x

Japan to make Couples go on compulsary Vacations- So they can have more S*x 
Funny 
But Interesting development in Japan. 
The country's government wants to 
make it compulsory for married couples to go on more vacations - so they can 
have more s.ex...but there's a good explanation for this. The country has a low 
population growth. They say they are suffering from acute baby shortage. 
Only 
about 1million babies were born in Japan in 2014, the lowest figure on record 
for the country. Japan's health ministry also said that about 1,269,000 people 
died in 2014, indicating a natural population decline of 268,000. So basically, 
they were more people who died than were born.
The country says its shrinking population is affecting their economy & want to 
do something about it.
The government figured couples are too busy hustling they don't have s.ex. So 
Parliament is now debating compulsory vacation for couples so they can have 
more s.ex and make more babies.
So imagine the vacation police turning up at your door one morning, 'Mr & Mrs 
Nakatoto, have you had your vacashion yet? Have you? Is the Mrs pregnant? 
No? Then go on another vacation.' lol..
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Japan to make Couples go on compulsary Vacations- So they can have more S*x

Japan to make Couples go on compulsary Vacations- So they can have more S*x Funny But Interesting development in Japan. The country's government wants to make it compulsory for married couples to go …

24 Feb 2015

Who wants to rent a boyfriend? You can rent one in China

Who wants to rent a boyfriend? You can rent one in China 
What's going on in Asian countries? 
First, the Japanese government wants to 
force people to go on Vacation, now Chinese women are renting boyfriends? 
Lol. Single Chinese women have found a way to stay off marriage pressure.
They're renting fake boyfriends to put on an act for/please their parents.
'Taobao - China's largest online market place - is the place to go to find a 
temporary boyfriend as men advertise companionship starting from 1,000 yuan 
(£103) to 10,000 yuan (£103,300) a day.'
These men also charge extra for romantic activities such as hand holding, going 
to the cinema together, cuddles, or joint Internet surfing.
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Whitney, Bobby, drugs & death..and why their daughter never stood a chance, by former bodyguard

Whitney, Bobby, drugs & death..and why their daughter 
never stood a chance, by former bodyguard 
This is a very interesting article that I think you should read if you have the time.
Whitney Houston's bodyguard who inspired the singer's hit movie, The Bodyguard, 
David Roberts (circled in the photo above), writes things about Whitney and Bobby 
that you've never read before. David, who worked for Whitney for 7 years said he 
wasn't surprised when he heard that Whitney had died, saying that he was more 
surprised by how long she'd lived. 
Read the article below culled from Mail Online 
It has been the painful and very public unravelling of an American Dream. Millions 
of fans around the world watched appalled as Whitney, the ultimate diva of her 
generation, descended into the chaotic ravages of drug abuse and then, 
eventually, death at 48.
And now, just three years later, her fate has been replicated in an equally 
shocking style. Today the singer’s 21-year-old daughter, Bobbi Kristina, herself 
a drug addict, lies in a coma, hovering close to death.
Roberts today left. Roberts on a boat with the singer in Australia in 1988 right 
To many, her fate has seemed grimly predictable, but few have been more affected 
than one man who sits, watching, many hundreds of miles away from Bobbi Kristina’s 
anxious family.
For seven years of his life, Welshman David Roberts was a constant companion to 
Whitney, a minder, fixer, and wise counsel, too.
He was not just her bodyguard – but The Bodyguard, who helped inspire the role 
which established her as the golden girl of Hollywood.
Like the hero played by Kevin Costner, Roberts was a Special Forces-trained 
operative who lived constantly by her side.
There may have been no romantic involvement, but Roberts was the real-life recipient 
of a note under his hotel door saying: ‘I will always love you’ – the title of the power 
ballad from the film that became more famous than the movie itself.
Whitney trusted him with her life. Yet unlike the character on screen, Roberts proved 
tragically unable to save her – or her daughter.
Now, aghast at the latest twist of fate to assail Whitney’s family and her legacy, the 
bodyguard has finally decided to tell how one of the most glamorous women on the 
planet was brought low by a disastrous cocktail of alcohol, celebrity and hard drugs.
And he is not slow to point the finger of blame.
In his first interview since he finally left Whitney’s household, he recalls how her toxic 
marriage to ‘bad boy’ rapper Bobby Brown eclipsed her talent and she began the 
descent into helpless addiction.
It was a world, he says, in which the infant Bobbi Kristina would wear £20,000 
diamond earrings – while witnessing her parents consume paralysing quantities of 
drugs.
After Bobbi Kristina’s birth in 1993, Roberts worried she would have little choice but 
to follow the same path as her mother.
He takes no satisfaction from being proved right.
‘That girl had no chance from the start,’ he says.
‘She was born into chaos. Her father was instrumental in her mother’s downfall. 
‘Everyone is responsible for their own actions, but Whitney was vulnerable. 
She was 
obsessed with Bobby Brown and he subjected her to so much psychological abuse that 
she lost everything, including her dignity.
'I watched Bobbi Kristina as a little girl, running around the corridors of hotels we 
were staying in, surrounded by the degenerates who were supposed to be looking 
after her, and I worried for her future.
‘When I heard what had happened to Bobbi Kristina, I wasn’t surprised, but I was 
angry.
‘Everything good Bobby Brown’s ever had in his life, he’s destroyed – his career, 
Whitney, and now Bobbi Kristina. She’s another victim of his poisonous personality.’
On January 31, Bobbi Kristina was found in the same awful circumstances as her 
mother had been, lying face-down and unresponsive in the bath. Bobbi’s partner Nick 
Gordon is said to be devastated.
Roberts, now 62, retains his Welsh lilt and speaks in slow, measured tones. He has a 
fatherly air at odds with his toughness, although the latter is evident in the 
prominent scar on his head acquired while defending Houston during a fight between 
her brother, Michael, and a gang of racist thugs in Kentucky.
His association with Whitney started purely by chance. But within a short space of 
time he was not just protecting her, but keeping her whirlwind life and career intact.
He had been a police officer and then a sergeant in the Royalty and Diplomatic 
Protection Department of Scotland Yard. He saw action in Northern Ireland and was 
later trained as a sniper. He was also involved in the Iranian embassy siege in 1980 in 
London. In 1984 he started his own security and investigations consultancy.
In February 1988, he was asked by the American embassy to look after Whitney 
Houston during a forthcoming visit to London. He’d never heard of her.
Their first 
encounter was at Heathrow airport, where she was arriving on Concorde. 
She was 
surrounded by a huge entourage – including her friend and rumoured lesbian lover 
Robyn Crawford – and Roberts was introduced to her only briefly.
However, a night out a few days later brought him to the attention of the American 
security team travelling with her.
He recalls: ‘She went to Browns nightclub, and there was a scuffle as she left, with 
photographers swarming to take pictures of her.
‘One guy was trying to climb into the Rolls-Royce to get to her, so I blocked him and 
his camera fell to the ground and smashed.
‘Because I’d done my job – with the benefit of local knowledge – the former FBI 
security guy who was looking after her hired me to continue providing security for 
the whole of her British tour, followed by her European tour, and then as director of 
security on a Far East tour.’
Roberts quickly found himself personally guarding Whitney outside her hotel door as 
she slept at night.
‘We developed a rapport and I liked her immensely,’ he says. ‘At that time, she was a 
very professional and articulate but slightly shy and unworldly woman.
‘She had a wonderful sense of humour. We had a lot of fun.’
Roberts believes that she had already experimented with drugs at this stage, 
although he saw no sign of them.
He was then asked to arrange the security for her 26th birthday party at her house 
in New Jersey.
She attended on the arm of actor Eddie Murphy, but Roberts noticed a new male 
presence. ‘A bus pulled up at the house and three guys got off.
One of them was wearing a turquoise and white floral shorts suit, black loafers and 
white socks.
‘I asked if I could help him and he said he was Bobby Brown and that he had an 
invitation to come to the party. Later in the evening, I saw him dancing with Whitney 
in a way they would call dancing but other people might describe as sexual assault. 
And that was it.’
Life for Roberts became a cycle of going on tour for three months, then returning 
home to London for two or three weeks.
‘It wasn’t a job, it was a vocation,’ he says. ‘It left no room in my life for anything 
else, including my wife at the time. I had to be there for Whitney, or Nippy, as her 
friends and family called her, whenever she needed me.
‘Once, she called for me because her false tooth had fallen down the sink in her hotel 
room in Hong Kong. I couldn’t retrieve it, so we had to take her to a dentist to get 
it fixed. I didn’t mind. We had a bond.
‘On tour, she’d push little notes under my hotel room door, messages saying thank 
you. Once, she wrote, “I will always love you”, years before the song came out. 
She 
was sweet, and I think she saw me as a sort of protective uncle figure.’
Officially, Houston and Brown’s romance did not begin until 1991, although Roberts 
says Brown had become a fixture long before that.
'I could see the effect he was having on her. She became obsessed by where he was 
and what he was doing. She didn’t trust him, and the emotional stress manifested 
itself in her starting to lose her temper. She was unhappy; there wasn’t the same 
laughter there had been.’ 
From the start, their pairing was an unlikely one.
Whitney, already America’s sweetheart whose eponymously titled first album remains 
the bestselling debut by a female artist in music history, was the product of a 
showbusiness dynasty.
Her mother was Cissy Houston, a singer, and her father John Houston, a powerful 
entertainment manager. Dionne Warwick was her cousin and Aretha Franklin her 
honorary aunt.
By contrast, Brown was involved in gang violence from an early age. He had become 
successful with the group New Edition before becoming a solo artist, but drug abuse, 
accusations of rape and other criminal activities dogged him throughout his career.
Brown began to travel with Houston when she went on tour, and the pair would often 
hole themselves up in their hotel room with large quantities of alcohol.
‘Every two days, a bottle of brandy and a couple of crates of Heineken would go in, 
and then he’d be too ill to do anything for a day, and the following day he’d start 
the process again,’ says Roberts.
‘The only time I saw any drugs until the very end of my time with her was before 
Brown was on the scene, when we arrived in Long Island for a show and Whitney’s 
maid Sylvia asked me to retrieve Whitney’s glasses case, which she’d left on the bus.
It was full of weed.
‘But I knew they were taking drugs together, because everyone knew.
‘As time went on, she started to cancel performances and events because she wasn’t 
well, and it was obvious why.’ He believes Houston willingly allowed herself to be 
dragged down by Brown.
‘I think that to make him feel less uncomfortable about his inadequacies, and the 
fact she was more successful than him, she went down to his level. That meant joining 
him in his habits. When they were out together, they were loud and brash. 
They used 
bad language and had arguments to attract attention. It was embarrassing.’ 
Wherever Brown went, chaos followed. 
During one visit to London, Roberts received an 
urgent call at 4am from Houston’s driver.
‘Brown was having a fight with Michael Houston on the Embankment. 
They’d been at 
Browns nightclub, and they’d apparently met a man who had £250,000 worth of 
cocaine with him and was trying to sell it.
‘The fight started because Bobby wanted to go back to the club and rob this man of 
the drugs and money. Michael was trying to stop him.’
In 1992, Houston made The Bodyguard film. The similarities between the plot of the 
film and Roberts’s involvement with the star was a source of amusement to them 
both.
‘When I saw it, I was amazed,’ he says. 
‘Whitney wasn’t acting; it was her life. I saw 
Kevin Costner doing everything for her that I did… obviously without the sex and the 
shooting! Whitney and I joked about it. 
‘Her name in the film, Rachel Marron, was the name I used to book her into hotels.
We were staying in the MGM Grand in Las Vegas one night after filming had finished 
and she asked me to come to her room and listen to her new song. It was I Will Always 
Love You, and I told her it was the best song she’d ever done. At that point, she had 
everything.’
But one evening that spring, Roberts was in a restaurant in Atlanta having dinner 
with Whitney and her entourage.
He recalls: ‘She said to me, “David, I think I’m going to marry Bobby.” I said, 
“Really, boss?” She said, “Yes. What do you think?” 
‘I just didn’t know how to say to her, “Please God, no, don’t do it.” ’
They married in 1992 in a lavish ceremony at her home.
Brown cheated on Houston frequently before they divorced in 2007, and Roberts 
believes it was a deliberate policy aimed at chipping away at her self-esteem.
Roberts says: ‘Her behaviour was similar to battered wife syndrome, which I’d seen in 
my time in the police. He was jealous of her success, so he rubbed her face in his 
cheating, but she forgave him every possible indiscretion. I just couldn’t understand 
it. And it ate away at her.’ As Whitney later admitted: ‘He was too promiscuous, 
dragging dirt into my home. It disturbed me.’
Once, she was about to go on-stage at a big open-air concert in Lexington, Kentucky, 
when she decided to call Brown in Atlanta.
‘A woman answered the phone, so immediately, she wanted to fly to Atlanta to find 
out what he was doing,’ says Roberts. 
‘The crowds were already arriving, but she 
cancelled the show. We had to find a doctor to say she had lost her voice, and then 
arrange a private jet.
‘We flew to Atlanta, and when we arrived, Whitney and Brown had a furious 
argument. Fifteen minutes later, they were having sex. That’s the way it always was.
‘He and I were alone together in a bar one night in Germany, and he was telling me 
he’d changed and become a Muslim. 
But that evening, he left with two prostitutes. 
He tried to offer one to me.’
Houston and Brown have admitted that it was around the time of The Bodyguard that 
they began to take drugs together every day, often cocaine-laced cannabis joints.
Bobbi Kristina was born the following year, in 1993, and Roberts was dismayed by the 
arrangements her parents made for her care and concerned about the background of 
some of the characters trusted to look after the toddler.
‘Whitney and Bobby bought Bobbi Kristina diamond ear-rings worth $20,000, 
information that appeared in the press, so I was very worried about her safety. I 
suggested to Bobby that they take them out of her ears, but because I’d suggested 
it, he refused.
He knew I disliked him intensely and it was mutual.’
By the time Houston filmed the movie Waiting To Exhale in 1995, her drug-taking had 
begun to have a serious impact on her health.
‘She took an overdose of cocaine, and filming had to be halted for a week,’ he says.
‘Her throat doctor told me that he was giving her eight months to stop the habit or 
she’d never be able to sing again.
‘I was horrified, but shortly afterwards, we flew to Brunei so she could sing at the 
Sultan’s niece’s 18th birthday party. She croaked her way through her greatest hits. 
I was disgusted, and she knew it.
‘I went home and wrote a report on what the doctor had told me and sent it to her 
lawyers. A week later, I was told that she would no longer be travelling internationally 
so my services were no longer needed.’
Roberts never heard from Houston again, and went back to running his investigations 
and security business. In 2010, he moved to Miami. Over the years, he watched 
Houston’s decline with a sense of sad inevitability.
‘I wasn’t surprised when she died – I was just surprised by how long she lived. I like to 
think it wouldn’t have happened on my watch.’
Of Brown, who has married again and still works with his soul group New Edition, 
Roberts said: ‘Those around her failed her. With Bobbi Kristina so close to dying, too, 
I wonder if he feels guilt for the way he’s behaved. He should.’
Culled UK Dail Mail
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6 Easy Ways To Keep Your Relationship Fun And Exciting

Relationships are hard work, but with your 
dedication it can become fun and very exciting.
How do you keep your relationship worthwhile 
and rewarding for the two of you involved?
These 6 tips will help you figure out to keep 
your relationship fun and exciting: 
1. Do something new together: Doing 
something that neither of you has ever 
done before, keeps things interesting 
and fresh. Whether it’s taking a holiday 
somewhere new or trying a new 
restaurant in town, do something totally 
different and interesting with your 
partner. 
2. Date nights are 
actually more important than you think. 
Clear your schedule, put work on hold 
and plan a nice night out. Whether it’s 
something simple like heading out for a 
movie or preparing a homemade meal, 
never cancel on date night. If you have 
kids, arrange for a babysitter to watch 
them to ensure that you get plenty of 
time alone with your spouse. 
3. Pour out your love completely: In a happy 
relationship, there’s no room for ego. 
Never hold back on expressing love and 
forgiveness, no matter how irritated you 
are with your partner. Just as you would 
want your spouse to laugh with you and 
forgive you for all your wrongdoings, 
offer up the same thing. Never hold 
back on your love no matter the 
circumstance. 
4. Communicate: Communicating freely with 
your partner is very important if you 
want to keep your long term relationship 
alive. This does not include speaking 
about everyday household chores, but 
rather, has to do with sitting down with 
your spouse for at least 15 minutes a 
day and indulging in conversation. It 
could be discussing the future, helping 
out with a work issue and so on. Keep 
things light and easy. The goal is getting 
to know your partner again. 
5. Be fully committed: If you want to keep 
your long term relationship exciting, you 
must ensure that you are fully 
committed and give it your all. Behave 
as though your relationship will end if 
you cannot fix this, and for most 
couples, that is probably the case. By 
thinking along these lines, you will put in 
plenty of effort and truth be told, itÂ? 
s the only way you should be addressing 
this anyway. 
6. Take trips together: Sometimes, all you 
need to do to revitalize your long term 
relationship is to plan an escape 
together. Whether it is a one-week 
getaway to the Carribean or a one night 
stay at your favourite hotel in the city, 
take a trip with your partner and treat 
it like a second honeymoon. If both of 
you cannot seem to take time off or if 
you have financial constraints, then plan 
a simple picnic in the park or have a 
glass of wine at your favourite lookout 
point.
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How To Make A Girl Fall In Love Without Spending A Kobo On Her

I am about to show you the same step by step secrets players use to get girls 
swarming to them like magnet. This is the same secret that gigolo guys use to land 
themselves rich sugar mummies and girlfriends 
Apply these same step by step process and you would get a girl interested in you 
without taking her out on a single date.
Yes, money can attract a girl (no doubt about that). Especially the gold-digging type 
of girls. But sometimes using money to attract girls can be annoying, we guys want a 
girl that would like us for who we are and not because of how fat our wallet is or how 
much we have spent on her. Sometimes all we want is true love and not a girl who is 
interested in our money.
If you don’t want a gold digger who is just interested in money then this step by 
step seduction secrets will be really helpful.
#1. MAKE YOUR APPROACH WITH CONCEALED INTENTIONS. 
I really want you to get this. Let’s assume you meet a girl In a bank, what case will 
she be more friendly? 
CASE 1: when you walk up to her to collect a pen? 
CASE 2: when you walk up to her to toast her? 
Of course, case one is the answer. A girl you try to toast would naturally try to be 
hard to get. 
When a girl is sure you like her she tends to raise her defence. What players do is to 
approach a girl without showing signs that they are interested in her and by the time 
she knows it – bam, she has already fallen. This is simple psychology. They approach 
her this way so they can get into her head before she starts forming. 
So how do you apply this seduction principle in real life? 
To understand this try to think about this scenario; have you ever had this happen to 
you before: A particular girl gives you green light and shows signs she likes you then 
when you toast her and tell her how much you love her she suddenly starts 
withdrawing from you. 
Ever wondered why this happens? 
Answer – because you went against the step one of the players rule- 
Players never make the mistake of allowing a girl become too sure of how much he 
feels about her. 
Here is the rule: Never tell a girl how much you love her, make her guess. The best 
time to tell her is when you are sure she feels twice the way you feel. 
Girls would tell you they can never date a guy they are not sure if they love them, 
but the truth is this – girls don’t know what they want. You have to make them fall 
in love with you.
#2: JONSE HER WHEN YOU COMMUNICATE 
Let me give you a picture of a girl’s life. 
Visit the facebook picture of a girl and you will understand how they think. Their 
pictures are filled with praises from guys and they receive those praises like it’s 
their right. 
No sweet thing you say to her is new to her. Her inbox is filled with all sort of 
praises. The average ones get at least 5 serious guys toasting them in two weeks. 
To get her attention you have to be different.
Shocked? Well, if you were a player you wouldn’t be shocked. This what players do all 
the time. 
Try and watch the way any player you know talks to girls. Notice how they talk to a 
girl and make fun of her in a playful way – no matter how pretty the girl looks – 
they don’t care, they just talk to her like she is their small sister. 
It’s simple psychology. 
People are naturally attracted to people who don’t try to impress them. The more 
pretty a girl looks the more it works on her. 
When other guys are saying sweet things to her and you show up and say things 
totally different from what she is used to hearing from guys – she starts wondering 
why and she starts trying to be close to you. 
My favourite approach is to playfully tell a very pretty girl that I have friendzoned 
her and that I don’t find her attractive. I say this in a particular way that tricks 
her into wanting to make me fall for her. (In my book, I explained more on how to use 
this trick to make pretty girls chase you – see my profile for how to get it).
#3: CONFUSE HER WITH ON AND OFF 
Have you ever wondered why girls like guys who don’t like them while when you 
shower her with attention she still ignores you.
Infact, the more you show a girl that you love her the more she withdraws from you.
Have you ever noticed that? 
Well, players have found a way to put a stop to this. This is called the ON and OFF 
strategy.
How is it used? 
Simple; by acting like you like her this moment and then the next moment you start 
acting a bit cold.
You must have seen a girl who has fallen for this particular trick from a player. They 
cry that he doesn’t call, he is unpredictable, that they are not sure if he likes him, 
sometimes he quarrels with them for no just reason.
A popular celebrity player is Chris brown. Notice how he treats Karrauche and she 
still always keep going back to him.
This is the players’ little secret. They never make a girl become too sure… 
For more steps to making a girl fall in love; Get my E-Book 
“The Bang Rule…ultimate guild to seduction for Nigerian guys”, see my profile for 
details on how to get the book.
PS: You may drop your relationship questions, pains, or basically ask for advice on how 
to tackle that babe giving you wahala – I will try as much as I can to answer the 
questions. 
Shalom, brothers
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How To Make A Girl Fall In Love Without Spending A Kobo On Her

I am about to show you the same step by step secrets players use to get girls swarming to them like magnet. This is the same secret that gigolo guys use to land themselves rich sugar mummies and girlf…

24 Feb 2015

10 Simple Things Guys Do To Deceive Girls and Take Them To Bed

Generally, women are giving and loving by nature and will bend over backwards 
to please their man. But, there are some things a man should NEVER ask his 
GF/Wife to do for him or accept from him. 
1. Force Intimacy. NEVER, EVER blackmail, coerce, manipulate or force intimacy 
on your GF/Wife if she’s ill, not in the mood, tired or asleep. It’s disrespectful, 
insensitive and selfish. And depending on the woman, you may be opening 
yourself up to a world of trouble – relationship-wise and legal-wise. 
2. Have A Baby Out-Of-Wedlock. First comes marriage – then comes the baby 
carriage. If you want to do the Daddy thing – then marry your GF FIRST. Why 
do you want her to enter the world of Single Motherhood? And how is she to 
know you’re really going to marry her as promised? 
3. Start A Family Too Soon. What’s the rush? Wouldn’t it be better to give the 
marriage time to settle in first? Stop pressuring your Wife to have a baby, 
before you two have adjusted to the whole idea of marriage. If she’s not ready 
– she’s not ready. In fact, marriage counselors advise putting off having a baby 
for at least 2-3 years, to allow young couples to strengthen their marriage 
bonds first, before becoming parents. 
4. Tattoo Your Name On Her Body. Why? Is this your way of asking your GF/Wife 
to prove she loves you or, is it a way of ‘marking your territory’? Either way, 
it’s her body, she can do what she wants with it and, if she refuses to mark up 
her body, respect her decision. 
5. Alter Her Appearance. Never pressure your GF/Wife to diet, dress a certain 
way or to get surgery. It’s her body, and she’s in charge of it. If you don’t 
appreciate her natural beauty, then you should look elsewhere for a woman to 
fulfill your fantasies. Leave her be. 
6. Have An Abortion. You knew the risk when you laid down and did the 
horizontal mambo with your GF/Wife, without birth control. Now she’s pregnant 
and you want her to have an abortion, because you’re not ready or you can’t 
afford a baby right now. If she resists, try and come up with some alternatives. 
If she still resists, Daddy-hood is now your cup of tea. 
7. Do Drugs. Why ask your GF/Wife to do drugs with you? Better yet why are 
YOU doing drugs anyway? Asking her to do drugs with you is the height of 
stupidity. If you wanted a drug addict, why pick a woman who wasn’t? And don’t 
try to manipulate her with that ol’ “If you loved me, you would!” mess. If she 
loves herself, it’s best she exits stage left and leave you with a quickness. You’re 
poison. 
8. Have A Three-some. This is tricky. Some men count themselves lucky their 
GF/Wife agreed to a three-some. Others regret the day they even suggested 
it, when their GF/Wife ends up falling for the other woman and leaving the 
relationship/marriage. Three-somes, and all acts related, can open the door to 
all kinds of nasty consequences that can threaten or end your relationship/ 
marriage. Best think twice before diving into these waters. 
9. Make A S*x Tape. You may view making a s*x tape, as a way of spicing up your 
relationship but, if your GF/Wife is like “HELL NO!” – back off. She has very 
good reasons for not wanting to make a s*x tape that could fall into the wrong 
hands. And no sneaky taping either and posting it online. Depending on the 
woman, you could find yourself dragged into court and sued for harassment, 
invasion of privacy, criminal voyeurism or defamation of character.
10. Car/Home Loan. If you’re married, this is a reasonable 
request. But why ask your GF to put her credit on the line? If you break up, 
she’ll be responsible for those payments, if you don’t pay them. Plus, she can 
sue you in civil court for breach of contract, if she ends up making the 
payments. 
11. Change Her Religious Beliefs. Religion is a very personal thing. If you wanted 
someone who would be ‘equally yoked’ to you, then you should have informed 
your GF of that fact, from the very beginning – not after a year or two, after 
she’s fallen in love with you or married you. That’s wrong, especially if you’ve 
given her the ultimatum of either changing over to your religion or going your 
separate ways. 
12. Sacrifice Time Spent With Her Family/Friends. It is the height of selfishness 
to ask your GF/Wife to give up spending time with her family and friends. Do 
you expect her to spend all her free time with you? What if she asked you to do 
the same? How would you like it? Careful. This is a major sign of a control 
freak. 
13. Act Dumb So You Can Feel Smarter. Why ask/expect your GF/Wife, directly 
or indirectly, to pretend she is less intelligent or less handy around the house, 
to make you happier? Didn’t you say you wanted an independent woman, with a 
good head on her shoulders, who is capable of taking care of things on her own? 
Now that you have one, you’re complaining? And men say women don’t know what 
they want in a man. 
14. Change Her Morals. You should respect your GF/Wife’s morals even if you 
don’t share them. Urging her to break them, is doing her a disservice. You 
should like her for who she is, and shouldn’t try to change her. Her strong 
morals should be something you admire, not something you wish to change. 
15. Give Up Her Dreams. If your GF/Wife has always wanted to be a teacher, 
don’t try to talk her into being a nurse or anything else. Don’t put her in the 
position of having to choose between you and her dreams. You may come out on 
the losing end. 
16. Stop Doing Things She Loves To Do. If you ask your GF/Wife to stop doing 
the things she loves to do – then be prepared to stop doing the things YOU love 
to do when SHE asks – because it’s coming. 
17. Put Up With Abusive Behavior From Your Family And Friends. It is YOUR job 
as a man to PROTECT your GF/Wife from ANY and ALL that insist on insulting, 
criticizing, or are otherwise abusing her, in your presence, including your family 
and friends. And you must be prepared to back up your words with actions. Tell 
your family and friends that they aren’t welcome, in your home, if they don’t 
leave their abusive behavior at the door. If not, then be prepared to watch your 
GF/Wife walk out that same door, because she does not feel valued and 
protected by you. 
18. Perform Exotic S*x Acts She’s Uncomfortable Doing. There is more to a 
relationship than the s*xual aspect. If you truly love your GF/Wife, then it won’t 
matter if she will or won’t do it, so grow up and act like someone who is mature 
enough to enter into an adult relationship. Remember that she’s a person, 
entitled to her own opinions on everything and shouldn’t be held to the “If you 
love me – you would” school of thought, just because you’re not getting what you 
want from her. If exotic s*x acts are that important to you, then maybe you 
should move on and leave her in peace. 
19. Reveal Past S*xual History. If you’re not prepared to bare all – then don’t 
ask your GF/Wife to bare all. Besides, it’s the past and none of your business. 
If you wanted a virgin, then you should have snagged one 
20. Accept You Behaving Badly. If you’re one of those men who thinks that you 
can do what you want, because you’re providing for the household – think again. 
Only a weak-minded, financially-dependent, worried-about-what-people-say- 
about-her type of GF/Wife will tolerate her man behaving badly. Strong- 
minded, financially independent, don’t-give-a-damn-what-people-say-about- 
her GFs/Wives will kick you to the curb in a hot New York minute.
Your GF/Wife may be the love of your life but, it doesn’t grant you authority 
over the decisions she makes about her life or dictate how she lives her life.
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10 Simple Things Guys Do To Deceive Girls and Take Them To Bed

Generally, women are giving and loving by nature and will bend over backwards to please their man. But, there are some things a man should NEVER ask his GF/Wife to do for him or accept from him. 1. Fo…

23 Feb 2015

SUNDAY HEADLINES

*****SUNDAY PUNCH***** 
Poly lecturers begin strike Wednesday **Fleeing Boko Haram insurgents drown in Lake 
Chad As INEC buys 20,000 extra card readers 
Police intelligence shocker: More political rallies likely to be bombed As Obasanjo shuns 
PDP, Jonathan reconciliation again 
Re-election: Yoruba Obas give Jonathan conditions 
Fayose trailing Buhari in London — APC 
Ateke Tom defends Jonathan’s wife 
Don’t postpone polls again, UN tells FG 
Don’t intimidate opponents with soldiers, Kukah warns FG 
Protect power facilities, Jonathan tells traditional rulers 
Another shift in polls will lead to unrest — Balarabe Musa 
Don’t sell South-West for nothing, Adebanjo tells Yorubas 
Ex-senator asks INEC to test card readers 
Eaglets beat Zambia, qualify for U-17 World Cup 
*****SUNDAY TRIBUNE****** 
EXCLUSIVE! The President Jonathan Interview: How I felt when OBJ tore his PDP 
card 
Buhari to Jonathan: Tell Fayose to stop wishing me dead 
Revealed: How OBJ stopped Lagos-Ibadan expressway project 
Polytechnic teachers begin another strike on Wednesday 
Terrorism: Troops recapture Baga, rout B/Haram 
Jonathan commissions 220MW Egbin power plant 
I will implement confab report in full —Jonathan 
APC plans N50bn election war chest 
Elections: PDP accuses APC leaders of hidden agenda 
7-year-old donates books to Mrs Ajimobi’s ERC 
Your support has been overwhelming —Folarin 
Tribune journalist loses dad 
Be vigilant on election riggers —PDP 
DELSU matriculates 4,361 
Submit sacked council chairmen to probe, Ladoja campaign org tells Ajimobi 
NANS agitates for N1,000 reduction in NYSC’s online system 
Testimony of Globacom’s overload promo 
Ultimatum on Fani-Kayode: Osun APC should treat real issues —PDP 
Election shift: Massive protest looms —Balarabe Musa 
*****SUNDAY SUN***** 
Calabar prison gun duel: 7 inmates buried 
… 9 in critical condition 
I‘ve added value to governance –Fashola 
General elections: Boko Haram victims may not return to recaptured areas 
Poly lecturers begin strike Wednesday 
Buhari to speak at Chatham House on Thursday, February 26 
March 28, April 11 and May 29 are sacrosant –Senator Ojudu 
Play down money if you want good governance –Hon. Deji Awobutu, APC Candidate 
Why we want Buhari as president –Southeast Professionals 
‘My economic blueprint for Ebonyi is Josephonomics’ 
We’ve grown beyond zoning in Plateau –Pwajok, PDP Guber candidate 
Siasia’s Dream Team goes goalwire 
*****VANGUARD***** 
POLLS Afenifere endorsed Jonathan based on his pro-restructuring credentials – 
Kunle Olajide 
Between Sam Egwu and political enemies 
The implication of Obasanjo’s departure from the PDP – Buhari Campaign Group 
Defected PDP govs have no cause remaining in office —Sule Lamido 
Eaglets secure World Cup ticket 
Rio 2016: Babalola heads to Dubai for first Paralympics qualifier 
French President calls victim of Chelsea fans’ racist abuse 
I can’t wait to unveil my debut album – Skales 
The Udokwus reveal secret of their 15 years marriage 
I am not a Nollywood person -Sola Fosudo 
Beauty pageant is about service to humanity, not showbiz – Miss UN 
*****THE NATION***** 
ASUP threatens to shut polytechnics again 
Fleeing Boko Haram fighters drown in Lake Chad 
•Troops survive 1,500 land mines, reclaim Baga—DHQ Scores of Boko Haram terrorists 
drowned in Lake ... 
Jonathan in trouble over Abuja land deal 
Stop attacks on Obasanjo, Ogun Obas tell President 
Buhari meets Tony Blair 
PDP leaders, Jonathan’s camp bicker over anti-Obasanjo plot 
Mass protest looms if election is shifted again -Balarabe Musa 
Boko Haram: French minister tours West Africa 
Soldiers storm Oyo as Jonathan visits Alaafin 
*****GUARDIAN***** 
Military Clears Terrorists From Baga, Others 
Again, Jonathan Pledges To Implement Confab Report 
PDP Accuses APC Of Plotting To Use Fake Soldiers 
Beware Of Money Bags, INEC Warns Staffers 
Kukah Urges Police To Obey Rules Of Engagement 
APC Accuses PDP, Fayose Of Trailing Buhari In London 
Jonathan Commissions Turbine At Egbin Power Station 
Cholera Outbreak: Six Dead, Eight Others Hospitalised In Ebonyi 
Nollywood Stars In Jos, Sue For Peace 
[UPDATED] Military claims recapture of Baga from Boko Haram 
*****THISDAY***** 
Polytechnic Lecturers Resume Indefinite Strike Wednesday 
The Incessant Bombing of APC Rallies in Okrika 
When Jega Appeared Before the Senate 
Killed in the Name of Boko Haram 
Dickson: Why I Hosted Ex-militants in Government House 
Maku: I Gave Everything to PDP But I Was Left in the Lurch 
Why President Jonathan Deserves Our Votes 
Okowa: Politician with a Good Heart 
APC Insists Buhari Not In London For Medicare 
Helicopters Dropping Leaflets Denouncing Boko Haram Cause Stir in Adamawa
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*****SUNDAY HEADLINES*****

*****SUNDAY PUNCH***** Poly lecturers begin strike Wednesday **Fleeing Boko Haram insurgents drown in Lake Chad As INEC buys 20,000 extra card readers Police intelligence shocker: More political ralli…

22 Feb 2015

10 Simple Things Guys Do To Deceive GIRLS. [A MUST READ]

Now I love my sisters and I'll do anything for 
them, and they are one thing I'll always thank 
God for, coz they bring pain to the guys in their 
lives. Well, I coach them to LOCK UP their 
warehouse of abundance . As a semi-badt 
guy, guys have tricks and I'll expose them here. 
Thank me with a PM if you want more tips.
1. Using Slow Rhythm and Soft Tone : Whether on 
the phone or in-person, the first simple thing a 
guy can do to deceive you is when he lowers his 
voice tone to become soft and speaks like he's 
talking to his great grandmother who just had ear 
surgery. Ladies, you know what I'm saying... abi?
2. Smile: A genuine smile that has the sides of a 
guy's eyes stretching along, will ALWAYS deceive 
you ladies into opening up your shield. Watch for 
this one too. A smile can cost more than the price 
they call. Na after you buy you go know the 
difference between Isoko and Sokoto
3. Make you laugh: Like this post says, these are 
just simple things guys do and this one is like the 
simplest and most obvious. Ladies, trust me guys 
know this and I'm telling you a secret. (hussssh! 
listen...) Guys believe that once they can make 
you laugh, "it's finished" as put by my sweet Lord 
Jesus. Maybe that's what helped Jesus with the 
women in his life... he never made them laugh. I'm 
not sure I have an antidote coz this trick really 
works.
4. Make you talk : A guy that knows 'wasup' will 
always make you want to talk, and talk ONLY 
about yourself. Things that concern you, your 
hairdo, your makeup and how so 'beautifully 
ungodly' it is - and even what you think about the 
Big Brother House girls! This tactic is simple. So 
simple. Once they get you talking and talking and 
talking, trust me, they are ogling at your chest, 
your lips and if it's really nice, your hair.
5. Walk slowly : A slow stride in a guy signifies 
some sort of confidence. Ladies, am I right... that 
you NEVER get turned on by a guy who walks SO 
FAST! Tap! Tap! Tap! Like he was walking to 
secure the last seat before his molue leaves for 
heaven! Once a guy steps slowly like, one... and... 
two... and... one... and... two... trust me, the 
ladies start tripping.
6. Perfume: Hmmmmm... no need to talk about 
this. It's as simple as I told you it'd be. The worst 
part, even a N1200 perfume can make a girl 
think, "Hmmm... just maybe"
7. Dress cute: Whether wearing the most expensive 
or the cheapest, as long as the color goes well and 
the clothes are ironed, ladies just start 
considering. If the guy con try add good shoe with 
correct belt, aha! "It is finished" again... Thank u 
Lord Jesus!
8. Clean Skin : O boy! I don't know where to start 
from in this one. A 20-something year old lady 
almost raped me when I was like 12 years old coz 
of my skin tone! Heck, why do you think ladies 
love holding babies and cuddling them? Once a guy 
maintains his skin well, no blemish, no pimple, all 
clean, the ladies even start deceiving themselves. 
They be like, "wow... he's SO competing with me"
9. Deepened Voice : Another simple trick that 
throws girls off-balance. A guy's voice sounds 
deep, mustn't be bass, and the ladies start doing 
"ten ten" in their minds. Na wa o. Don't they 
even know this voice thing comes as early as 
puberty? God help my 18-year old bro... the guy 
must be having 'selection problem'.
10. Make U Think or Talk about S\ex! : What came 
to your mind when you saw that last word SEX . 
See what I mean? Once a guy jokes about the 
 word SEX, or writes about the word,SEX or even 
sneezes a note about the word SEX, ladies die 
once. It's like something falls off their brain and 
crashes into their "down there" causing 
irreparable damage. Of the two of us, guys and 
girls, I have to argue that girls love SEX more 
than us. They're just better at hiding it! But still, 
that's a good thing... wouldn't want my future 
virgin daughter come up to me like, "Dad, I saw 
this guy today and my body was so scratching me, 
like this and like that... I just did it to get it over 
with Dad." Mehnnn... na faint!
HMMMM... the worst part, guys will still continue 
to deceive you even after reading this. God help 
us! Comments and bashing are welcome
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10 Simple Things Guys Do To Deceive GIRLS. [A MUST READ]

Now I love my sisters and I'll do anything for them, and they are one thing I'll always thank God for, coz they bring pain to the guys in their lives. Well, I coach them to LOCK UP their warehouse of …

22 Feb 2015

Ladies; If Your Man Starts Taking You For Granted, This Is What You Should Do Next …

Sometimes feelings between couple begin to die out and guys may start to take 
females for granted. So, if this is happening to you right now or you want to 
avoid such situations, here’s what will have to be done.
1. Always be busy if he doesn’t plan well: If you two are dating and aren’t just 
hookup buddies, he should be asking you at least a day in advance to see you. If 
he gives you any less notice than this, always say you’re busy, even if you’re not. 
Make him learn that if he wants to see you, he’ll have to ask sooner. Remind him 
that others want your time, and you don’t save it for him.
2. Ditch him and take yourself on nice dates: If he invites you to another lame 
night at a bar with a big group of friends and hasn’t taken you on a nice date 
in a long time, say, ‘No thanks. I feel like doing something nice and treating 
myself tonight. I’m going to get a drink at a nice bar and take myself to a nice 
dinner.’ Make him see that if he doesn’t get on board with planning nice 
evenings, he just won’t get to see you as often. And make him worry a little – 
he should see that you don’t need a man to treat you. So he better make 
himself valuable to you in some way!
3. Do something that makes you the star: Whether this means joining a band, 
taking singing lessons, do something that puts all eyes on you. Remind him that 
you’re wonderful, and that plenty of people are ready and eager to give you 
attention. So if you don’t get it from him, you might just go get it elsewhere…
4. Plan nothing for his birthday: When he starts trying to brainstorm ideas for 
his birthday party with you, act non-interested and say, ‘Whatever you want. We 
did so little for mine so I figured you didn’t need a whole big thing.’ Make him 
see that he gets out of the relationship what he puts into it. 
5. He takes you for granted: he probably often puts other 
things like his work or friends or even alone time before the relationship. Do the 
same by means of canceling. Cancel because you’re tired and want a night to 
yourself, or cancel because your friends invited you to something really fun. 
Show him that the relationship has basically been surviving because you have been 
prioritizing it, and force him to pull his own weight. 
6. Withhold information…for a while: If something big happens in your life, don’t 
tell your guy for a while. Then let it slip one day and when he says, ‘Why didn’t 
you tell me?’ say, ‘Well it seemed like you had too much on your mind to listen 
lately so I just went to somebody else.’ Make him feel left out, and make him 
see he did that to himself.
7. Dress up super hot…then leave the house: Remind him he doesn’t take you to 
do anything that warrants such an outfit, so the rest of the world gets to enjoy 
seeing you in it, instead of him. 
8. Come to bed late: If he takes you for granted, he probably works on his 
laptop, or plays video games, or texts his friends when you’re in bed right next 
to him, instead of asking you about your day. But he probably doesn’t realize 
how much he enjoys just having you next to him. Make him realize it by staying 
up later than him. Make him realize he needs to give you a good reason to be in 
that bed, like a good conversation or some good sex. Otherwise, you’d rather 
read your book in the living room. 
9. Don’t touch him for a while: Many men don’t realize how much just holding 
hands and touching in public means to them, until it’s taken away from them. 
Then they realize other men could perceive you as single! Suddenly, they feel 
you don’t need them as much! 
10. Suggest a break, since he’s clearly not up for a relationship: If you take a 
break, it will suddenly become very clear to your guy all the things you add to 
his life, because suddenly they’ll be gone! And it will show him that what you 
were getting is not enough for you to stick around.
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Ladies; If Your Man Starts Taking You For Granted, This Is What You Should Do Next …

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21 Feb 2015

How to make Love To a Woman and 24 other things EVERY man should know how to do

A bookmaker firm in the UK named William Hill has just released a list of 50 things 
every real man should know. They did a survey of 2,000 men before they came up 
with this result.
The list contains some football stuff like knowing the offside rule and knowing the 
year England won the World Cup. The rest are mostly common sense stuff like 
knowing how to change a bulb and how to polish your shoes.
You’d expect a list like this to focus on things that really matter in life and not 
mundane things like knowing how to set up a shelf or the last three football coaches 
your country had. But don’t forget the survey was done by a bookmaker firm. So 
let’s give them some credit for the work.
That done, let’s look at the top 25 things every man should really know how to do.
1. How to motivate Your sweetheart is feeling a little low about her startup or you’re 
trying to get your guys at work to accomplish a task. You know you need to know how 
to motivate.
2. How to listen You’ll be surprised at how many women in the world complain that 
their man often isn’t listening when they’re talking to them.
3. How to manage your money You can’t rely on a woman or your accountant to 
manage how you spend your money. Be a man.
4. How to bounce back Every time a real man falls, he bounces back.
5. How to show up on time Sometimes all you have to do to succeed in life is to know 
how to show up on time. It doesn’t matter if it’s a date or a business meeting or a 
friend’s wedding. The same thing applies.
6. How to love a woman Clearly one of the most important things on this list. A key to 
success in life is to know how to love a woman and how to make her happy. 
7. How to kiss Mary Jane West was an actress for 70 years. She once said, ” man’s 
kiss is his signature.
8. How to manage your time You probably won’t go far in life if you don’t know how 
to manage your time. You think any woman would be willing to put up with that?
9. How to adapt/reinvent yourself The world changes every time your heart 
beats.Look, if you don’t keep reinventing yourself you’ll soon become a dinosaur.
10. How to negotiate You’re the man. So you’ve got to be good at this if you want to 
make your family a load of money.
11. How to make love/have sex
12. How to raise a child A man shouldn’t just buy his kids stuff and pay their bills. He 
should train them too and not just leave that part to his wife.
13. How to think critically There’s probably nothing more disappointing than a man 
who cannot think for himself.
14. How to cook Apart from the fact that you might starve one day if you can’t 
whip up a meal, it’s actually an important life skill that a man should ESPECIALLY 
have. Plus women find it attractive. It’s pretty romantic.
15. How to give back Be a man. Support good causes. Help others climb up. Give back 
to your society.
16. How to give a speech You’re going to let yourself and your loved ones down one 
day if you don’t know how to give a speech.
17. How to keep a clean apartment Jesus, it’s a terrible thing to have your partner 
yell at you often because every time she comes around the place looks like someone 
just threw a bomb there.
18. How to defuse an argument It’s embarrassing to see a man and his partner 
bickering at each other all the time. He’s a man. Doesn’t he know how to defuse an 
argument?
19. How to deliver This is vital for building business and climbing the corporate 
ladder. Know how to deliver what your client wants. Know how to deliver what your 
boss wants. Deliver, deliver, deliver.
20. How to manage wife-mother relationship You’re in between two women. Know how 
to deal with it.
21. How to pay attention A man who pays attention will often notice when something 
is off and then he can act accordingly. This ability can save a job, a marriage and 
even a person’s life. For the records, there are only 22 things on this list. But it’s 
okay if you didn’t paying attention to that.
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How to make Love To a Woman and 24 other things EVERY man should know how to do

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21 Feb 2015

Keep Quiet When You're Pissed

Most of us properly know what it means to be pissed or pissed off or nettled or peeved, whatever, it actually means to get irritated, and develop that feeling of wanting to fly inside a well or wishing to fall from a sky scraper(this is for the white fellas that likes to break records that was never even built and not for us, I mean us Africans, especially Nigerian Igbo guys. Ah! We want more life to live & hammer). Anyway, whenever one is vexed for any reason whatsoever, let him shut his mouth up & zip his creamy lips, I suggest. He is even better off going to take a shower and perhaps practice dumbness trick on himself and to the world.
The grounds being that at the point of anger or any form of vaxation, be it hassle, ruffle, bedevil, fret, peeve, antagonism, etc. The victim in question subconsciously or conciously establishes cruetly in his mind hence, what he begins to wish at the moment is that the ground opens and swallow the resistant partner or worsestill, swallow him(i.e. the vexing partner in question), but to express the ground swallowing in words (which is even ,more efficacious) the vexing victim may or must be seduced to ulter filthy & disdainful sentences if not essays which he would eventually regret after all. This of course is drawn out from numerous experiences, yet experience they say is the best teacher.
The idea of keeping it silent & numb whenever one feels slightly puzzled or irritated is to maintain tranquility & serenity, which is are best medication for quarrels as well as best promoting tools for any habitable environment. In the end, peace and progress will be restored & the cause and the effect of the vexation is forgotten already. By the way, as humans, we have a duty to learn critically how to control our anger as such act maturedly independently. We all have a duty to make our world a peaceful and a better place to stay, its up to you and me.
By Bright Osunwoke.
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19 Feb 2015

6 Tips To Defeat Weak Erection, Quick Ejaculation On Your Own

Many men suffer from weak erection and quick 
ejaculation not knowing that simple lifestyle 
changes will give them harder erections that will 
stay for longer.
If your sex life is hitting the rocks because of 
poor sexual performance, then you have a problem 
in your hands. 
Every man wants to be a champion in bed, which is 
a why a weak erection and quick ejaculation 
makes the average person feel like dying a 
thousand times. 
Interestingly, on the average, you can get over 
these challenges by simply changing one or two 
things about your lifestyle. 
Some simple changes will give you harder 
erections that will stay for a longer time and give 
you better sex experience:
1. Quit smoking. You may not know it, but 
smoking does a lot of damage to your sex life. 
How? Well, smoke hardens up your arteries 
and thereby reduces blood flow to the pens. 
Now, you know that erection have to do with a 
healthy heart and blood vessels. So cut down 
on the smoke bro.
2. Alcohol is not your friend. Yes, you love to get 
high and have fun, but it is not the best of 
habits. Alcohol is terrible for your sex life. It 
damages your kidney and nerves which in turn 
affect your sex organ. Again, you have a 
chance for harder erection when sober than 
when drunk.
3. Masturbation and pornography can hurt you. 
While it may be a good stress relief, 
masturbating too much can make you to 
become prone to quick ejaculation. Your body 
is used to immediate gratification and this is 
a problem. Before you thrust into the vagina 
once or twice, you're ejaculation. Porn can 
also give you addiction and sexual dysfunction 
a la performance anxiety.
4. Eat healthy. The kind of food you eat also 
affects your sex life. Include more fruits in 
your diet and let go of those junk food you so 
much love. You may not directly blame junk 
food for erectile dysfunction, but they have a 
negative impact on your sex life. Very well so.
5. Exercise your body and be fit. Staying fit is 
the best thing you can do for your body. In 
fact, your sex life will change if you get your 
body in better shape because you get more 
attractive and you have a healthier heart 
which pumps more blood and gives you better 
erection and stamina. It’s a triple benefit.
6. Worry less. Sometimes, you fail in bed just 
because you are anxious. Performance anxiety 
over penis size or other things can make you 
to have erectile dysfunction. So don't worry 
about it....just dig in and give your best 
performance.
So, conquering your weak erection and quick 
ejaculation problems starts with you. 
Change your lifestyle and then, if it fails, reach 
out to a doctor. 
Here's a toast to a lovely sex life!
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19 Feb 2015

8 Signs That Your Girlfriend Is A Wife Material.

1. If your girlfriend comes to your house and join you in drinking garri, marry her.
2. If you take her to a restaurant and she picked gala/satchet-water instead of 
expensive meals, she's understanding, marry her.
3. If she sees someone with a Bugati but she decided to follow you with 'keke', my 
brother, na your bone be that.
4. If both of you enter a taxi or bus and she pays, that's a good sign.
5. Wash even your brothers and sisters clothes, my brother, she's yours.
6. You gave her 50k for shopping and she went for 'okirika' and she brings back 45k 
to you, marry her because she read Economics.
7. She calls you everyday and ask if you need airtime, brother claim her o.
8. If the girl use to give you her pocket money everyweek, she loves you, marry her.
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19 Feb 2015

See Why Women Cannot Go Back To Dating Poor Men After Dating Rich Men

I was watching one of Chris Rock's comedy shows recently where he made a valid point 
that women cannot go back materialistically.
What he meant by this simply is that women just won't fancy dating any guy who is 
less financially buoyant than their last boyfriend and if they do, they won't be 
'feeling' the other guy s much.
I've had conversations with two of my female room mates whose idea of their 'best 
boyfriend ever' was the guy who spent on them, who got them the expensive stuff 
and provided them with their heart's desires without them having to even ask. There 
is nothing any female loves more than when her man gets her some item (be it a 
shoe, a handbag, a phone etc) she's been pining for without her having to utter a 
word about it to him. Example, if she's been posting a pic of a pair of shoes on her IG 
or DP and her man asks why she's so interested in the shoe followed by her shoe size, 
trust when I say the Shoki the babe will be dancing that day in anticipation of the
arrival of the shoes will be enough to send Lil Kesh out of business
Fellas, if you're looking to date a woman whose ex is responsible for half the shiiit in 
her closet, plus the Samsung galaxy/Iphone she's currently using and you're not 
loaded, I regret to inform you that you don enter one chance. As in, your own don 
kpafuka. Like, she most likely will have the same interest in the relationship as the 
average straight man has in an episode of The Kardashians
You want the truth? Well, here it is. You 
may love her more than that ex did, you may be ready to sell your father's land in 
the village to provide for her, but all of that will most likely pale in her eyes in 
comparison to what the mofo ex has done for her. 
Women tend to place their wants above their needs. Forget Nollywood movies bro, 
you're not Ramsey Noah and she's not Genevieve, if she's with you despite the fact 
that you're 'poorer' than her ex, then know that she's most likely just hanging around 
until either the ex is released from whatever spiritual bondage that caused him to 
break up with her or the Lord directs some other rich dude to her stable.
So I explained to one of the two girls that her ex isn't necessarily the best guy she'll 
ever meet, he just happens to have the funds to express his love as opposed to some 
other guy who may respect her more and generally be more loving, but is 
unfortunately, not financially buoyant enough to show he's a better catch. In such 
situations it's left to the woman to decide what she really wants in a relationship and 
if she can survive with a man who may not be financially gifted, but possesses other 
traits that in the long run would be much better than wealth
So on that note, I will agree with emusmith, that love isn't always enough in any 
relationship, but not necessarily based on the terms he listed in his write-up, which in
all honesty, I found some vapid, petty and somewhat shallow (no offence ). 
Sometimes the psychological make-up of a gender will come into play.
And before the men cry foul, Chris Rock also stated that men on the other hand, can
NOT go back Sexually....but I believe that's a topic for another day. Ciao
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