I read a story here where an angry guy shot a couple at their wedding reception
because the bride left him for another man and this kept me wondering if my
boyfriend can actually do same...........here is my story.
I've been in a relationship with this guy for 10years nw (yes, 10years). It all started
in 2005 when we met, fell in love. He was and is still my first and only love . I was
enjoying the relationship until 2years ago(though we've had our share of
misunderstanding, I wldnt want to go into that) when I started thinking of settling
down. I indirectly asked him if he had any plan of marrying me and I was shocked by
the response I got. He said he doesn't believe in marriage, that everything is about
understanding. I can move in,start producing babies for him but he can never
carryout any marriage rites.
Answer. But this time, I told him that I don't Share the same view with him and that
we need to go our separate ways. Since then he has been warning me that he will kill
any man I get married to, that he cannot stand seeing me with another man........
In fact, I can't write down how the past year has been. I still love him and there is
no doubt that he loves me too. But the big problem is that we are so so different,
our views and vision are wide apart. I know I can just forget about him and move on
with my life but he wouldn't let me be. He is always there at my door step, my
office, giving 20 missed calls. Sometimes, I just wish I can relocate and start a new
life, but I can't leave my job ,not with this high rate of unemployment.
I forgot to mention that he is not the faithful type, though he doesn't flaunt it to
my face but I just get to know about it one way or the other.
I really need advice on what to do,because even though I still have a soft spot for
him, I don't want to continue with the relationship.
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