Every relationship comes with some rough patches and good seasons, however, it
becomes a source of concern if the bad times becomes extended.
If you are always disagreeing with your partner, even on small issues, and
constantly fighting, then it’s obvious that both of you are in the wrong
relationship.
Sometimes, it appears as if things are rosy again, and this gets you confused.
Are you in love with this person or not?
Here are 7 sure signs that you are absolutely NOT in love with your partner:
1.The one you run to: When you are troubled about something, it
is only normal that the first person you turn to is the man in your life.
However, if you find it easier to confide in some other person who isn’t
your boyfriend/husband, then it means you don’t trust him enough to
share your feelings with him. This is a sure sign that there’s trouble in
paradise.
2. Little things get you angry: When you pick a fight with him simply
because he didn’t tighten the toothpaste cap after use, or tell him to
keep quiet when he whistles in the shower, it means you don’t love him. If
you do, you wouldn’t make such a fuss over little things to the point of
starting a quarrel. If every of his flaws irritate you or you find it quite
unbearable to be beside him for more than 10 minutes, please end the
relationship or else you’re heading for disaster.
3. You dress up with other men in mind: Dressing up for your man should be
a pleasure and not a chore. If you catch your self daydreaming about
some other guy or dressing to attract the attention of the guy in
question, then there’s a major problem. It means you’re in a relationship
with this other guy and not your current partner. Dear sister, you are so
not in love with your boyfriend!
4. The thought of marrying him makes you sick: Ladies start dreaming
about walking down the aisle with the man they love from the very
moment they realise that they have strong feelings for him. However, if
you’ve been in a relationship with this guy for years and you still can’t
picture yourself standing beside him at the altar, or the thought of
spending the rest of your life with him makes you sick in the stomach,
then obviously you shouldn’t be with him at all.
5. You don’t feel at home with his family: You know how it is in Nigeria when
your guy’s family get to know you’re his leading lady and they start
treating you like his wife. If you constantly feel nervous being around
them or you feel guilty because you know deep down that you will never
be their daughter-in- law, then of course, you know what that means.
You don’t belong there!
6. You always compare your relationship to others: If you love you’re man
and you’re happy to be with him, you wouldn’t care what other people are
doing in their relationship. Even the little rough patches you experience in
the relationship won’t feel like problems because you’ll always find a way
to sort them out. But if that isn’t the case in your relationship, then
something is terribly wron somewhere.
7. You don’t respect each other: If you are always berating your man in
public and he constantly returns the favour, you two should consider
calling it quits before the situation gets out of hand. You wouldn’t
disrespect a person you love when you are together, let alone in public.
Mind you, respect doesn’t particularly have to do with age, it simply
shows that you value your partner and the role he plays in your life.
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