Most of us properly know what it means to be pissed or pissed off or nettled or peeved, whatever, it actually means to get irritated, and develop that feeling of wanting to fly inside a well or wishing to fall from a sky scraper(this is for the white fellas that likes to break records that was never even built and not for us, I mean us Africans, especially Nigerian Igbo guys. Ah! We want more life to live & hammer). Anyway, whenever one is vexed for any reason whatsoever, let him shut his mouth up & zip his creamy lips, I suggest. He is even better off going to take a shower and perhaps practice dumbness trick on himself and to the world.
The grounds being that at the point of anger or any form of vaxation, be it hassle, ruffle, bedevil, fret, peeve, antagonism, etc. The victim in question subconsciously or conciously establishes cruetly in his mind hence, what he begins to wish at the moment is that the ground opens and swallow the resistant partner or worsestill, swallow him(i.e. the vexing partner in question), but to express the ground swallowing in words (which is even ,more efficacious) the vexing victim may or must be seduced to ulter filthy & disdainful sentences if not essays which he would eventually regret after all. This of course is drawn out from numerous experiences, yet experience they say is the best teacher.
The idea of keeping it silent & numb whenever one feels slightly puzzled or irritated is to maintain tranquility & serenity, which is are best medication for quarrels as well as best promoting tools for any habitable environment. In the end, peace and progress will be restored & the cause and the effect of the vexation is forgotten already. By the way, as humans, we have a duty to learn critically how to control our anger as such act maturedly independently. We all have a duty to make our world a peaceful and a better place to stay, its up to you and me.
By Bright Osunwoke.
Post a Comment